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Zhu Zhu, a 37-year-old beauty, gave birth to her daughter "Little Pearl" safely on September 2. Recently, she posted her breastfeeding photos on social platforms, the photos of the mansion exposed, the picture is beautiful, the figure is slender, there is no pressure of postpartum obesity.
Her caption, on the other hand, has only one "decency", which translates to "decency". Seeing these two words made me feel empathy as a breastfeeding mother, and my heart was uncomfortable...
Only to see in the picture, although Zhu Zhu is holding the baby and milking the child, there is a cloth that covers half of Zhu Zhu's face, half of her body and the child's face, without affecting the photographer and onlookers.
As a mother, it is perfectly normal to breastfeed the child, and Zhu Zhu also generously breastfeeds the child, showing the nature of the mother. And why does Zhu Zhu, who has just become a mother, say the word "decent"? I believe that nursing mothers have experienced!
That's the so-called "breastfeeding shame"!
A woman took her baby on a subway, but it didn't take long for the child to go hungry. When the woman wanted to feed the baby's breast milk, she felt that the public place was not suitable, tangled for a long time, or could not resist the child's screaming to be fed, and could only let the child eat breast milk, at which time the child stopped crying.
However, a man next to him said angrily: Too undignified!
Subsequently, the woman finally couldn't help but say that the child was really hungry because there was no way, and no one in public places wanted to do this.
Mothers who have not fed their children cannot understand the difficulties of being a mother, especially when they go out, once the child is hungry, he needs to eat immediately, and if he does not eat, he will cry, where is you allowed to be reasonable?
So some people said: Then don't go out!
The whole society is advocating breastfeeding, everyone is also breastfeeding and feeding, how can these children grow up, how can they "not see" mothers milking children?
When we became mothers, we began to feel the unfairness around us to our mothers. Zhu Zhu, the newly promoted mother, will vent herself while writing a text to ridicule herself, while writing a "decent" joke.
Maternal love is the warmest and most touching love in society. Why is motherly love great?
For the sake of the child, the mother can not be afraid of hardship and tiredness, and can endure for a lifetime; for the sake of the child, the mother can donate her organs and pay for her life; for the sake of the child, the mother can put down her pride and borrow money to save for tuition; for the sake of the child, breastfeeding in the subway or other public places, what is it?
The baby in her arms is waiting to be fed, all the good mothers will put down their embarrassment, throw away the happy knot, and firmly choose to breastfeed the child, even if there is no independent space in a public place, even if there is no shelter to expose the body, even if there is no nursing towel, even if there is a malicious candid photographer hidden in the shadows...
At this time, young children need their mothers the most. At this time, the mother, for the sake of the child, everything can be put down.
This is maternal love.
Some painters say that the most holy picture is the scene of a mother nursing a baby.
But we also have to face the reality: in the subway, on the plane, in the hospital and many other public places do not have a special nursing room, mothers can not even find a public bathroom to breastfeed, can only helplessly breastfeed in public places.
The lazy mother remembers me in the office and is embarrassed to tell my male colleagues: My child is hungry and I want to feed him. They also laughed and said: They thought he was crying and making a noise, but it turned out to be hungry. When I finished feeding, I opened the door with great embarrassment and told them: You can come in.
Therefore, no matter what kind of public place, as long as there is someone other than the husband, it feels particularly uncomfortable.
In fact, when breastfeeding, even if there is a covering cloth, it will greatly alleviate the discomfort of mothers.
Children are unreasonable, hungry to eat, do not give food will cry. Mothers are not unable to go out, but in order to avoid various inconveniences, embarrassment and other issues, it is best to make sufficient preparations before going out.
1. Plan the route
Before taking their young babies out, mothers need to plan their breastfeeding time in advance and check whether there is a place to breastfeed on the way to the destination or if there is a place to breastfeed.
The child is small, in addition to feeding, it is also necessary to change the diaper and not wet, and occasionally pull and wash the fart.
Lazy mother I also take my child out of the house for half a day during breastfeeding, bus to subway. But breastfeeding rooms are not available on every subway station, and the third bathroom is not available in every subway station.
So the first time I took this route, I deliberately paid attention to which station had a third toilet, and when I went back and forth, I would definitely rest at this station.
Mothers take their children out, if the distance is short, they can go out again after feeding, but the distance is long, be sure to plan the route, where there is a lactation room to know. Choose the fastest and most convenient route, after all, no matter how convenient it is outside, it is not convenient to have your own home.
2. Fully equipped
Although the route is sometimes planned, sometimes the plan never catches up with the change. For example, if things are delayed, you can't get to the rest point, or you are occupied, repaired, etc.
At this time, it is necessary to see whether the equipment brought by the mother is complete. If there is a blanket, square towel or nursing towel, it can solve the thorny problem of feeding and changing diapers.
Why do you need this "veil"?
Whether it's blankets, square towels or professional nursing towels, let's call them "veils" first.
Covering up the key parts and children like Zhu Zhu not only protects their privacy and safety, prevents others from taking pictures indiscriminately, but also protects the privacy of children. More importantly, when a piece of veil is covered, the mother's originally uneasy heart will immediately calm down, no longer caring about the surroundings, but enjoying the beauty of breast milk.
Of course, you can also choose the "as long as I'm not embarrassed, the embarrassment is someone else" mentality to breastfeed in public.
♢ How to choose the right nursing towel?
Compared with blankets, square towels, etc., professional nursing towels may be more able to meet the needs of mothers.
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Lightweight: Can be rolled up, or folded with one hand into a backpack, stroller, or removed with one hand and opened with one hand.
This nursing towel also has a moving square buckle, it is not easy to jam the mother's hair, if you adjust the length of the halter neck in advance, hold the baby in one hand, and the other hand can be picked up and hung directly on the neck, quickly covering.
Breathable and windproof: In summer, you can shade the air conditioning wind, and in winter, you can protect the wind. Choosing a nursing towel suitable for use in the season can not only avoid the embarrassment of breastfeeding, but also play a role in protecting the child.
Not only indoors, but also outdoors, you can also use a nursing towel to cover the stroller, put it on the ground as a urine pad, and use it as a pad. After all, this nursing towel is 110×70cm large, which can meet various needs.
Easy to clean: easy to take care of also needs to be considered by mothers, you have washed a lot of baby clothes by hand, you will never want to wash the nursing towel again.
And this nursing towel can be put into the washing machine to clean the style, reduce the amount of housework, now double eleven has activities, is a cheap and good mother and baby products, worthy of the trust of mothers.
Although for the breastfeeding of mothers, it is not only a personal problem of mothers, but also a problem of society as a whole.
But when it comes to us personally, it is necessary to do a good job of protecting ourselves and our children, and no one wants their breastfeeding photos to be circulated online. Therefore, it is particularly important to bring a nursing towel when you go out!
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Finally, when encountering breastfeeding behavior in a public place, can passers-by face it with a normal heart, do not look at it, have a good heart and respect, and silently send sincere blessings?
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