I would like to ask you a question, who feels that their family is born in poverty and can only rely on themselves to get ahead? Who thinks they can get a little help from their parents when they succeed? Before seeing a news on the Internet, there was a senior human resources senior manager who worked in the bank for ten years, he posted a post on the Internet, "It is difficult to get out of the cold door", which means that it is now more difficult for the children of the family from the cold door to get ahead and succeed than the generation of our fathers.
This post has caused a lot of discussion, do you think it makes sense? Let's talk about me first, my family is born in the cold door, my family is not a cold door, my family does not have a door, I think now I don't know my dad and my mom so an ordinary rural couple, how to put three children, me and my two brothers, from the countryside to go to college, graduate school, I have always felt very lucky, my dad and my mom have not read much, my mom did not even go to the first grade of primary school, she will feel that reading is very important, eat more pain, but also for our three children to go to college, I have never compared my classmates with those who have rich families, saying that there are some differences between us, what inequalities, but we must admit that the world is somewhat unequal, they have many superior conditions we do not have, they have a lot of shortcuts we do not have, but we can not complain, everyone's life is different, some people are born with golden keys, some people go out without even parents, life and life are not comparable, How our lives are is entirely dependent on our own feelings, and we feel and complain all our lives. Then your life is to complain about a lifetime, a lifetime of feeling moved, then your life is a life of moving, a lifetime of determination to change society, then your life is a life of a fighter, there is a documentary in the United Kingdom called Seven Years of Life The film visited twelve different classes of children, every seven years and then go back to visit this is twelve children, to the end of the film found that the rich man's child is still rich, the poor child is still poor, only one child named Nick has become a university professor through his own efforts, It can be seen that there are still fish in the palm of fate, and there are countless examples of cold disciples counterattacking in real life. So when we encounter failure in the future, we can't put all the reasons down to birth, and we can't complain about why our parents are not as good as other people's parents, because the family is not good and does not cut off all the possibilities of a person's success, when we encounter difficulties in life, no matter where you are, you have to tell yourself that in this city you have nothing to rely on, except for yourself, what you can do is to kill a road in society alone, in fact, just asked when you found, Most people are not from the rich, we all have to rely on ourselves, so you have to believe that fate gives you a lower starting point than others, is to tell you, let you use your life to struggle a Jedi counterattack story, this story about independence, about dreams, about courage, about perseverance, not a fairy tale of the water. There is also not a single bit of human suffering, this story is a person with lofty ideals who has become a person who has broken the cauldron and sinks the boat One hundred and two Qin Guan is finally Chu Bitter hearted people do not bear the burden of lying down and tasting courage Three thousand Yue Jia can swallow Wu!
