Life is made up of one parabola after another, and almost every peak is accompanied by a trough, so the top outstanding young people you once lamented are likely to disappear in the next moment, and the Forbes small rich man you once envied is likely to end in bankruptcy in an economic crisis.
It is precisely because of the turbulent and uncontrollable fate that we should strive to cultivate a calm mentality of laughing at the wind and rain and laughing at the gap, just like the star couple today, their experience in recent years is like a "song of the year": "Life is a light ladder that is high and low without losing momentum." ”
Just a few days ago, Su Zhiwei, who had been silent for a long time, suddenly attended the award ceremony of the "Seventh Best Employee Employer Election" with a high profile, and at first hearing the words "Employee Employer Election", I believe everyone felt quite shocked: "What is this kind of famous award?" ”
According to my understanding, these so-called award ceremonies are nothing more than awards held by non-governmental business organizations themselves, waiting for the boss or employees, who come to buy an award at their own expense and tell their own stories, it is said that the registration for this award ceremony is 3800 Hong Kong dollars.
So the problem is, although this 3800 is not much but not a small amount, the bosses took out this money to participate, in addition to buying an award, they must also hold a stomach of desire to talk, eager to tell their own stories, so Su Zhiwei as soon as he went to battle, he will be in the past two years, the impact of the epidemic of entrepreneurial blood and tears history in the whole.
Yes, we all know that Su Zhiwei is the leader of the grasshopper three sons "singing and excellent business", he opened a suit custom shop in Central in the past few years, that is, 2017, 2018 to 2019, these three economic golden years, and earned his first bucket of gold.
And this first bucket of gold as soon as the hand, Aso is more and more courageous, make full use of his dancing expertise, the partner also loves to dance the old drama bone Han Mali, opened several chain dance studios in one go, forming a quite large-scale dance school, because Su Zhiwei has a lot of business acumen, so his dance school has a full five branches in its heyday.
Only since the outbreak of the epidemic in 2020, the dance school had to be closed for a long time, under such an impact, Su Zhiwei's Mobil Dance Studio also had to close its doors, and at the same time as closing the store, four employees jumped out to complain that they did not get compensation when they were dismissed by Su Zhiwei.
As soon as this matter came out, the matter was big, all because of the employees accused of unscrupulousness, the domino effect formed later was terrible, that is, at that time, after the Hong Kong gossip reporter received the relevant wind, the first time he went to Su Zhiwei's dance school Mobil store to investigate, and found that the door of this branch was posted with a notice, saying that the building was updating the fire fighting facilities for nine months, because there was no water supply, so it was necessary to stop business.
First by the "unscrupulous boss" accusation affecting the reputation, and then by the rumors of the closure of the branch affected the credibility, Su Zhiwei's business map suddenly fell into a precarious state.
In this way, not to mention that those investor partners will lose confidence in him, there is a possibility of divestment, even if it is a student under the dance studio, they will worry about the boss running away after they pay the card, and even scramble to ask for a refund.
So under this stormy crisis, Su Zhiwei immediately made a counterattack, self-defense, his explanation is: "Our company has hundreds of employees, now a branch has closed, several employees have been laid off, this is a very normal business behavior, and there is an employee who has not even passed the probation period, is it not reasonable to fire these people who have not passed the business skills?" ”
Since Su Zhiwei admitted that he fired four employees, one of which has not yet passed the probationary period, then what is the other three, for this, his statement is: "They were speculated for a reason, now the epidemic is affected, all walks of life have been hit, the company's profits have plummeted, at this time you are not doing well, then in order to tide over the difficulties, I decided not to use you is also reasonable, after all, raising an employee who has not contributed is a sentiment, not a duty!" ”
Ok, even if the four employees are reasonable and excusable, then has the company paid enough compensation for layoffs in accordance with the law? Su Zhiwei's answer was quite helpless: "I am not so irresponsible, I have already paid enough compensation, and now that things are so big, someone must be doing something!" ”
Although the "employee complaint incident" of that time, it is obvious that there are competitors who obstruct it, but the purpose of obstruction has also been achieved, that is, Su Zhiwei's reputation has been damaged and his vitality has been seriously injured after that time, but fortunately, Su Zhiwei has been in the entertainment industry for many years, and he has also honed a will that "hurts the bones and bones cannot hurt the fundamentals".
He knows that doing business under adversity is not profit, but to live, only to live can "stay in the green mountains without worrying about firewood", so in order to "survive", he also decided to get up wherever he fell, and he would not renew the suit shop in Central with his heart, and take the money from the suit shop to support the basic disk of the dance school.
