Recently, the literary and art blockbuster "The First Burning Incense", adapted from Zhang Ailing's novel, was released, and the reputation was not good, Ma Sichun and Peng Yuyan were far from the original image, and they were jokingly called "Tiger Lady and Camel Xiangzi".
The aunt Mrs. Liang, played by Yu Feihong, has a variety of styles, easily stealing the limelight of the heroine Ma Sichun, making people wonder that such a beautiful aunt still needs to use Ma Sichun to catch men hooked?
Time was very gentle with Yu Feihong, and people called her "immortal goddess". However, she said: "The label of goddess is attached to me by the world, I am myself, I don't want to be a goddess." ”
In 1971, Yu Feihong was born in Hangzhou, Zhejiang Province, the son of a high-achieving student at Tsinghua University, and his mother graduated from Zhejiang Institute of Chemical Technology.
In such a high-level intellectual family, Yu Feihong received a very orthodox education, writing 60 brush words every night to sleep, and her parents did not allow her to interact with the mess outside.
Yu Feihong was raised by her parents to be a well-behaved girl who could not say "no".
Because of his beauty and well-behaved appearance, the people around him are very good to Yu Feihong. But she was not aware of her appearance, and her father taught her from an early age: "You must make the inside full, never make an embroidered pillow." This sentence affected her for the rest of her life.
Until high school, once the train was too crowded, a boy asked Yu Feihong to talk to the conductor and help them find a spacious place.
Yu Feihong was stunned: "Why am I going?" ”
The boys laughed and said, "You can definitely go, we will be kicked out." ”
In the end, everyone was arranged to the mail car, and Yu Feihong realized that he was different from others, and his appearance was also a kind of capital.
Because family education is too strict, The adolescent Yu Feihong is not happy and unconsciously planted the seeds of "rebellion". She always thinks, "Hurry up to 30 years old, grow up to 30 years old, I will be able to be autonomous." ”
Yu Feihong was electrocuted for the first time as early as the age of 8 and starred in the movie "Bamboo".
The teacher suggested that she study acting, but her parents thought it was more reliable to study and do the study.
Movie "Bamboo"
Yu Feihong listened to his parents and was admitted to the foreign trade major of the School of Foreign Languages of Hangzhou University, which is today's Zhejiang University, which can be called a bully.
After Yu Feihong read for a year, the rebellious force in his body awakened. She said to her father, "I'm going to drop out of school and go to the Beijing Film Academy." ”
Her father was not supportive, saying, "I want to be able to spend my life in the way I like." ”
In the end, her parents respected her choice, and she was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy as she wished, and became a classmate with Liu Yunlong and Shao Bing.
Even at the film school, where beautiful women are like clouds, Yu Feihong is considered the number one "school flower", and many boys try to get close to her.
Yu Feihong likes dogs, and several boys pooled their money to buy a puppy as a public pet. In the evening, one of the boys led the dog to Yu Feihong, "Go, walk the dog!" ”
Yu Feihong agreed, this boy is very proud, can follow the school flowers around the campus, his face is particularly bright.
Unfortunately, within a few months, the puppy fell ill and died. The boys were also particularly upset, because no one caught up with her, and they sighed that the puppy "died early, died early."
Now Yu Feihong still remembers that the puppy is very cute, but he does not remember the boy who leads the dog.
In the eyes of the female classmates, Yu Feihong is the smartest of the girls, and she has a plan for everything.
When the classmates are busy in love, she is learning English and reaching the level of acting in English; when the classmates are lazy, she gets up early every day to practice morning exercises and is never late; when the lights go out at 11 o'clock at night, she must have fallen asleep in bed at 10:30, unlike others who panicked and washed up before going to bed.
Everyone else exclaimed, "Oh my God, where did you get such a strong sense of self-discipline?" ”
Many people think that breaking free is freedom, but true freedom is self-discipline. Yu Feihong has always understood this truth.
In her junior year, she became the first student in North Film to star in a Hollywood movie. The movie was called "Happy Luck Club", and her efforts to learn English finally came in handy.
Classmates joked with her that she went to Hollywood to develop well, and later promoted them. Yu Feihong smiled: "It's just a small movie, nothing remarkable." ”
Yu Feihong plays a desperate mother in "Happy Luck Club", and her performance is appreciated by the producers, who ask her if she wants to stay in Hollywood and develop, and he can help her get a visa.
At that time, it was difficult to stay in the United States, but Yu Feihong refused without even thinking about it, thinking that the first task was to return to Beijing to complete his studies, and life in Hollywood had nothing to do with him.
After graduation, her culture class and professional classes were the first in the class, and she was given the only opportunity to stay in the whole department to teach, and Xu Jinglei was her student.
However, the next year, Yu Feihong gave up the iron rice bowl of the teacher of Beiying, which everyone envied, and went to study in the United States. She said: "If I have been in school and have not experienced any storms, then how can I teach others?" ”
"A passport, a foreign language, a credit card, that's what I wanted most in my early twenties." In the United States for three years, Yu Feihong lived the independent life he wanted, and his English improved by leaps and bounds.
Once, while she was crossing the zebra crossing, a car rushed towards her without slowing down. She instinctively ran away from the car, then walked quickly to the front of the car and scolded herself in all kinds of English she had learned, venting her anger.
The 26-year-old finally found her freedom, "I know I've learned it." ”
In 1997, Yu Feihong returned to China, and the director of the TV series "Holding Hands" asked her to play the female number one Xia Xiaoxue. She read the script, but became interested in "Little Three" Wang Chun.
