The junior high school students are in the rebellious stage.
After entering junior high school, most students will be in the rebellious stage, although different students have different performances in the rebellious period, but basically they will behave in a very different way from the original appearance. After all, because of the hormones in the body, behavior is mostly controlled by emotions rather than reason.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" > junior high school students "fall" in three steps, the first step is the student normal, the third step is the edge of danger</h1>
Step 1: Focus most of your energy on things other than studying, usually mobile games
Nowadays, students will have their own smart phones, on the one hand, parents and themselves to keep in touch, encounter some crisis moments, can help students to seek the help of parents for the first time. This is also the most concerned point of many parents, for the sake of student safety, parents will equip students with a mobile phone.
Smartphones, on the other hand, also have a role to help them satisfy their vanity. What is the most popular mobile phone style nowadays, students will want what, feel that only if they get this mobile phone, they can get the recognition and envy of others. The sense of self-righteous superiority is something that students care about.
In addition, the smartphone is equivalent to a game console in the hands of students. Today's students are very different from the students of the past, and fewer and fewer students choose to play computer games instead of mobile games. As long as a mobile phone is in hand, where you want to play, even if you are lying in the bed, you can also enjoy it.
In this way, students will waste a lot of learning time on mobile games, students have a very strong sense of competition in mobile games, and if anyone can become the MVP of the team, they will be respected and loved by everyone.
Step 2: Pretend to be seriously studying, but actually get nothing
There are some students who study hard every day as usual, sit at their desks and study for a long time, and the way they focus will make others mistakenly think that his grades are very good, originally thought to be the king, but in fact, after the results came out, they became bronze. And it will also confuse everyone, why is this happening?
In such a situation, in fact, the students have a number in mind, after all, how much energy they have spent on learning, and they have deceived others and cannot deceive themselves. Even if you are sitting at your desk, whether you are studying seriously or thinking about wrong, or even reading extracurricular books, students must know better than anyone.
Therefore, the behavior of such students is a precursor to the imminent depravity. The reason why they go to great lengths to do so is to hide their eyes and ears, and when the tragic end comes, parents and teachers can dispense with their own punishment and attribute all problems to the problems of fate or other external factors.
Step 3: Show yourself openly and honestly, and don't do any pretense
After the third step, this student must have been saved. They confess to the fact that they have fallen, and they don't want those students who are still in step 2 to care about other people's thoughts and opinions, they will become broken jars and broken, anyway, they have come to this point, and they will be indifferent to the criticism of others.
Although, this kind of student will make parents and teachers feel that iron and steel are not steel, how did they fall to where they are today? But it is also grateful for their honesty, after seeing their true face, you can not waste too much time on them, for teachers and parents, it is also a kind of redemption.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="34" > analysis:</h1>
The depraved behavior mentioned above is very fatal to every student. If it is in the first step or the second step, the students still have the hope of being guided back to the formal, if it has become the third stage of behavior, I think it is the immortal world, but also the lack of skills.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" Data-track="36" what are the factors that lead students to degeneration >? </h1>
Parents and parental contempt, let them use extreme behavior to attract everyone's attention
In the process of growing up, children are eager to be paid attention to and taken care of, even if they are very obedient and well-behaved students. Although they act cautiously and make almost no mistakes, it does not mean that they can be ignored and forgotten, but they are disdainful of using childish means to attract the attention of parents.
But if students are in a state of denial and repression for a long time, they will feel that it is of little significance to remain silent, and it is better to take extremes than to engage in risky tentative behavior! This is the best portrayal of a crying child having milk to eat.
Students are not respected and their lives are suppressed everywhere
In the mode of getting along between students and parents, although students are younger than their parents, according to the principle of teaching each other, parents and students have no experience in education, so they should be in an equal state to face all problems, and if there is something to discuss, it may be possible to reduce the occurrence of contradictions.
If students do not have the respect and understanding they deserve, they will lose patience with life and study, and no matter what they do, they will not get the approval of their parents, so they will become a sharp weapon that can hurt their parents and become a thorn in the eyes of their parents.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="39" > ask question today:</h1>
Do you feel the need for parents to maintain an equal relationship with their students?