Love is beautiful, something everyone wants to meet, even if it is a short love, it is extremely lucky.
In this world, there are many people who spend their lives looking for a lover, some people are lucky and meet them as soon as they turn around, and some people are very unfortunate and have worked hard for many years, but there is still no result.
In desperation, I wanted to find a man who loved me, I thought this was the last retreat, and finally found that the man in front of me did not love himself at all.
He's good to himself, just to get something.
In fact, true love for a person has feelings, a desire to protect each other, a fear of hurting each other, in short, both armor and weaknesses.
Falling in love with someone really has weaknesses.
If a man loves you, then generally will not do this, I hope you can meet such a man, he will hurt you to the bone, always put you in the heart.
Love, although there is no obvious standard, but true love and false love can still be seen.
Men who truly love you will take you to heart and hurt you well.
Although there is no spoon between husband and wife that does not touch the pot, and there is no one who will not quarrel because of trivial matters, the man who really loves you will reduce the frequency of quarrels with you.
Even if you quarrel, you will be soft at the first time and will not make you sad.
Men who don't love you will often quarrel with you, even if it is their own fault, they will not succumb.
In his world, he is the most important, and the rest of the people are not important at all.
Her friend Wang Xiaoting met such a man, if she could start over, then Wang Xiaoting would definitely not do it.
Wang Xiaoting and her husband are blind dates, because of age, coupled with the pressure of parents, Wang Xiaoting agreed, and soon the two people established a relationship.
At first, the other party behaved very well, making Wang Xiaoting feel that she had found a warm man.
In this way, with the blessing of friends and family, they soon got married.
Wang Xiaoting originally thought that after marriage, the two would be particularly happy, at least happier than herself, but after marriage, she found that this was all her wishful thinking.
After getting married, everything changed.
She suddenly found that her and her husband's personality were completely incompatible, and his previous gentleness was all pretended.
They often quarrel over trivial matters, and after the quarrel, the husband will not take the initiative to admit his mistake, but go out alone.
Whenever this time comes, Wang Xiaoting's heart is extremely painful, she does not know where her marriage is going, and she does not know what kind of people she will meet after the divorce.
Because of this concern, she did not dare to divorce.
But if you don't get divorced, you will live in pain all the time, and such days will last a long time.
Obviously, in this relationship, the other party does not love Xiaoting.
If you love, how can you hurt the other party, and this hurt is all brought by yourself.
As a woman, you should know that a man who loves you will spoil you into a baby, he will not bring you wind and rain, but block the wind and rain outside for you, and do not let you be wronged in the slightest.
In fact, there are many such examples in life, but some people are more stubborn and refuse to admit it.
Girl, don't be silly.
If the man who really loves you generally does not treat you like this, if he often quarrels with you and never knows how to take the initiative to be soft, then the meaning of your existence in his world is only a partner to live a life, not a lover.
A man who is willing to take the initiative to be soft when arguing, and avoid arguing with you as much as possible, is the man who really loves you and hopes that you will meet.
In life, the man who loves you will not let you suffer, he will try to make you live better within his own ability.
This is also the direction of his efforts.
If a man often makes you suffer and makes you feel the temperature of marital happiness, then such a man does not love you, and your marriage will not last long.
Imagine how you feel when you come home from work after a tiring day and not only don't cook, but even ask you to cook for him lying on the couch?
Do you think that such a marriage is very sad?
After a tiring day, I wanted to go home and eat a hot meal, but unfortunately, the other party didn't give you this at all.
In the end, in fact, he is not ignorant, just lazy, just unwilling to change for you.
Once or twice, you may still forgive, but after a long time, will you still forgive?
Believe that you will be disappointed in this marriage and eventually become familiar strangers with each other.
If the husband can be better, can hurt himself a little, the friend quiet will not be disappointed, it is precisely the other party's lack of love, so that their marriage goes farther and farther.
I asked Jing Jing what she thought, and Jing Jing said she didn't know.
She didn't know if the marriage could go on, and she didn't know what the future would be, she tried to communicate with her husband, but it was useless, and his husband agreed with his mouth, but did not act in the slightest.
How can a man who speaks well and doesn't act a bit love you?
With such a man, there is no sense of happiness at all, rather than binding yourself to pain, it is better to be liberated early and seek new happiness.
The man who really loves you is worried, he will understand your suffering, he will try his best to make you happy, such a man will put you in his heart and love well.
Love is like a person drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
Although feelings are a matter of two people, whether you are happy or not, your face can show it.
When you are happy, then your face will naturally be full of smiles; if you are unhappy, even if you have a smile on your face, then it is a strong smile.
Know at all times that marriage is for happiness, not for pain.
When you understand this truth, you understand how important it is to find someone who loves each other.
Hopefully, for the rest of your life, you'll meet a man who won't treat you that way, but a man who will love you with all his strength.
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About the Author: Su Xiaobei is a cutting-edge emotional writer and marital psychological counselor. If you encounter a problem about the emotional confusion of marriage in your daily life and you do not know how to solve it, you can ask me questions and look forward to your consultation and message.