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Preface
Is a happy marriage just the ultimate dream that everyone pursues? Or does it require hard work and patient waiting? The love story of Cai Yizhi and the legendary Wang wife Zhou Xuefang may give us some enlightenment.
Time back: an unexpected encounter between a star-chasing boy and a "underworld girl".
In 1965, Cai Yizhi was born in an ordinary family, his father was a primary school worker, and his family background was average.
He has had a strong interest in music since he was a child, and he is not tall in adolescence, and his appearance is not outstanding and handsome, and he can only be regarded as an unknown "nerd" on campus.
But his love for music has never waned, and he likes to soak in the music room in his spare time, and after school, he plays and sings to the music alone in his bedroom at home.
Although his grades have been weak in middle school, with his fanatical pursuit of music, he devoted himself to the music scene penniless after graduation, and formed the famous band "Grasshopper" with his brother Cai Yijie and friend Su Zhiwei.
Under the support of the queen Anita Mui, grasshoppers were once all the rage, and their singing career was in full swing.
It's just that Cai Yizhi debuted with an innocent dream back then, and he must never have imagined that he would one day be able to marry Zhou Xuefang, a talented girl from the "underworld wangfu".
In 2000, Grasshopper disbanded, but five years later, due to the shortage of rations, the three sons had to get back together and continue to work hard in the music world.
Although his personal development is different, Cai Yizhi is still one of the most outstanding members, his personal career has not only made a difference in the music industry, but also extended his tentacles to hosting, supervising and other fields to shine.
And his happiness today is inseparable from Zhou Xuefang, the virtuous helper he took in one by his side.
Zhou Xuefang's ex-husband, Huang Guinan, is from the Huang family, a notorious "crime family" in Hong Kong.
As the youngest member of the family, Huang Guinan once made a desperate bet to write more than ten threatening letters to many high-ranking officials, including the incoming senior official Anson Chan Fang in Hong Kong at the time, in order to exonerate his two elder brothers, and was finally sentenced to prison for this.
Back then, Zhou Xuefang, who was pregnant, worked hard for her husband and tried to commit suicide by jumping off the building to protest, which shows that she is very obsessed with her husband, and her attachment can be seen.
What's more, she later gave birth to a daughter GIGI for Huang Guinan, which can be said to be tireless in this marriage.
The division and integration of love (a married man marries a "prosperous husband and a woman" to cause criticism)
In 2001, Cai Yizhi, who was 36 years old at the time, met the sexy beauty Zhou Xuefang, who was a wife at the time, through the introduction of TVB actor Liang Liewei.
Cai Yizhi, who fell in love at first sight, fell in love with this glamorous mature woman with a convex and backward curved and graceful demeanor, but because of her married status, she couldn't confess it, so she had to bury her heart deeply.
Fortunately, Zhou Xuefang and Huang Guinan divorced soon after due to personality incompatibility.
Cai Yizhi, who learned the news, was simply overjoyed, although the age difference was a full 10 years, he was not restrained at all, and immediately launched a passionate and fierce pursuit of this long-awaited "underworld beauty".
At that time, after Zhou Xuefang's divorce and household registration procedures were completed, Cai Yizhi half-jokingly said to her, "Let's just live together", at that time, Zhou Xuefang may have been attracted by Cai Yizhi's enthusiastic personality, and he readily agreed.
In this way, it didn't take long for the two to start living together, and Zhou Xuefang even brought her eldest daughter GIGI to live with Cai Yizhi.
Until April 2006, Cai Yizhi gave birth to a daughter to Zhou Xuefang, named China.
In October, they finally officially registered their marriage, made up for the grand wedding wine, and held a banquet of 40 tables, and friends in the circle such as Jacky Cheung and Wang Mingquan came to bless them.
For a while, the news of this first-married man marrying a "Wang husband and daughter" caused an uproar in the circle, but Cai Yizhi didn't care about it at all, he just wanted to run his family well and yearn for a simple and happy life.
They are a match made in heaven (stepdaughter loves like her own daughter)
Zhou Xuefang's eldest daughter GIGI also lives with them, and Cai Yizhi loves her as if she were her own daughter.
In 2012, the 47-year-old Cai Yizhi had a son, and Zhou Xuefang gave birth to a son in Hong Kong Adventist Hospital, and the family of four was happy.
In addition to participating in performance activities and concerts, Cai Yizhi also co-founded a design company with insiders, engaged in lyrics and composition, record producers, and TV program hosts, and his career is thriving.
He was awarded "Best Program Host" at the 2011 "Ten Thousand Stars Awards".
A happy life with heart management (well received by relatives and friends)
The couple operates with heart and has a wide network of contacts in Hong Kong.
The talented girl Yu Cheng celebrated her 70th birthday, and the two went to congratulate in person.
Relatives and friends such as Zhang Zhilin, Yuan Yuyi, Guan Xinyan, Yang Changzhi, etc., also spoke highly of the couple.
After Zhou Xuefang married Cai Yizhi, she stayed away from the turbulent past and lived a comfortable and happy life.
She is not only good at financial management, but also has her own unique views on fashion taste, and she personally chooses clothes to match for her husband's performances every time, showing her infinite talent.
She herself is also accused of being able to "freeze her age", and she has been well maintained for many years, not looking old at all, and she is slender and stylish.
The life of the two became more and more prosperous, first moving into a luxury villa area with a monthly rent of 80,000 yuan, and then spending 400,000 yuan to buy a seven-seater luxury car.
There are Filipino maids at home to help take care of the children, which can be described as worry-free.
No matter where they are, as long as they are together, the two are extremely affectionate, sweet and warm.
A loving family (family harmony and happiness)
In 2021, Cai Yizhi and his wife held a grand "crystal wedding" party to celebrate their 15th wedding anniversary.
On the same day, a family of five was dressed up in style and the atmosphere was happy.
Both daughters dress quite maturely and fashionably, probably influenced by their mothers; The youngest son is well-dressed in a suit, with a big back comb, and is particularly handsome and cute.
To this day, the couple still maintains a good lifestyle and the habit of exercising, often learning aerial yoga and other sports together with yoga instructors.
Although they are both over half a hundred years old, the figures of the two are managed quite well, Zhou Xuefang is slender and chic, Cai Yizhi has black and shiny hair, and he is fashionable and young and stylish, and he can't tell his age at all.
epilogue
Some people say that age-appropriate marriage is king.
The marriage between Cai Yizhi and Zhou Xuefang is enough to support this view.
A grassroots star-chasing boy, with an indissoluble bond with a "legendary prosperous woman" who was once in the haze, finally walked to the palace of life and walked hand in hand on this happy marriage road.
They have gone through arduous waiting and pursuit, and have managed their families with their hearts.
Even if there are some shadows in each other's past, they can eventually let go of their past grievances and devote themselves to a beautiful married life.
The couple used their own personal experience to interpret what a happy family should look like - tolerance, understanding, love and support, and unite the whole family with selfless love.
Of course, their stories also give us enough inspiration: a happy marriage is not achieved overnight, it requires the cherishing and hard work of both parties.
Whether Cai Yizhi took the initiative to pursue Zhou Xuefang, or the two later managed their families with their hearts, they all condensed their desire for a happy marriage.
Because of this, their marriage road will be smooth all the way, rising step by step, and finally reach the other side of happiness.
May all love be fulfilled and go hand in hand to the glory of life.
Let us applaud the ups and downs and magnificent marriage story of Cai Yizhi and Zhou Xuefang, and wish them to grow old together and love each other in the future.