The reason why there is dissatisfaction between husband and wife is because they cannot understand the true intentions of each other's words and actions, resulting in a sense of distance between them.
Although they are husband and wife, two people are originally strangers, first of all, men and women have many differences in understanding things and communicating. At the same time, differences in each person's home environment can also have an impact. So it's not easy to understand each other.
Here are four steps to improve marital status and how to do it.
In order to maintain a marital relationship, the timing of meals is important.
So, don't say that you don't have time to eat together because you're too busy at work, you should try to increase the number of times you eat together.
Below is an example of a married couple. The couple spends a long time each day eating together and communicating with each other about the day. The husband is also happy when the wife does what he wants to eat, because two people eat the same thing every day and the body wants the same thing. In this way, the husband likes to go home for dinner, he tries to get home as soon as possible every day, and his wife also does her best to make the meals to make the husband happy.
While eating together every day can be difficult because everyone has their own job, the husband's attitude is important and the wife will be more understanding of the husband. Shopping and cooking together will also bring couples closer together.
Communication is essential for maintaining a good marital relationship. The most important of these is thanks.
The wife did not complain to the husband, who said a lot of thank you anyway. The wife thinks it's great and says thank you even if she helps with the dishes during meals and naturally starts to express her gratitude. The husband always helps his wife take out the garbage, so the wife says thank you every time.
This may seem like a small thing, but in fact, it is a very important point. This couple has helped a lot in building a good relationship, say thank you more.
When there is a common topic, communication between husband and wife naturally increases. Therefore, it is recommended that couples try things that interest each other together.
Don't use not being interested as an excuse, try the same hobbies first, so that the world expands and the conversations between husband and wife increase.
If couples can have common hobbies, they can build a good relationship. The more couples share, the stronger the attachment relationship, and sharing means knowing how each other feels. What matters is not what you do, but who you are with.
Couples who have come this far should be able to discuss some of the family's major issues, such as future life and parenting.
If it feels like it's hard to discuss these big issues at first, why not talk about housework first?
The reason is that even if the husband says that I can help my wife with housework, the wife often feels that the husband does not do anything at home.
For couples who are constantly arguing, it is advisable for both parties to lower the level of expectations and demands on their partners.
Because if you know that the other person can't or don't do it, then the dissatisfaction will be reduced. It's important to understand what the other person can't do. We should strengthen and approach our own abilities to withstand what we cannot do, because each of us is an ordinary ordinary person.