In the world of feelings, the attitudes of middle-aged women and young women are different.
When she is young, she can talk to you about a lot of ambiguous topics, but if you want to really get close to her, or even want to take advantage of her, she will push you away sensitively if she is not sure that it is you.
In middle age, especially after experiencing some feelings and men, even if she is not sure that you are, as long as she has a good feeling for you, she can have a lot of physical contact with you.
It is not that women will become more casual in middle age, but they know the scale more clearly, and they also know that men are animals that think with their lower bodies, and at this age, if they do not let each other taste some sweetness, how can they easily pay for each other?
Therefore, even if a middle-aged woman holds hands with you, it does not mean that she treats you as a boyfriend.
In fact, when kissing, if a middle-aged woman does this, it is mostly just a play, not really loving you, don't take it seriously.
It is not that material things cannot be talked about in feelings, but that material things should not be premised on them.
Love itself is like a blind date, what kind of conditions are you, put on the table, if you feel suitable, then you can try to get along. The essence of free love, first of all, must be good feelings. If you don't even have a good feeling, talk about falling in love, which is probably a deception in itself.
Especially for middle-aged women, unless she just thinks you're profitable, she will definitely put love for you first.
Therefore, when kissing, if a middle-aged woman will put forward various conditions for you, especially the kind of very harsh material conditions, unless you can meet her, she will immediately push you away and will do this, it is mostly just a play, you better not take it seriously. Otherwise, when you do your best, you find that she is just playing with your feelings, it will be sad.
A middle-aged woman can't really have no emotional experience, even if she is not really with a man, in her decades of life journey, there will definitely be times when she is moved by someone.
If you meet a young woman who asks her to be both virgin and has no heart for any man, that's fine. However, if you are still making such a request in the face of a middle-aged woman, it is not that she is not self-loving enough, but that you have a problem with your brain. I would like to ask, under the heavens, who has the obligation to wait for your appearance all the time, even if you are excellent.
So it's not a bad thing for a middle-aged woman to not feel strange when kissing. But if she clearly kissed you, she called out the names of other men. When you question her, she will also refute you with a straight face, so that you can accept it and break up if you don't accept it.
There will be such a performance, then she can never really love you, and you are just playing, or even just using you as a spare tire or a temporary substitute. You must not take this relationship too seriously, otherwise, the more you expect, the more disappointed you will be in the end.
When a woman is young, she may hear a man say he loves her and think that he loves her purely, without any non-division. After all, it is normal to have no real experience of men and women, and to have very romantic and pure ideas.
However, when a woman reaches middle age, even if she has not experienced a man, she cannot be really unfamiliar with things between men and women. Her heart is actually very clear, why men should be good to her, and what will happen after approaching him.
Therefore, when kissing, the woman who truly loves you will definitely accept some of your temptations, as long as it is not too much, or too much beyond her definition of the relationship, she can accept it.
However, when you have small movements, she will have a great reaction, will scold you as a rogue to push you away, not give you any affection, it is basically just a play, it can not be sincere. If you are true, regret and hurt, it will definitely be you in the end.