Japan's social problems are emerging one after another, and the two bloody cases are shocking!
Ryuichi Iwasaki, 51, slashed at elementary school students queuing with a kitchen knife at a bus stop in Kawasaki City, killing 2 people and injuring 18 others.
Hideaki Kumazawa, a 76-year-old former undersecretary of agriculture, forestry and fisheries, killed his 44-year-old son, Hideichiro Kumazawa, with a knife at his home in Tokyo.
The root cause is that japan has gnawed on the old people and surfaced. Japan's elderly people have caused social problems, and 610,000 people have not left their homes for half a year!
This social problem is pervasive throughout the world, but to varying degrees.
How to solve it?
There is medicine in the root of the dish, and giving the child some setbacks is also love!
Education is an eternal topic of life, and cultivation education is the cornerstone of all education. "Cai Gen Tan" is taken from the Song Ru Wang Ge saying: "If a person bites the root of a vegetable, then Pepsi can be accomplished." Meaning
Talk about it today, hear the words against the ear, and worry about the heart.
I have talked to many parents, and too many people criticize modern education, saying that children are unhappy and that there is a problem with the education model.
From the bottom of my heart, I agree!
But we need to understand that loving one's own children is man, loving other people's children is God, but God does not exist. Our children must grow up and face the pressure of survival, even if our families pay more efforts, the flowers in the greenhouse will be baptized by nature sooner or later.
Love is the bond that holds the family on, but because of love, we cannot ignore the cruelty of reality. Giving your child some frustration is true love.
This requires educators to deliberately design and leave no trace!
A person's maturity, first of all, must be able to listen to the words of the ear, I met a number of students, actually will be other people's language stimulation, extremely sensitive, generated a huge sense of frustration. The way they solve problems, avoid or even evade. It's a scary thing. In the words of ordinary people, it is impossible to bear things. How can such a child continue the honor of the family?
The problem lies in the parents, who do not want their children to be a little wronged.
This is a misconception that children need to gain a sense of security and value in their growth. This feeling is not given by others, but through their own growth, strong! Gain confidence.
Giving the child the opportunity to do housework, to communicate with other children, to be able to solve problems, is to grow.
Parents should understand that if the child's growth period has been smooth, this is not normal! Parents can't replace the growth of their children, and taking care of everything is ruining the opportunity for their children's growth. Japan's nibbling on the old people is a bloody lesson.
"Huainan Zi, Saying Mountain Training" "He who sharpens the sword will be soft, and he who strikes the rock will be made of wood." Sharpen the sharp sword, you must use a moist magic stone, and when you strike a hard seed rock, you must use a soft wooden tool.
Chunqiu Lu Zuo Qiuming's "Zuo Chuan Min A.D.": "Zhu Xia is intimate and cannot be abandoned." Feast on the poison of the duck, do not be pregnant. "The desire for comfort and pleasure is as deadly and harmful as suicide by drinking poisoned wine. The parable is killing oneself for pleasure. A phrase used to warn people not to be lazy.