Many children who have watched the Japanese drama "Adult Style of Love", many of them do not have a very good impression of Cocoon (Atsuko Maeda), thinking that Cocoon is a green tea biao; I think this is not looking at Cocoon at a deeper level, which is disrespectful to Cocoon. Green tea biao refers to a woman who is harmless to people and animals on the surface, but secretly plays tricks and plays with feelings; then, is the cocoon?
Cocoon is a dental assistant who first met Tatsuya Suzuki (Shota Matsuda), who was a student nearing graduation in the physics department. From our life experience, girls are psychologically mature earlier than boys of the same age, and at this time, Ah Chen has not yet stepped into society, and the cocoon's understanding of society and human nature is obviously deeper than Ah Chen' level, which is the relative advantage of the cocoon.
In the process of their relationship, does Cocoon love Ah Chen? Obviously Cocoon is not only love, but also deep love, she bought Jordan sneakers for Ah Chen, which in the 80s of the last century, even if she had money, it was not so easy to buy, but she bought and gave them away. Cocoon in order to prepare to go to the beach with Ah Chen, specially bought a new set of swimsuits, when she knew that Ah Chen could not accompany her, she would rather hang the swimsuit on the wall and idle, rather than wear the swimsuit left for Ah Chen to go to the sea with Suzuki Yuki and his friends. After the unexpected pregnancy, she worried and told Ah Chen that after getting Ah Chen's promise to marry and then repenting until she asked for an abortion, in order to save Ah Chen's face and not cause him too much pressure, she could only silently choose to obey. In the love affair with Yuki, she still said "I am glad to dedicate the first time to Achen", which is the call of her own heart.
When she learned that Achen was transferred to the Tokyo headquarters for her excellent performance, she was happy for Achen, but it also put her in the dilemma of love. As a small-town youth in Fukui (according to 2016 information, the prefecture ranked sixth from the bottom among 42, 47 major cities in Japan, equivalent to Zhoukou in Japan), Achen came to Shizuoka (2016 information knows that the prefecture ranked 10th in Japan in terms of GDP, equivalent to the domestic Xi'an) to study, work, meet first love, and now go to Tokyo (quite domestic Shanghai) to work, all this has made Cocoon realize that Achen's roots are unstable, not only distance but also there are many temptations outside, Whether the handsome Ah Chen can finally return to Shizuoka, the place of first love, she may not be able to keep Ah Chen's ambitious heart. Too many variables in the future eventually make the cocoon lose its sense of security.
Aware of the seriousness of the problem and having a certain cognitive cocoon of society and human nature, we try to choose a method that minimizes the cost of personal risk. By expanding your circle of friends, you can reach out to and choose the lowest-risk Sunset Tree, and build it into your ideal partner through your own efforts. After the separation of the two places, Ah Chen's various performances verified Cocoon's judgment step by step, and also made her go farther and farther on this road.
Well, some people will think that this behavior of cocoons is called "green tea biao"; is this really the case? I didn't whitewash her, I just wanted to express my personal opinion. Green tea biao subjectively operates subjectively and maliciously for better benefits; according to this deduction, although she cannot get a corresponding spouse according to her own situation, she should at least choose a character who matches Ah Chen or her beauty. In fact, she hates the frivolity of others, and she does not choose according to the standard of Lang Cai's female appearance, and in the end she chooses Yuki, who is neither handsome nor cowardly and good at expression. Behind this behavior, I think she is just looking for a sense of security to reduce the secondary harm to herself. Some other friends may not be convinced, they feel that behind this behavior should be Cocoon's revenge on Ah Chen, I think it is a bit funny, if you really want to retaliate, it should be like the knife Bai Feng in "Tianlong Eight Parts", and Duan Yanqing hurriedly joined and he did not have to invest too much emotional effort; but in fact, Cocoon made his own suggestions for Xi Shu's hairstyle, and gave him another pair of Jordan shoes in the interaction, which shows that Cocoon also used her heart, she is also paying, all of which is just to protect herself, Reduce the hurt to your feelings. This kind of behavior of hers is only to protect her own way of life in the personal advantages and disadvantages, and she herself has no subjective malice. Protect yourself, can this be calculated?
People have feelings, but people are only different from animals, or there are rational considerations, based on the consideration of reality and survival, try to find the best solution. The world is inherently cruel, and the competition for survival must return the cocoon to rationality and abandon pure feelings.
The objective development of the world will not be diverted by the will of man.
Is Cocoon wrong?