Icing on the cake and charcoal in the snow

Why do people now lament that there are too few people who send charcoal in the snow, but there are many people who add flowers to the cake?

The reason is very simple, rich people or people with status and real power, first of all, because he has money or power, so there is no worries about "adding flowers" to him, in other words, you lend him money is still helping him, you don't have to worry about him not being able to afford money, you help him, there is a high probability that you will get more returns. And "sending charcoal" is risky, because you don't know when he will come to operate, lending him money is likely to not be able to pay you back, and there may be no return for help.

In fact, whether it is charcoal in the snow or the icing on the cake, it does not matter whether it is right or wrong, people are self-interested and realistic...

To put it another way, if you're in a difficult situation, how much do you want someone to come up with a helping hand to you, and if you get someone's help at this time and get out of the predicament, won't you be grateful to him for a lifetime? Even if you don't fly yellow Tengda, you will know the gratitude; and the rich and powerful person, "adding flowers" is insignificant to him, so he will not pay attention to it...

So when you meet someone in trouble, try to help him, and repay him well.