I don't know if you remember that a few years ago, there was an "international loneliness rating table" that swept the internet.
Drink coffee, watch movies, eat hot pot... Once these perfectly normal behaviors are sewn with the prefix "one person", they inexplicably become the order of loneliness.
Those who do these things alone are also labeled poor or withdrawn.
If a person's heart longs for companionship and sharing, but cannot enjoy the food and beauty in front of him, it may be a little pitiful.
But what if it's just a matter of simply enjoying time alone? Like this woman —
"The Recommendation of the Living Woman"
"The Recommendation of the Living Woman" is a spring late-night drama.
The screenplay is adapted from the popular prose collection of the same name by freelance writer Yumi Asai, and is produced by the famous TV Tokyo tv tokyo.
He has created a number of TV series with personal activities as the theme, such as "Lonely Foodie" and "Camping Alone and Sleeping" are well-known.
The main actor is the well-known Green Leaf Eguchi Tokuko in the Japanese film and television industry, and the film and television works she starred in in the 40th generation, douban alone includes more than 100 entries.
Although she is mostly a supporting role, she has impressive performances in "Naoki Hanzawa 2", "Life Deletion Office", "Proofreading Girl Etsuko Kono", "Goosebumps No.1", and the recently aired "My Family Story".
And "The Recommendation of the Living Woman" is one of the few works she starred in.
The name of the Japanese literature is "Recommendation of solo active girls", "Direct", "Solo" is a previous "solo" one-sided name, and "solo life women's recommendation".
The translation name of "The Recommendation of a Single Living Woman" translates "ソロ活" as "Solo Living", on the one hand, it points out the theme, on the other hand, it corresponds to the unique life of Chinese medicine, which is also ingenious.
As mentioned at the beginning of the article, the protagonist Mayuya, played by Tokuko Eguchi, is a person who enjoys the "living alone" life very much.
At the end of the 30th generation, she lived unmarried and alone, capable and cool, and her popularity was good.
But only the large and small group activities are not sensitive.
Whether it is a women's meeting during breaks or a dinner party for colleagues after work, it is necessary to make an appointment to her "schedule" long in advance.
In the domestic drama, Itachi is a young woman who has a successful career, but often falls into the dilemma of being urged to marry.
However, May Lady Hui did not have these troubles.
She is not afraid of society, she is not lonely, but simply enjoys the time of living alone.
One person eats super expensive Wagyu beef barbecue, one person visits large and small zoos, and one person enjoys a luxury car costume experience with a minimum consumption of 25,000 yen (about 1,500 yuan).
Even the planetarium, love hotel and other couples dating holy places, she also chose to go alone.
Of course, this way of life has also attracted a lot of questions from the outside world.
"She must be very lonely, she has no lover."
"She must be very lonely, she has no friends."
But for May Girl, she has her own insistence on enjoying life.
In her opinion, many people will inevitably be overwhelmed by social attributes and unable to enjoy the various pleasures brought about by solitude.
In front of the group, to restrain their own image, but also to find a topic to integrate into, the starting point of vacation to enjoy life is gone.
Or when a group of people are eating barbecue, they will always hear this statement:
"Anyway, let's get a piece of beef tongue first."
"Anyway, another xx."
Then, in this "anyway" mentality, people ordered a table called "influencer hits" but not necessarily appetizing, and there was a lot left by the time of checkout.
In the eyes of May Girl Hui, this is also a waste.
Most commonly, when visiting zoos and aquariums, someone always turns it into a quest in an RPG game.
"If you don't hurry up, you won't be able to finish shopping."
"Hurry up, hurry up, you can't catch xxx."
Similar conversations are by no means uncommon.
Get out of the car to take pictures and get in the car to sleep.
But the result was exhaustion after a day of shopping, the camera memory was filled with various punch cards, and I couldn't find anything impressive in my memory.
But if it is done alone, May's daughter can focus all her energy on enjoying life.
Ordering only what you like to eat, I looked at the wagyu beef on the grill without distraction, just for the tender, full, endless taste of meat.
It doesn't matter if the cow leaf is not in line with the public's taste, you just like it.
Visit the zoo, aquarium, or stroll around like your own back garden.
Stop somewhere you like, feel connected to the scenery, food, or small animals, relax, and maybe have more unexpected surprises and discoveries.
Alone and alone, she can eat what she likes, be satisfied with the things she likes, and carve the time she likes in her mind.
Although the social nature of human beings makes us have to intersect with others and live under the eyes of others.
Solo music is not as good as crowd music is also a phrase that is always on the lips.
But for May's daughter, spending a lot of money to enjoy life and taking satisfactory photos is not to share or show off on social accounts.
Something delicious won't be difficult to swallow because you don't eat it with everyone.
As a way of life, it is enough to make yourself happy.
Of course, she wasn't trying to deny the meaning of being a companion.
Three or five friends are busy chatting about roasting meat paste, and then laughing at their own carelessness together is funny;
The little couple kept punching in the zoo, and although they were tired of themselves, they still smiled and enjoyed the common memories.
But the one who can enjoy life and experience happiness the most is the most suitable for oneself.
Of course, in the whole "Recommendation of the Living Woman", although there are some places of defeat.
For example, the sense of purpose is strong, and too much emphasis is placed on the way of living alone;
For example, many soft broadcasts that appear in the film and are released at the end of the film have been complained that "in order to stimulate consumption under the new crown epidemic, it is simply a TV series" and "a carnival of consumerism".
However, for the audience, we can still feel the concept of life that the series wants to express.
Why is the delicacy delicious?
It can be time spent with friends or yourself.
For whom is the costume for?
It can be a lover or yourself.
Why is the beauty moving?
It can be the person who is with you, or it can be yourself.