For example, when I take medicine, I will feed medicine, let the adults around me taste it first when I have something delicious, and leave a snack for my brother when I like to eat.
Just yesterday, Dashu took home a lollipop that the teacher had awarded him and left it for his brother to eat.
I have never known how he got along with his classmates in school, whether he could be humble, whether he could know how to love his classmates. However, when I learned about this matter, I was relieved that the tree would be a polite child wherever it was.
When I came back from school in the afternoon, I walked across the road and met a female classmate in the big tree class, and the big tree greeted her. The girl called out the tree's name and said, "Thank you for today." ”
The tree said, "No thanks, it doesn't matter." ”
I was puzzled and asked The Tree, "How can she say thank you?" Say hello and still need to be thankful? ”
The tree said, "That's not the case. When she entered the school at noon today, she accidentally fell, hit her knees, did not bleed, but a little broken skin, quite painful, she cried. I coaxed her and accompanied her all the way to the classroom. When I got to the classroom, I told the two class leaders of our class about this, and asked the class leader to take her to the class teacher, and then let the class teacher take her to the infirmary to see. ”
Unexpectedly, the big tree handled this matter to my satisfaction. One is that he can comfort his classmates, always accompany her, and do not let her go; second, after he arrives at the classroom, he does not ask for credit to take the injured classmates to the class teacher, but lets the class leader do this, and the responsibilities are clear; the third is that he thinks that if the classmates are slightly injured, they can go to the school infirmary to deal with it.
This girl is also very good, Dashu did this for her, after school, she still remembers to say thank you, I think she is a good child who knows how to be grateful.
"Did the class teacher take her to the infirmary later?" I asked.
"I don't know. I didn't follow. Besides, I don't know if the school has an infirmary. ”
"I don't know if your school has an infirmary, but I think a school as big as this should have an infirmary, right?" However, as long as you tell the class teacher, the class teacher will handle this matter well. "I said to the tree.
Of course, I didn't forget to praise the tree: "You did a good job today, it really warmed people's hearts." It's a bit of a gentleman's flamboyant. ”
"What is a little gentleman?"
"A person who is well-mannered, well-behaved, helpful, and able to bring warmth to people can be called a gentleman." I told him so.
Before retirement, I often learned some teaching experience from other places, remembering that there are schools, and their training goals are for girls to cultivate a ladylike temperament, and boys are humble and courteous to train gentlemanly demeanor. I think their philosophy is very good. In the modern fast-paced society, it seems that even education has become a fast food, everyone is in a hurry to achieve quick success, too much attention to the immediate success or failure, how many people can think about the future of their children?
There is a saying that character determines fate, temperament determines the pattern, and details determine success or failure. Therefore, if you can really cultivate students into "ladies" and "gentlemen" with your heart, it is really remarkable.
Of course, in the process of cultivating children's good behavior habits, family education plays a vital role. Children are a mirror for parents. Therefore, parents should play a good role model and use good family style to influence their children.
I am @Liuyun Youmeng Dream Quality Culture Field Creator, thank you for your attention. Welcome to my small talk about culture and talk about emotions.