☊ Every night at 22:35, I say goodnight to you at the tavern
I believe most people have expectations of love & marriage.
Who wouldn't want to fall in love sweetly and get married in a beautiful way?
Who doesn't want to be loved by someone in the palm of their hand?
It's just that some people's expectations are consumed by various causal things encountered in reality.
They will describe to you the beauty of the future;
They verbally draw pie on your various promises.
By the end, the bubble shattered and the dream woke up.
Maybe I found out when I was ready to step into the door of marriage.
How inconsistent are the two sides of their respective three views, and may also be chattering because of the little interest of the bride price & dowry...
After meeting him, you just want to marry him.
He even made a promise not to marry a certain person and not to marry another person.
But in the end he indirectly tells you that you are not important.
In fact, he is just enjoying the feeling of being in love.
I never thought about living two people after marriage.
Slowly, it seems that marriage is not important to me.
After having a serious illness, I dare not think about who to grow old with, and when I am lonely, I will find someone to chat with to find spiritual comfort.
I don't even have the courage to fall in love.
"I didn't think about getting married"
When this kind of thinking appears, I don't know whether it is terrible or not, whether I should say it to my family, I want to say less and less, and more and more words in my heart.
So.
When you don't feel loved, think this is life;
When you feel loved, you know that life is more than that, there is another way of life.
At this time, I knew that if I didn't make it, I wouldn't make it up and reload.
Last night, my cousin was forced to marry my aunt again, "It's almost time to get married." ”
She was thinking, what is almost, almost what she will become in the end.
I'd rather be alone than waste other people's time.
My cousin had talked a few times before, and finally she had a high eye for herself and kept picking.
She talked to me, and in fact, I met one or two who were suitable for marriage.
But she just likes the feeling of flop, the feeling of being chased.
I have also drunk her, and people don't have many youths to choose.
If it fits, you'll catch it.
But at the same time I understand her, sometimes why don't we?
Even if you have passed the age of picking people to the stage of being picked, it is a big deal, is it not good to live a wonderful life by yourself, why go to the general.
So in the end, I was asked to persuade my aunt every time.
Some people are always so different that a glance can make people remember for many years;
And some people, even if they get along day and night, do not live in their hearts.
Let's be honest, emotionally whatever choices we make.
Always remember that making yourself happy is the most important thing.
Anything can be forced, love is barely coming.
Rather than spending the rest of your life with someone you don't love, I hope you can calm down and wait for the person who is worth entrusting for a lifetime.
If you just want to get married, you don't necessarily have to wait for love;
It is not impossible to be a mere physical friend.
If you don't want to get married and must wait for love, then you have to be strong enough inside;
Because, this requires preparing for a lifetime of loneliness.
According to the statistics of "2018 China Marriage Trend Insights", the probability of love happening is only 5.2 in 1000.
Some people like to find bitter love;
Some people say that it is true love that can overcome many obstacles and difficulties to finally be together.
But I think the best love is actually simple.
It's not all true love, it's more watery;
In the same way, too many difficulties will slowly consume the expectation of love little by little.
So, go find someone who gets along effortlessly and carelessly and deliberately caters to each other.
Go find the guy you can make a fuss, laugh, go relax, be simple.
Good night baby.
☊ END ☊
I'm the treasurer
Every night here with a song & a story, you say goodnight
——Heyi 丨 I didn't think about getting married
"Heyi's Mood Notes" 丨 Marriage
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