From the two levels of "care": on the individual level, care is an emotional comfort to the weak. At the social level, care is to make society have tendentious attitudes and behaviors towards vulnerable groups through policies and regulations, media publicity and other channels. We believe that the opposing counsel's view is inherently wrong. It's not that men need care more than women, it's that men need care too. The word "more" in the debate indicates that this is a comparative proposition. Therefore, the measurable social dimension has become the main category of our discussion. From ancient times to the present, we cannot deny the fact that women have always been in a weak position relative to men. It may seem to be somewhat alleviated on the surface, but in fact, deep-rooted female discrimination has always affected this society. Faced with discrimination in employment, education, family responsibility, and social attitudes. The vast majority of women, on the one hand, bear the heavy responsibility of human reproduction, on the other hand, they bear the weight of social production, and women should not receive more care for everything with such a weak body? Secondly, in terms of the differences between men and women, women are more vulnerable than men and more susceptible to multiple physical and psychological diseases. According to the survey, breast cancer, depression, migraine, chronic back pain and fatigue syndrome iron deficiency anemia have become the five major diseases in women. Psychologically, the suicide rate is 1:3 for men and 3 for women. China has the second highest suicide rate among women in the world and 48th among men. "O woman, your name is the Weak!" When Shakespeare did not know whether to shout this sentence out of anger or sympathy, whether it was helpless or reproachful, men and women all over the world expressed unusual identification, why? Just because women are synonymous with the weak. Shouldn't we show more care to the weak who carry the burden of life?
Caring for women is not only the care for women, but also the respect for life and the care for all mankind. 1. Let's look at such a set of data, the incidence of domestic violence in China is 29.7%-35.7%, of which 90% of the victims are women 2. Men need care, but women do not need more than women? Let me point out what a male is. Ancient artificial characters, are very connotative, this "male" word split is "Tian Li", that is, "the labor force in the field", to the male so defined, it emphasizes that men should be the pillar of society, should grow up under the hot sun, great in dedication, such a type of people can be preoccupied to pursue more care? If men are placed everywhere in a position of more care and subordination, how will men achieve their male bodies? Men should be strong, to have a strong body, a strong physique, they must receive more baptism of wind and rain, rather than the care and love that is too much in the mouth and held in the palm of the hand. 3. Since human beings entered the patriarchal era, men have relied on their physical strength, and by virtue of their physical advantages, they dominate society and dominate human beings.
For thousands of years, men have wanted women to be three from four virtues, requiring women to abide by chastity, requiring women to have children at home, so that women can become appendages of men, can no longer have their independent personality, can no longer survive in their way, but women are silently bearing all this pain, silently contributing all their own to the development of mankind. Such a great woman has endured so much unfairness, and no one with a little conscience would object to giving a woman a little more care, right?! Not to mention the man who created this situation?!!! 4 Men and women together constitute this society. As the strongest in this society, there is no reason not to give more care to women in vulnerable positions, and the inequalities between men and women in modern society are ultimately caused by thousands of years of male power. The existence of bullying is unreasonable and should not be! In order to eliminate these, men and society as a whole should give women more care in the true sense, so that women can really find their place in care!
5. There is "March 8" Women's Day in the world, why is there no men's holiday? There is a "Law on the Protection of Women's and Children's Rights and Interests" in the law, but there is no law on the protection of men's rights and interests, which does not just prove that in reality, women need more care, help, and love from the family and from society? (The inquiry question should start from the facts, can you say that you... 6. Worldwide, 70 to 90 per cent of women are engaged in housework. According to the United Nations '2005 Chinese Development Report], women's gender wages are low, and the phenomenon of unequal pay for equal work between men and women is very serious; the enrolment rate of female students is lower than that of male students, which is 12 percentage points lower than that of undergraduates; the proportion of men enjoying retirement insurance is 30 percentage points higher than that of women; and the coverage rate of male working maternity leave is actually 8 white points higher.
7. From the past to the present, we believe that women have always been concerned as weak. As the Titanlik was about to sink, the captain gave an order: women and childen first. Women deserve more care. 8. Even today, in some backward areas, women are still a group without social status or even human dignity. A woman worker once encountered such an incident, when she was doing a rural women's suicide intervention survey in rural China, she knocked on the door of a peasant family and asked, "Is there anyone?" A woman's voice came from inside the house: "No one, the family went down to the field." This incident immediately gave this women worker a blow, because the voice she heard was clearly that the woman herself did not regard herself as a person.
9 Men and women are simply two different species. This difference is mutually causal in natural attributes and social attributes. What we need is to face up to the differences between women and men, both to conform to the naturalness of women's lives and to find the most suitable position for women themselves in society. So what is appropriate, it is obvious that as a weak person corresponding to the strong, the woman, her existence itself is in the position of being cared for and cared for, just like the mother to the baby. If we do the opposite, when we raise a man, we put the man in a position of being cared for and taken care of and subordinate, just imagine, can the man still become a man? 10. Statisticians and sociologists tell us that the average Chinese woman spends 4 hours a day on cooking, laundry and other housework, more than twice as long as men. Working hours combined with housework hours, women spend 1.2 more hours a day than men. But what statisticians don't tell us is that a woman's day sometimes doesn't equal 24 hours, but 26 or 30 hours. In this situation, can women care less than men?
11. A social survey. Forty-five-six percent of women surveyed rate their marriages as "happiness"; about twenty percent consider themselves to be "respectful" to their husbands; thirty-two percent feel "bland" about marriage; and less than two percent describe their marriages as "indifferent" and "painful".
There is no clear direction. Today, our criteria for judging which group needs more care is called "vulnerable groups". Because "weakness" is inherently a relative concept. The elderly and children are disadvantaged relative to adults, and migrant workers are vulnerable relative to urban residents with urban household registration. We say that in modern society, women are vulnerable relative to men because we see a series of empirical materials that show that, on a general level, women have less access to social resources than men, and women have less access to social resources than men. We hope that the opposing counsel and all the spectators present today will be able to clarify the fact that even if the slogan of "equality between men and women" has abounded, such a concept is far from being deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and women are still a vulnerable group in our society today, and such a weak position is still an indisputable fact.