When your marriage is involved in a third party, can the law "do justice" for you?
First of all, a normal third party, her heart will be full of guilt and insecurity. Being a third party is immoral, but these emotions in her heart are precious, which is the most real embodiment of the conflict between morality and reality. Imagine if the law stipulates that a third party must compensate, then she no longer feels that this is a moral problem, because she has been punished, and she has cleared each other, and there is no need to feel guilty and suffer anymore.
It is difficult to say whether this punishment is stronger or weaker. I have always believed that the torment of the soul is the greatest punishment for man, and this punishment may not be able to get rid of for a lifetime. Once this psychic punishment is replaced by legal punishment, perhaps society will really have to go back hundreds of years.
Secondly, although the outside world is not welcome to the third party, in the face of escalating this matter to the legal level, everyone still shows a cautious attitude, more than half of the netizens believe that the breakdown of the marriage should not find "small three" compensation. As emotional experts say, in a marital relationship, there are only two parties, the wife and the husband. You have a responsibility and obligation to take responsibility for your marriage, and the "third party" is always only the third party. We are accustomed to pointing the finger at a third party, and even hoping that the law will punish them, never seriously thinking about our marriage, is the result of this breakdown really related to them?
The Law is above love. Since it is impossible to really figure out the clues at the level of "feelings", it can only be said that it is difficult for strong people to ask the law to build a conclusive conclusion for it.
The wife has been betrayed, and no matter how much she throws around and accuses and insults, we can understand it. But the law cannot be like a woman who has lost her reason, holding a weapon of power to claim compensation from Xiao San. According to this logic, if the breakdown of the marriage is caused by the mother-in-law relationship, can the wife also ask for legislation to claim compensation from the mother-in-law? Taking a step back, even if the legislation is really enacted, you get a financial compensation from the third child, but what about your feelings and marriage? Can you really count on the law to help you solve all your problems?
In addition, the legal community disputes this. Since the revision of the Marriage Act at the end of 2000, disputes over claims against third parties have persisted in legal circles. Legal disputes are complex and complex and will not be repeated here. As a result of the controversy, the issue is not legally characterized for the time being
Finally, my view is that marriage needs to be managed, and this business must be the behavior of both parties. Running your marriage well and leaving a third party inoperable is the root of the problem.