Parent-child reading is more and more valued, and no matter how busy and tired, it is necessary to accompany children to read books, which has become the consensus of many parents. But is it necessary to buy a lot of books and urge children to read? Some children love to read in the company of their parents, while some children do not love to read anymore. How to make children fall in love with reading? What kind of parent-child reading method is most effective?
On June 5th, CCTV Central Video, CCTV Children and the National Health Commission jointly organized the fifth live broadcast of the series of live broadcast activities "Healthy "Children's" Line, June 1st Children and Adolescents' Health Week", which is "Opening the Book is Beneficial, Making Love and Reading Boys", which focuses on children's reading problems.
Professor Wu Xinchun, doctoral supervisor of psychology at Beijing Normal University and director of the Children's Reading and Learning Research Center, discussed common problems in parent-child reading together with the children's favorite little deer sister and Brother Huo Xiaolei.
What knowledge points dry goods? Xiaobian has helped everyone summarize it!
How to make children fall in love with reading
Children who grow up in books will definitely become interested in reading. In the live broadcast, Wang Hengyi, the youngest contestant in the fifth season of the "Chinese Poetry Conference", was connected. Don't look at the young age, he has mastered more than 3,000 Chinese characters and nearly 600 Tang poems and Song poems at the age of 5. Where do such amazing learning outcomes come from? Wang Hengyi's grandmother showed the small bookcase at home and introduced the method of cultivating reading from an early age, and their parent-child reading method was affirmed by experts. It can be said that the reading habits cultivated from childhood have brought Great growth and harvest to Xiao Hengyi.
Create a family atmosphere
To create a good family atmosphere, first of all, it means that there must be books suitable for children to read at home. It is best to have a dedicated reading space, a study or just a small bookshelf. Make books within reach and accessibility, and kids can flip through them at any time. Make reading as natural as eating and dressing.
In addition to the preparation of external conditions, a good family reading atmosphere also refers to family reading together, discussing books, chatting about the harvest and experience of reading, and jointly developing reading habits.
Parents play an exemplary role
Adults do not love to read, only ask children to read, often it is difficult to play a positive motivation effect on children. Children are the most perceptive observers, only parents can put down their mobile phones, read seriously, enjoy the fun of reading, children will follow and pick up books. Parents ask yourself: Are you brushing your mobile phone when your child is reading?
Increase fun interactions
Children are naturally active, and simple reading is a relatively static thing, and children will inevitably feel bored and bored. At this time, parents should help their children find the joy of reading. You can use a variety of ways such as role-based reading and role-playing.
At the live broadcast scene, a doctor's father Wang Meng shared that he used painting to accompany his children to read, and the effect was also very good! Parents can start from their children's interests, singing, story solitaire, field visits... All are great ways to spark your child's interest in reading!
Scientific methods of reading
Reading is not a skill that everyone is born with, but an acquired ability, so parents must use scientific methods to guide their children while cultivating their children's reading habits. Professor Wu Xinchun shared some common reading mistakes for everyone, have you done anything wrong?
Not too much emphasis is placed on memorization
Children's gains in reading will naturally be printed in the heart, parents should not deliberately emphasize memorization, mechanical memory will only make children afraid of books. Parents should focus on helping their children understand the books and discuss the content of the books. With full understanding and interest, children will be more likely to remember the contents of the book.
Not too much emphasis on short-term results
Books are a good teacher and friend who can accompany us throughout our lives, and reading is a long and enjoyable journey. Reading does not have to pursue immediate short-term results, parents can not ask their children to read a book today, tomorrow can solve a problem, master a skill, composition improvement is very much. The changes brought by reading to children are imperceptible, hidden in conversation, reflected in temperament, hidden in a lifetime of upbringing, parents must not be anxious!
Cultivate a scientific view of reading
In order to encourage their children to read, some parents strive to praise their children and give rewards when their children are well read. Criticize the child when asked what the child can't say about the reading harvest. Over time, children who originally loved to read regarded the reward as the purpose of reading, and reading became a utilitarian thing. Such habits are very detrimental to child development!