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Perhaps, women are somewhat "inexplicable" in the eyes of men.
It's like a bubble, beautiful, moving, but it can shatter at the touch of a button.
Perhaps, this makes many men wonder why she is still like a wayward cat when he feels that he has been very good to her.
Be sure to climb over the walls of your world so that you can't catch her heart... What exactly does she want?
In fact, women's love is very simple, men should not be "confused" by their crisscrossing minds.
It is nothing more than a "maze" that they inadvertently laid down in order to obtain more sincere feelings.
These "mazes" are women with rich sensibility and insufficient rationality, in order to make their eyes brighter;
It is easy to see whether he loves himself or not, whether he loves his "decorations" enough.
So, bypass those decorations and reach the bottom of the woman's heart.
What they crave most in a relationship is nothing more than these things: security, respect, companionship.
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The emotional concentration of a man determines the woman's security factor
Security, in a woman's world, is linked to feelings. A man's sense of security may be gained from his career.
But a woman with a family melody and single-mindedness, even if she has a very successful career;
Without the nourishment of love, it is probably not really happy.
On TV, in real life, we can often see such women.
Their careers are successful, even better than many men, but they are not necessarily happy.
When they were busy for a day, looking at the lively crowd on the street, their hearts were somewhat depressed.
Unfortunately, his cousin entered the palace, and a high palace wall cut off their fate.
"The cloister is an inch of love, and the moon is lonely."
After that, for a long time, he never forgot his cousin Shu Mulu Xuemei.
And his cousin also has countless loves for him, even if the palace is magnificent and pampered.
But what she longed for most was still the man who was watching over her outside the palace walls.
Therefore, soon after entering the palace, she thought about it day and night, and the incense disappeared.
After her cousin went, Nalan, who was known as affectionate by the world, finally found happiness again under the influence of Lu Shi.
In contrast, Shu Mulu Xuemei as a representative of the infatuated woman.
If she loses the man who can give her happiness, it will be difficult for anyone in the world to give her that sense of security again.
Women's feelings in many cases, need the support of a sense of security.
And this sense of security, not money can buy, what is needed is for men to impress and pamper with their hearts.
If you don't believe it, men can think about it, under what circumstances do women usually emphasize their need for security?
When feeling that they cannot influence men's feelings, men hide something from themselves;
All the factors point to one answer: she worries that he doesn't love himself.
Then at this time, the man must firmly express his love for her, so that he can grasp her heart.
03
Respect can make women feel valued
Many times, a woman's standard definition of feelings stems from a man's attitude.
Just as a man loves a woman, he is always willing to restrain some of his actions for her and respect her choices.
And the woman interprets it as "he respects me because I am happy or unhappy, in his heart, more important than many things."
Women are tender, and for this reason, they will use this set of emotional thinking to "translate" some of men's behaviors.
In their world, respect equals care.
So, if a man doesn't respect her, she may get angry and feel like she's not being valued by him.
For men, fame and fortune status is face and the most basic dignity;
For women, whether men respect themselves or not, cherish them or not, is a kind of "dignity" for them.
Usually, women's emphasis on dignity is often reflected in reticence.
If they feel that the other person does not love them, they usually do not bother again.
If they "disturb" again, they will feel that they have become very light, and even if they can guard the man, their hearts are full of uneasiness and confusion.
Men's respect for women is a prerequisite expression of love.
Like men now, they like to call the woman they like to be "goddess"...
His willingness to enshrine her as his "god" in his heart shows that he has great respect for this woman.
Since this is the case, women naturally care a lot about whether men respect themselves.
04
Companionship is the best tenderness for men to women
Emotions are the theme of life for women.
To this end, they prefer to accompany him in chai rice oil and salt than bread and diamonds.
In the long years, grow old with him, even if the days are very plain, in her eyes, there is still the rest of his life, still the most precious.
Of course, there is a premise that this man loves her.
"One life and one couple" is the desire of many women for love, and women are willing to give up many things for this.
But such a disparity between the two, Zhuo Wenjun was touched by a song "Phoenix Seeking Phoenix".
For his sake, she gave up her life of gold and jade;
For the sake of that first sight, she entrusted the rest of her life to him, looking forward to his company for the rest of her life.
In fact, the woman is plain, but for a 'love' word.
Even if she sits in the prosperity of the world and is a strong woman, she also needs the person she loves, the sincere tenderness.