Author: Zhou Woodman
I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, thirty and standing, forty and not confused... —— "For the Government"
This sentence of Confucius, which has been passed down for more than two thousand years, has been guiding the way of life and attitude of many people.
Even today, we still regard thirty years old as a threshold in life; after stepping over this hurdle, everyone's situation will usher in an opportunity to change, otherwise, they will end up in a chicken feather.
"Thirty Only", which has been very hot lately.
In my personal opinion, the reason why this drama is popular is precisely because after we watch it, we can feel empathy and realize that life is not easy; at the same time, we will let everyone cherish what they have in front of them with a grateful attitude and keep the original intention of life.
Judging from the title, the four words "thirty only" seem to be full of contempt for time.
In fact, the plot is from the opposite point of view, so that many people further realize that in the face of time, no one can beat the time; around the age of three, those obstacles that should be faced, no one can escape.
Just like the TV series "All Is Good", the plot uses realistic techniques to describe the difficulty of life.
Under the influence of the original family, it is doomed that the Su family will face the end of falling apart; Su Ming's philosophical career has been successful, but his wife and children are estranged, even if he has the idea of providing for his father, he has always been "more than enough and not enough".
The second eldest, Su Mingcheng, is one of the Su family who has been "dragging their feet".
After the death of his mother, Su Mingcheng lacked a patron, but the idea of "nibbling on the old" never changed, releasing the pressure on his sister Mingyu again and again, and finally divorced and sold the house.
The family, fortunately, with Su Mingyu, a normal person, did not completely break the family relationship.
However, the final ending of "All Is Good" finally made the audience feel very pleased, Su Mingyu took care of her father, found the affection she had always wanted, and the eldest brother and the second brother also carried out self-criticism.
Although it is said that the TV series reaches the end of the play, and it is really good to think about such an ending when we connect the title of "All Is Good", there will be a sour taste in our hearts, but when we connect the impermanent life and the original sin of the Su family's original family, it is really good to think about such an ending.
In "Thirty Only", the growth of the three heroines also describes the difficulties of real life.
In my personal view, the situation of three people represents different life challenges.
Wang Manni, who pursues success, is also looking forward to high-quality love.
Zhong Xiaoqin, who lives a solid life, has problems with her husband Chen Yu; she looks forward to giving birth to a new life, thereby improving the relationship between husband and wife, but the result is a mess.
Gu Jia, who has always been "gu family", also has a strong woman's heart, she looks forward to a better life, starting a business with her husband, and it is not easy to fight monsters and upgrades all the way; when the couple rushes to the peak of their careers, they will also face various challenges.
After ushering in the threshold of thirty years old, we can't avoid these three topics, that is, love, birth and career; at the age of thirty, there are 3 thresholds to face, and we can't avoid it.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > will not be able to wait for true love. </h1>
Leaving her hometown of Quzhou, Wang Manni, who came to Shanghai to work hard, stood on the threshold of thirty years old and seemed to have earned her age in vain.
Whether it is career or love, she has nothing.
Wang Manni is a person who looks forward to a better life, she works hard, hoping to have her own foothold in the city where she lives; but it backfires, and no amount of effort has failed to make her wish.
However, in Wang Manni, in addition to her career, she shows more love lines.
She is very strong, even in terms of love, she is not willing to go to the end; Wang Manni rejected Jiang Chen, rejected Wang Donghu, and has been waiting, a better man, to appear in her life.
Until he met Liang Zhengxian, the gentleman and romantic of the other party can satisfy the girl's fantasy of love.
In the face of Liang Zhengxian's attack, Wang Manni gradually let go of the psychological defense line and tacitly acquiesced to the other party's pursuit step by step; however, it is gratifying that she did not put down her independent side and still became a strong woman.
However, Liang Zhengxian was not suitable for her. The other party has a girlfriend, and also plays the unmarried doctrine, encountering love everywhere; such a "playboy" is not worthy of Wang Manni.
From Wang Manni's body, we can feel that standing on the threshold of thirty years old, even if many people have the mentality of not giving up, to meet a true love, if they are unlucky, they may only encounter an emotional liar.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > having children is not a one-person affair. </h1>
After a few years of marriage, what will become of the way the couple gets along?
The marriage of Zhong Xiaoqin and Chen Yu can well explain that after the couple has gone through passion and romance and ushered in a time of ordinary time together, the two people will only play their own, and there will be a phenomenon of "words do not speculate more than half a sentence".
Chen Yu loves to raise fish, usually works hard, and plays with his fish in his spare time.
After marriage, if a man lacks communication with his other half, it is easy to live his life like an island; Chen Yu is like this, his married life is the same as his name, like an island.
And why not Zhong Xiaoqin?
In the face of such a husband, she can only spend a lot of time on chasing dramas.
Occasionally, when I have time, I want to communicate and communicate with Chen Yu, the two people can't talk about a few words, play for less than an hour, there will be differences, and then continue to play their own.
In the face of the risk of the husband and wife's feelings diluted, Zhong Xiaoqin wants to save, she hopes to have a child, to coordinate the way husband and wife get along, increase each other's feelings, but the result makes her a big surprise.
Chen Yu is a rational man, and he really doesn't want children until he has made a good plan.
The topic of having children has become the fuse of the rupture of the relationship between the two people; after watching it, people sighed that on the threshold of thirty years old, if there is no child to mediate the feelings of the couple, the fate of the two people may really end here.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > full-time wife and a high-risk occupation. </h1>
As the name suggests, Gu Jia is a woman who cares for her family.
In that married life, in order to complete her husband's career and the growth of her children, Gu Jia was willing to become a full-time wife, raising children on the one hand, and on the other hand, becoming the biggest supporter of her husband's career.
Although Gu Jia appears as a full-time wife more often, in fact, for her husband's career, she can be described as an all-rounder.
With her talents, Gu Jia not only saved her husband's company, but even opened up a new career.
You know, in real life, it is not easy for a wife to take care of children; however, Gu Jia is a woman who can go to the kitchen and can also do a career.
Such a woman should have been cared for and understood, but her husband Xu Huanshan did not think so.
Xu Huanshan has the pursuit of art, standing on his point of view, but thinks that Gu Jia is humble, and even gradually tired of such a way of getting along, and finally failed to resist the temptation to live outside.
Even later, Gu Jia left Xu Huanshan and became a strong person in life, it will still make people sigh, full-time wife is really a high-risk profession, even if you are decathlon, pay more for the family, ushered in may not be the gratitude of the husband, but the other party's incomprehension.
In the past, ushering in the thirty-year-old of life, it should have been the time of life and career, and the dust settled.
However, in the life in front of us, we may invariably usher in the confusion of love, the problem of parenting, and the challenge of career, and at the turn of life, the wind and rain still do not stop.
So "Thirty Only", at the end of the play, can we see a bright eye?
After experiencing many hardships and crossing various thresholds, it is expected that the three heroines can use a transparent way to accept the changes in age and face the challenges in life, so as to live a good life in their dreams.