Recently, somehow, when doing things, I am absent-minded, thinking of hurrying to finish and going back to study; when I am really idle, I can't read books, thinking wildly, confused and anxious. Is the change of circumstances that requires some sort of answer? Or is the stress of life requiring a more rational career? Can't understand, it's inconvenient to ask people, and it's hard to understand general reading. Is there such an answer, method, and wisdom in the book?
Group chat about the topic of the face, some people say that now for people to deal with the world, you have to be thick-skinned, or it is easy to suffer losses; some people even say that you have to not have a face to make money, a certain master has said so; some people say that if you want to learn to have a thick skin, you have to read "Thick Black Studies", "Anti-Classics", and what power to learn, and so on. Thick-skinned or faceless can be learned by reading books, and it is a bit funny to listen to. Besides, if it is so simple, there must be a "way" in dealing with the world.
We spend our whole lives searching for this "way," and reading is just one of the ways to do it. The Tao in everyone's heart cannot be misaligned by the changes in circumstances, and it can be found and guarded well, so that it will not be confused and troubled. "Not to be virtuous, or to bear the shame", there is no principle, do not know what it can be.
Seeing a passage from Mr. Luo Rufang (Near Xi): If you really have a big period, great strength, and great insight, you will be at ease and willing to live in the world, and blatantly walk the way of the world. It is difficult to make a berth, that is, to disdain the berthing; if there is no shore in the chest, it is not on the shore as the chest. Untie the cable and release the ship, downwind zhang, then the huge immersion of the ocean, across the line, is not a big happy thing! ("Near the Creek Subset") - there is a way in the heart, go down properly, keep the way and live a life, and suddenly feel enlightened.