"Holding Hands" is the first domestic extramarital love theme TV series, which is very popular after broadcasting. Yu Feihong created the most unsrientized image of Xiao San in history, becoming famous overnight, and the pieces floated like snowflakes.
In the same year, she played the amazing fairy in "Little Li Flying Knife", bright and invincible, and became a costume goddess in the minds of many people.
Next, she starred in a bunch of TV series such as "Peach Blossom in a Troubled World", "The Sword of the Three Young Masters", "Because I Love You", "The West Wind of The Horse Whistle", etc., and the high-intensity work made her more and more tired and unfree.
Yu Feihong felt that this was not the life she wanted, and pushed off many film contracts when she became popular, reducing the exposure on the screen.
Someone reminded her: "Sooner or later, you will be forgotten by the audience." ”
Yu Feihong saw it very thoroughly: "No one needs to be remembered for a lifetime." ”
Compared with many desperate third ladies in the circle, Yu Feihong seemed careless. She thinks that the days are her own and does not have to live for anyone to see. "My days are 24 hours a day, every minute is my own life, others praise you for up to 5 minutes, why should I change the 24 hours a day for 5 minutes of vanity?" 」
But she also has a "strong" trait, and Duan Yihong, who cooperated with her in the movie "Love has an afterlife", used "Fei Ge" to call Yu Feihong.
Yu Feihong was impressed by Xu Lan's short story "Ginkgo, Ginkgo", and decided to adapt it into the movie "Love has an afterlife" in 2000. She concentrated on writing the script at home, because of her lack of screenwriting experience, often lacked inspiration, and her head wanted to hit the wall.
In order to raise funds for the shooting, she mortgaged the property.
In the more than 8 months of filming "Love has an Afterlife" in Yunnan, Yu Feihong encountered more difficulties than imagined. She encountered torrential rains and mudslides that she had not encountered in a century, and had to stop for a month and a half, losing hundreds of thousands of dollars a day.
Her heart was like a fiery fire, but she had to force a smile to boost morale.
After resuming work, in order to shoot a shot, the whole crew had to climb the peak of more than 3,000 meters, Yu Feihong led by example to walk in the first, dozens of trips down, toenails were overturned, she gritted her teeth and insisted.
In 2009, after 10 years, "Love has an Afterlife" was finally released and won the Best Debut Award at the University Student Film Festival.
The film has a good reputation, but it invested 40 million yuan and only 2 million at the box office. Yu Feihong was very calm about this: "I have done a very luxurious thing with my heart, and I have no regrets." ”
The audience has known Yu Feihong for more than 20 years, and every time they see her appear, they will exclaim: "Why does Yu Feihong never get old?" ”
In the TV series "Little Husband", she and Yang Jiu, who is 16 years younger than herself, played a couple who could not be faulted.
Her elegant temperament, which has been precipitated by the years, is what many women aspire to be.
Someone asked her: "Aren't you afraid of getting ugly when you get old?" ”
Yu Feihong said frankly: "Don't be afraid, because the wrinkle thing is related to youth and has nothing to do with beauty." ”
Yu Feihong never hides his age, nor does he deliberately pretend to be tender, bluntly saying, "After making his debut for so long, what is the point of changing his age to three or four years younger?" ”
Who says women aren't beautiful when they're old? Age is never the measure of women, and women should enjoy the beauty of this age group at every age.
Yu Feihong's suitors are countless, and Dou Wentao revealed in the show that one suitor flew 500 kilometers to meet her and was politely rejected by Yu Feihong.
A producer revealed to reporters that Yu Feihong once had a boyfriend who had been in love for many years in the United States, and then broke up, and the specific reasons are not clear. Yu Feihong said in an interview that he did not secretly marry or settle in the United States.
For more than 20 years, Yu Feihong's love life is very mysterious, never exposed to the outside world, no matter how the media asks in a roundabout way, she smiles and replies: "I don't want to talk about my private life." ”
At most, say "I'm not married, but I'm happy".
Although he refused to reveal his other half, Yu Feihong still shared her concept of love: "Two people together, the key is to be in tune. I don't dream of a very fierce love, I think two people like each other, can stay together for a long time, and don't bother each other, this is love. ”
Xu Zhiyuan asked her if she longed for love when she was loneliest? Ever thought about harnessing the power of men?
Yu Feihong said that he especially does not like to put emotions and responsibilities on another person, so that he will be very tired, and others will be very tired.
She doesn't set rules for herself when to get married and when to have children, and she feels like she's going to lose her freedom.
"If one day I get married, I will work very hard to run my marriage, if I am not married in this life, I will not be sad, this is my attitude towards life." 」
Yu Feihong has always been very soberly aware, "In this life, I will not be a slave to any person or anything." "Not even the one you love."
For her, life is greater than work, there must be enough time to experience life, to have enough freedom. Women should not see love as the only thing in life, there are many things in life that are beautiful.
For the entertainment industry, Vanity Fair, she is always if she is ready to leave, intentionally keeping a distance, often giving people the feeling of "disappearing for a while after playing a play".
Yu Feihong said that she likes a stable life, has no ambitions for her career, and is even glad that she does not have too many talents, "just keep mediocre."
The 50-year-old Yu Feihong enjoys her current celibacy very much, and her beauty comes from her heart and also from the nourishment of quality life.
Yu Feihong lives very thoroughly, and women must first become their masters, maintain economic and spiritual independence, whether they choose to be single or married, it is personal freedom.
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