After the relationship between the man and the woman is determined, the feelings heat up rapidly, and each other longs for the two people to go on for a long time and live a life in a down-to-earth manner.
However, love has too many illusions, and the life that you desire on the surface is plain, but in fact it is difficult to maintain.
There are always some storms to go through, feelings and marriages are often not as beautiful as originally thought, and women's emotions are more sensitive and fragile.
So, in the relationship between the sexes, in addition to the physiological needs, what women really crave is these 3 "feelings".
I've seen a saying: women have been eager to find security in men all their lives.
In fact, women are the most insecure creatures, and when they fall in love with a man, they are eager to get the real love of the man. What is true love? It is in this man's eyes that he can no longer accommodate other women except her. Only in this way can a man make her feel at ease, and can also make her satisfy her fantasy of love.
Just like Zhang Ailing said a sentence: Most girls want love, in fact, to be loved.
The security girls want is nothing more than this: I can find you when I need you. When I speak, I know you're listening. I understand that you are in front of me, and there are no secrets. No matter what happens, I'm sure you've always been there.
In the process of intersex interaction, ask men to give women enough security to make the other person believe that you are a trustworthy person.
This is important!
In a relationship, women still need some sense of admiration for men. If there is no sense of admiration at all, even if they are still together, they may only be touched or will be!
Women's love is born of worship, and men's love is born of sex. Women always like men who are stronger than them, which will make them appreciate and worship, men's "strong" will make your relationship stable, and will also make women worship men, women love!
When a woman falls in love with someone, the other party must have some place worthy of her admiration, appreciation, and even worship.
Maybe it's the other person's outstanding appearance; maybe it's the other party's extraordinary talent; maybe it's the other party's precious character... Let the woman be thrilled, and then fall in love with it.
Once when Qian Zhongshu and Yang Dai first met, Qian Zhongshu's gentle and elegant bookish temperament and literary talent.
All of them were admired and impressed by Yang Chen. And Yang Dai's knowledgeable Dali, qingyi and gentle temperament, also made The Qinghua talent Qian Zhongshu shu.
The two people have found many shining points in each other's body, coupled with common interests and hobbies, so that each other's emotions quickly heat up, and they are rated as a perfect match made in heaven.
Worship makes the other half not only become an object to rely on, but also a comrade-in-arms who can appreciate each other and a lover who admires each other.
Everyone pursues happiness all their lives, and in the final analysis, happiness is nothing more than a feeling in their own heart.
And a woman's happiness is nothing more than being a silly woman in marriage, such as the fuel tank is always full of oil,
No need to command, no need to remind, there is always the only one who silently fills up.
So, what are the characteristics of men who can really bring women a sense of happiness?
First of all, we must have responsibility, we must have an opinion when encountering things, we must not follow the clouds, have the courage to do things, act as a protective umbrella, cannot shrink our hands and feet, and give women a sense of safety and steadfastness.
Second, we must have a sense of dedication and responsibility. It is necessary to have a decent job and a stable income, to devote the main energy to the career, to seek a certain socio-economic status, so that women have pride and happiness.
In the end, the iron needs to be hard, and to do this, it must have enough ability.
Therefore, it is very important for men to strengthen their self-cultivation and enhance their own skills.
Thoughts of your note conclusion:
A person's whole life, walking around and looking, eating and drinking, not getting sick, is a blessing, if you can meet people you love and love yourself and make a little money, it is a great blessing.
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