What have you gotten out of all these years of wearing beauty?
With the original intention of wanting to make more women closer to their ideal selves, Beauty Ji and many beauty-loving women continue to break through the limit and run to one destination after another.
Some people say that they have achieved a satisfying and abundant life, some people say that they have found a shining point of self-confidence, some people say that they have learned the secret of physical and mental pleasure...
But on this seemingly harvested road, there are still some "losses".
Insist on wearing a beauty meter, what will you "lose"? In order to find the answer to this question, we selected 3 "beauty plan senior iron fans" from the cases around us, and told their "loss" respectively.
"Lost" friends
@Yes Li Li Ya 35 years old Full-time Mom & Beauty Plan Entrepreneur
Go beyond the "old friend" and approach the "new friend".
Before I came into contact with Beauty, I had many "friends" who, like me, spent all day with their babies and worked for the family. The most talked about topics we talked about together were "today's recipe" and "how much the baby has grown up"...
It all revolves around childcare and housework, leaving very little time for yourself. There are many troubles with the body, but there is no time to take care of it.
Influenced by the Internet, I was exposed to beauty meters, the comfort of the product and the care for women in the details, which made me insist on shaping and slimming down more than when I was in my 20s.
I became self-disciplined, clocked in on time, saved my efforts, cheered myself up, silently set small goals for my figure, sometimes losing 2 kilograms, sometimes 5 centimeters smaller waistline...
That is, 6 months, in front of the former "friends", I became a different one. The figure has become much taller and slimmer, and life has become more rhythmic and fuller. This state is a bit in response to the phrase "beautiful enough to have no friends".
Life is suddenly bright, with a very different life from the previous 30 years, even the people who get along daily have changed "a group of people", and gained a group of like-minded new friends.
We no longer belong only to the family, but also to ourselves, I think this is the complete life.
"Lost" time
@ Indifferent Fragrance 50 years old Women's Clothing Model & Beauty Count Deep User
Blurring age, the moment is the best time.
Walking with her daughter, she is often mistaken for a sister. What middle-aged woman doesn't like this kind of [misunderstanding]?
After paying attention to shaping, my changes are really quite big, not really saying that I am ten or twenty years younger. It's just that the whole person's figure and spirit have improved a lot.
The body curve is well maintained, and in front of peers, confidence and aura are naturally there, exuding feminine charm from the inside out.
Even if I stand among young people and have a unique style, who cares about my age? In their eyes, I'm just a girl who, like them, maintains the same enthusiasm and curiosity about this era and the world.
For example, I also pay attention to the latest fashion wear, and I will also follow the TV series for "husband"...
In my eyes, age has never been a shackle to growth, on the contrary, it is the courage brought by fate, and it is also a gift from time.
I love the moment and I enjoy the moment. This makes me "lose" time, so that my body, my state, is the most beautiful at any time.
"Lost" boundaries
@ Lulu 29 years old Freelancer & Beauty Entrepreneur
Life has no limits, and the excitement is infinite.
Commuting to work, getting married and having children, everything is step by step, and I used to think that only this road in life was smooth and walkable, but it was not.
I have found that if I can't grasp my own body, I will also have an inexplicable sense of powerlessness in life. And when I made up my mind to change myself by changing my body, the trajectory of my life gradually changed subtly.
Many people think that at a certain age, they should settle down and stop "blind tossing". I am glad that I am not one of them, with a trace of reluctance and pride in my heart, I have broken through the limits of my body and the limitations of life.
From XXL →S, to achieve freelancing and live a more ideal life, the improvement of myself in this process makes me recognize my unlimited potential from the bottom of my heart.
Take the courage to break the inhibition of yourself, tap the hidden potential, and climb to another height in life.
After losing that boundary, you can appreciate a good scenery that you have never experienced before.
After listening to their answers, it can be seen that "loss" is another kind of "gain".
Stemming from the pursuit of self-improvement, insisting on wearing a beauty plan every day, while managing the body, we have found new possibilities in life. All "losses" are farewells to past unconfidence and dissatisfaction, and passion is enthusiastically turning over a new chapter and approaching a new dream.
Sanmao once said: Growth is a kind of transformation, losing the old, it must be because there is a new one, this is fairness.
Sometimes, losing your present ease, you think it will be a lifetime of waves. But when you face the difficulties, it will be a new experience. It is no exaggeration to say that it is a new kind of rebirth.
Perhaps, in the long life, accepting and welcoming "loss" and learning to choose is also a compulsory lesson.