And this support lasted two years, recalling the past two years, in the words of Su Zhiwei: "Although I only have three dance studios left, but also to hire 100 employees, during the epidemic period, the dance studio was closed for a long time, I still insisted on paying employee wages and benefits, but also paid them to further study to increase knowledge, and at the same time there are additional medical equipment, compared to the money I pasted into to support the operation, the government subsidy of 500,000 is simply a cup of water, but fortunately, now the dance studio is reopened, and the students are back. Gradually go back to the previous level! ”
It is precisely because it is difficult to survive the most difficult dark days, the future is about to repair the vitality, trying to develop, so Su Zhiwei decided to spend 3800 yuan to participate in this award ceremony, not only to buy an award to comfort and encourage themselves, but also hope to through this award, these stories, let their business credibility slowly come back, so that investors and customers can regain confidence.
Seeing this, I can only say that it is not easy, and what is even more difficult is that Su Zhiwei only has one person to make money, and Liu Xiaohui, the xiannei helper behind him, is a full-time housewife, and usually rarely studies financial investment, but focuses on raising horses that her husband likes, but raising horses is a hobby that never makes money and only burns money.
Yes, don't say you don't know, in the early years of Su Zhiwei's earnings and scenery, he did not take the money to invest in the property, but gave the money to his wife Liu Xiaohui to help her complete her life ideals, that is, to buy an eight-year-old New Zealand stallion named "Junwang".
Just in March this year, their love colt "Junwang" also ran the ninth place in Macau, everyone knows that this world is as many successes as there are mockeries, accompanied by the ninth place of the lovely results, but some people question Su Zhiwei Liu Xiaohui and his wife, in order to make money, do not care about the life and death of the foal.
In order to counter these rumors, Su Zhiwei and his wife some time ago, they even accepted an interview with a radio station together, and said helplessly: "This time the Junwang went to Macau to play, only the accommodation fee reached 7 figures, and then counting the cost of other eating and drinking Lazar, the prize money it won could not make up for this big hole at all, among which everyone in the industry knew that only five percent of the horse owners were profitable, twenty-five percent did not have to be indebted, the remaining 70% were lost, we were the seventy percent of the money that was lost!" ”
For Liu Xiaohui's words, as long as everyone carefully considers it, you will find that she is not unreasonable, a cow's daily food expenses are eighty yuan, a famous stallion will only have a lot, not to mention that you raise a horse not only to feed and drink it, but also to hire a jockey to practice it, plus during the epidemic period, the horse running tried to pause, but the event was suspended, and the money burned could not be stopped, so that the money lost by raising horses was really a bottomless pit.
So I have to admit that there are as many downturns as there are in the scenery, take Su Zhiwei, whether it is doing business or raising horses, he has only shown everyone the a-side of the limelight, but silently swallowed the B-side of the bitter support, perhaps calculated, the money he has earned and the money he has lost over the years is likely to be only flat, or even worse, the flat is not achieved, at best it is a slight loss.
But fortunately, Su Zhiwei relies on Liu Xiaohui's internal help to survive to this day, yes, Liu Xiaohui's "sage" is not about how much bucket of gold he has earned by investing in financial management for her husband.
And it lies in the fact that she is neither defeated nor vain, willing to be single-minded, peaceful and divided, living a simple full-time wife life, running a good family in the rear, so that Su Zhiwei can fight with peace of mind and go out to start a business, which is also a rare and valuable virtuous virtue.
So looking back at Liu Xiaohui, although she did not strive for the inspirational sense of the upstream, she can give people a sense of contentment and happiness, as she said on social networks: "Just as the so-called, happy and happy again, so we want to be a shrewd person, there is a choice of course happy." 」 ”
Hearing Liu Xiaohui's words, I suddenly understood where Su Zhiwei's willpower to hold on to the end came from, yes, the comfortable husband and wife relationship is mostly a turnip and a pit, behind an ambitious, windy and fiery person, there is always a need for a calm, peaceful Buddhist other half, when they are in the rear, so as to prevent falling at a high place, they can softly land without crushing their bones.
So husband and wife after all is mutual redemption, common practice, perhaps each of us will encounter a lot of ups and downs in the future, but as long as we always remember, life will inevitably experience some sudden suffering, but there are always a lot of just right sweetness, see the truth of life but still love life, people will eventually be gentle.