Author: Insight Book Girl
Those who have harmony will have pleasure, and those who have pleasure will have grace.
There is a saying that everyone's face is a resume of their own life.
The expression hides the recent state of mind, the temperament is revealed in the conversation and laughter, and the eyebrows are full of past years.
Life is made by oneself, and phases are born from the heart.
The appearance of a person is the appearance of his soul.
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Sunny mentality is the best skin care product for women.
The writer Duanmu Zizi said:
"If you have a bad mentality, you will continue to see a dejected and listless self on your inner 'screen'." With a positive and optimistic attitude, you will often see a spirited and refreshed self on the 'screen' of your heart. ”
Mentality not only controls people's thoughts and actions, but also affects people's mental outlook and appearance.
After a Hollywood actress lost love, she was immersed in sadness and resentment all day long, and over time, her face became stiff and wrinkled, and she was not radiant.
In order to rejuvenate her appearance, she found a well-known beautician to beautify her.
The beautician learned about her state of mind and told her:
"If you don't change your mindset and eliminate the resentment and hatred in your heart, I dare say that no beautician in the world can beautify your appearance." 」
What the years take away is only the appearance, and what really takes away a person's beauty is the pessimistic and negative mentality and the depressed mood.
The Book of Rites says, "Those who have harmony will have pleasure, and those who have pleasure will have grace." ”
Life is not satisfactory, with a positive and optimistic attitude to face life, maintain a good mood, then your image must also be glorious.
There is a friend next to me who has always looked radiant and radiant.
Many people envied her for being well-maintained and moisturized.
But I don't know that her bright and transparent external image actually stems from her positive and optimistic heart.
In life, she encountered many troubles, but no matter what happened, she never complained about the world, complained, and did not drill the horns and stick to her own life.
When she was tired, she would go out to relax, and when she was upset, she would listen to music and leave all her worries behind.
Even in the most difficult moments, she did not sigh bitterly, but had a good heart, encouraging herself that tomorrow would be better.
She said: "Even the most delicate makeup can't withstand the destruction of a bad expression." I've always believed that nothing can't be done, so I don't have to be bitter. ”
It is this kind of good mentality that can open everything and see open, which not only makes her feel like a fish in life, but also makes her whole person become calm and elegant, shining.
Writer Wende said:
"When your heart is always full of sunshine, you will emit a glorious aura;
When there is always a dark cloud in your heart, then even the most beautiful and moving appearance will be eclipsed. ”
What kind of mentality you have, what kind of image you have.
In the company of depression, not only does the mood become bad, but the accumulated skin will also become rough, and the beauty will naturally halve.
The heart is sprinkled with sunshine, the mood will be happy and bright, and the state of the whole person is naturally full of red light and full of vitality.
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Elegant temperament, is the top perfume for women.
Mentality affects a woman's appearance, and temperament determines a woman's charm.
As the saying goes:
When a woman has a temperament, it is like a mountain with water, and it immediately shows its aura.
However, a woman's temperament is not innate, but stems from the accumulation of bits and pieces of the day after tomorrow, as well as day-to-day learning and cultivation.
Reading is the easiest and most effective way for women to cultivate their temperament.
Women who often read books, even if they just sit quietly in the corner without saying a word, have an aura that people can't ignore.
The famous host Dong Qing is like this.
As we all know, Dong Qing not only has excellent professional qualities and profound hosting skills, but more importantly, her personal charm is full.
Wherever she appears, one can immediately feel her powerful aura and irreproductive intellectual elegance.
And this temperament that emanates from the inside out is exactly what she cultivated through reading.
She once confessed that she did not have any electronic products such as mobile phones or televisions in her bedroom, and she was accompanied by books every day before going to bed, reading for more than an hour, and this habit was almost thunderous.
Reading a lot of books not only made her feel like a scroll, but also exported into chapters and tongues.
It also adds to her charm, even if she is not greased and powdered, she can exude charming charm from the inside and out.
There is a saying: "A woman is very beautiful, but if she stays away from books, she will lose seven points of connotation." ”
There is poetry and bookishness in the belly.
The more you read the book, the more the content in the book will turn into nutrition, nourishing you from the inside of the body, making the beauty extraordinary and chic.
In 2007, Yang Lan was selected as the first place in "China's 50 Most Beautiful Women".
However, in terms of appearance alone, Yang Lan is not the most beautiful, and what really makes her rise to the top of the list is her wisdom, intellect and elegance.
What dominates the impression of others on you more than your face is your temperament.
Knowledge and wisdom are a pillar of temperamental beauty.
With this pillar, your beauty will not be superficial, pale, and hollow.
Voltaire said: "A good face only delights the eyes, and the elegance of the temperament can make people fascinated." ”
Beauty will gradually wither under the destruction of time, and the elegant temperament displayed after reading poetry books will become more mature and charming with the precipitation of time.
Therefore, instead of paying too much attention to the grooming and dressing of the appearance, it is better to enrich the inside, increase wisdom, and enhance temperament.
Elegant temperament, the soul will spontaneously emit a perfume-like charming fragrance.
03
The kindness carved in the bones is a woman's clothes that will never be out of date.
Shakespeare has a saying: The external appearance is a mirror of the inner world, and kindness makes people beautiful.
A woman's face is not only an outward expression, but also a refraction of the heart.
Kindness at heart, even if it is not so touching on the outside, will be pleasing to the eye.
There was a question on the Internet: What kind of most beautiful woman have you ever met?
A netizen said such a thing.
Once, he and his sister bought tickets to a distant relative's house.
After getting on the bus, she found a lady sitting on her sister's seat, and her sister took the initiative to stand in the aisle and did not let the lady give way.
He took a closer look and found that the lady's right foot was a little inconvenient, and the whole drive was more than 4 hours, and her sister insisted on standing until the end.
After getting out of the car, he asked his sister in confusion:
"Although it is a good deed to give way, we need more than 4 hours of car, and we can let her return her position to you in the middle of the way."
Unexpectedly, my sister said: "People are inconvenient for a lifetime, and we will not be convenient for these four hours." ”
Seeing his sister's kind and unknown appearance, at that moment, he felt that her sister was the most beautiful in the world.
A professor at Harvard University once said:
"Kindness, benevolence, these inner qualities have god-like magic, can make up for external deficiencies, and make women shine like the sun."
Inner beauty manipulates the outside, and a person with the existence of inner beauty can truly produce beauty.
When a person is kind, gentle, and generous, even if the appearance is not so beautiful, it will still make people feel heartbroken.
When a person is ugly at heart, well-behaved, and full of anger, even if there are many expensive brand-name additions, it will be uncomfortable.
The kindness engraved in the bones is the clothes that a woman never fades in her life.
As Rousseau said, a woman can make a splash with decorations, but to be truly loved, you must also rely on her character.
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Your face is your feng shui.
It reveals your state, reveals your temperament, and reflects your inner being.
When you have both the optimism that melts into your blood, the kindness carved in your bones, and the elegant temperament that you show after reading poetry books, your face will truly glow with charming charm.
Give it a thumbs up, for the rest of your life, may you cultivate yourself and live the brightest scenery in your life.