My son is 52 years old this year, because he suffers from cerebral palsy, he has been deaf and dumb since childhood, and he cannot walk or talk, and he is curled up on the kangtou with his limbs weakly all day long. Kangtou is the son's side of the world, in addition to the family, the son has hardly seen strangers in this life, lonely for half a lifetime, eating by people to feed, everything needs help... After taking care of this son with cerebral palsy for 52 years, Wang Zicheng, a farmer in Xianxian County, has become an 87-year-old man. In the past 52 years, he has taken care of his son's diet and living, never abandoned, and even in order to take care of his son, he also gave up the opportunity to go to a nursing home for the elderly, and touched his neighbors with half a century of licking.
Although he had a cerebral palsy, he was never wronged
The 87-year-old Prince Cheng (right) has been caring for Wang Shuangjin, who has been nursing cerebral palsy for 52 years.
Wang Zicheng is 87 years old this year, although he is old, but he is tough, deaf, blind, cooking, laundry, planting vegetables, weeding, simple labor can cope with it.
"I went to the army when I was 14 years old, joined the army in 1945, and was a soldier for four years." Wang Zicheng said that because he had served as a soldier, and his style was noble and his organizational ability was strong, he served as a village brigade cadre for nearly twenty years after demobilization.
Wang Guixi, the eldest son of Wang Zicheng, said that the old father was kind and kind, had a high prestige in the village, and loved several children.
52 years ago, Wang Zicheng's old partner gave birth to a pair of twin sons, named Wang Shuangjin's child when he was first born, he did not see anything unusual. But as he grew older, his family found that Wang Shuangjin spoke vaguely, walked crookedly and obliquely, and his intelligence was "much worse" than that of his peers.
The prince is 87 years old this year.
"I have seen many doctors, and I can't diagnose any disease, but some doctors say that it looks like cerebral palsy." At that time, life was difficult, it was difficult to fill his stomach, let alone treat him again, he could only raise it like this. Wang Zicheng said.
As he grew heavier and heavier, It became more and more difficult for Wang Shuangjin to walk, and his limbs slowly deformed to curl up, and when he was four or five years old, he could only lie down or sit on the kang and could not walk out of the house.
"Although he is a cerebral palsy, his family has never let him be wronged. Whatever he ate or wore, what other children had, he had. Wang Zicheng said, "No matter what, he is the treasure in my hand!" ”
He was seriously ill and did not dare to be hospitalized, so he served his son steadily
The prince became an old man picking beans.
This year, Wang Shuangjin is 52 years old, and due to physical inconvenience, coupled with lack of activity and rare sunshine for many years, he looks thin and yellow-skinned.
It was nearly noon, and the 87-year-old Prince Cheng picked a few beans in the courtyard and slowly walked into the house. Wang Shuangjin on the kang immediately danced happily, his mouth was screaming, and he couldn't hear what he was saying.
"He was happy to see me come in!" For more than 50 years, only I could read his sign language and understand his 'words'. Wang Zicheng explained.
Wang Zicheng said that when he was young and powerful, in order to let his son bask in the sun more, he often carried his son to the courtyard, and the grandfather and son basked in the sun together, "sunbathing enough" and then carried his son back to the house.
A few years ago, the prince became a cerebral thrombosis, and his family advised him to go to the hospital for treatment, but he looked at his son with cerebral palsy lying on the kang and hesitated.
"If I go to the hospital, I have to let my brothers serve me." Although his brothers can also take care of him, I think it is I who serve him most steadily. Wang Zicheng said that at his insistence, in the end he just let the village doctor come to his home for infusion treatment. Although his illness was cured, he also left behind sequelae, and now it is still inconvenient for half of his body to move.
"Since I got sick, I haven't had the strength to hold him anymore, so I got him a small bench. When the weather is good, I let him crawl and half sit on the ground and 'rub' outside, breathe fresh air and bask in the sun. Wang Zicheng said that when his wife and children were alive, the two of them took care of the child together, went out to work on their own, and could leave home for a few days. But since his wife died 17 years ago, the responsibility of caring for his son with cerebral palsy has fallen on him alone, and he can't leave his son for half a step.
Give up going to a nursing home for the elderly, and insist on taking care of my son with cerebral palsy
The prince became an old man doing housework.
Wang Zicheng is an old demobilized soldier, and according to relevant policies, people like him can go to a nursing home to spend their old age. But looking at his son with cerebral palsy on the kang, he finally decided to stay at home.
Wang Zicheng said that he had also thought many times that if he went to a nursing home, his son with cerebral palsy could only live with his two brothers. "But their lives are also tight now, and I can't bear to add another burden to them." So when he thought about it, he still felt that it was most appropriate for him to guard his son with cerebral palsy at home.
However, after all, the prince was old, and although other children often came to take care of him and do some hard work for him, the old man with a simple nature did not want to trouble people - even his own children.
"Why ask for something you can do on your own?" Prince Cheng said.
Although he was almost ninety years old and still had cerebral thrombotic sequelae in his body, the prince became a cook, picked up housework, planted loofahs and beans in the yard, and served a small vegetable garden, not only did not feel tired, but felt very full and happy.
Many times, the old man was hunched over in the courtyard to receive water and grow vegetables, and Wang Shuangjin, who had cerebral palsy, rubbed on the kang to the window sill and watched his father work through the glass.
"He can see me, his heart is solid; I can see him, and I feel relieved." Wang Zicheng said.
Many villagers say that although Wang Shuangjin is a cerebral palsy, he is really blessed because he has a good father!
In order to make his son happy, he gave his son a "performance"
Since Wang Shuangjin could not speak, the father and son had little communication, but as long as he made a few babbles, his father knew what he needed.
"Others thought that the tone of the younger brother's voice was the same, but the father could tell what it meant." Wang Guixi said.
Many people think that the father and son's usual life should be very dull, but Wang Zicheng said: "Don't see that he suffers from cerebral palsy, but with him, I have a lot of fun." ”
The previous summer, Wang Zicheng had a bad stomach and ran to the toilet several times a day. "He saw that I had just laid down and put on my clothes again and ran outside, came back and went out again, and kept repeating. He probably thought it was funny and giggled. Wang Zicheng said, so, in order to make his son happy, although he did not need to go to the toilet, he also ran several times breathlessly, specifically for his son to see...
I am most worried that my body is not working, and I can't let go of my son with cerebral palsy
When there was no one else in the family, the prince chatted with his son with cerebral palsy and told stories about his childhood. At this time, although Wang Shuangjin couldn't hear or understand, when he saw his father talking to him, he behaved obediently and quietly like a primary school student in class.
"He's still a kid!" The prince cheng kept repeating this sentence.
"In my heart, he was a naughty and sensible child." Wang Zicheng looked at the 52-year-old Wang Shuangjin and said with pity in his eyes.
Speaking of the future, Wang Zicheng was a little dejected, wiped a handful in the corner of his wet eyes, and said that he was most worried that one day his body would not work, and the most reassuring thing was this son with cerebral palsy...
But in an instant, this nearly ninety-year-old man stood up again and said firmly, "As long as I have a breath, I will always take care of him, serve him, do not let him freeze and starve, do not let him suffer a little grievance..."
(Yanzhao Metropolis Daily correspondent Zuo Dazhong reporter Han Zexiang text/photo)