In the early stage, Zhen Huan's help to An Lingrong, if An wants to return, waiting for the opportunity to send charcoal to her sister in the snow in the future, for Zhen Huan's conditions, how can she send these gifts from a small door. At the end of the day, she treats their relationship as an equal. It is certainly inappropriate for others to transfer the most valuable gifts of others to others, and from the perspective of An Lingrong, Zhen Huan is given to the next person, which is a bit of a slap in the face, An is inferior and sensitive, and naturally will think more and be dissatisfied.
In fact, from the perspective of the social status of these places at that time, they were not equal at all, and when they gave gifts to unequal people, they should weigh their own weight. Ann returning clothes is not to pay off people's feelings, but just to give back kindness, I think there is no problem. Owing affection does not mean that it needs to be repaid immediately, but that it is remembered to establish friendships in the heart. I think Zhen Huan herself was negligent here, and she didn't know An Lingrong, but An Lingrong was too interpretive.
Zhen Huan did not look down on her, but did not regard her as an important friend for the time being. In fact, An Lingrong was not as good as calmly accepting the gap between himself and Zhen Huan, calmly accepting Zhen Huan's help, and then doing his best to return Zhen Huan, how much to give. Among friends, I think the most important thing is sincerity, and I shouldn't care how much you give me and how much I give you these things. An Lingrong's personality, to say a point of my personal opinion, Zhen Huan is a good friend with a good mentality, mixing good things and good things cheaply.
People with low self-esteem have a problem, friends mix well with ta flying, is able to enjoy it. Slowly, the friends became better and better mixed, and he was still standing in the same place, and his inferiority complex became heavier and heavier. This kind of inferiority is not to say that the good friend of the mixture gave him something, he felt that it was a beggar, but the jealousy that gradually arose in his inner inferiority. At this time, it is not the inferiority of ta who is still standing in the same place, but the hope that friends can fall in the process of mixing well, and ta's heart will be balanced.
Looking at the other people in the palace, such as Concubine Jing, Concubine Duan, Mei Zhuang, and even Ning Gui and Xin Gui, they were also helped by Zhen Huan, but they did not send any clothes and jewelry to Zhen Huan like An Lingrong. When Zhen Huan was down, Meizhuang sent charcoal fire and cotton clothes, full of true feelings and care. When Meizhuang fell, Zhen Huan also sent these things. She did not give Meizhuang two snails when she was spoiled, and Meizhuang was down.
Looking at what An Lingrong sent to Zhen Huan in the early stage, the incense he made himself, and the warm gloves he sewed himself, Zhen Huan was very happy to receive it. Because these things have true feelings. Later, when An Lingrong's throat was broken, Zhen Huan led a group of people to give gifts to An Lingrong, what was sent? Pigeon blood, fans, gorgeous but useless. In fact, it is feasible for An Lingrong to repay Zhen Huan for wanting to send something after being favored, but it should not be sent clothes. Instead, it used the best spices and carefully made a box of tranquilizing incense to send to Zhen Huan. To put it this way: I know that my sister is worried about the sister of the eyebrows can not sleep at night, people are staying up haggard, this is my specially concocted, the best tranquilizing incense, the role of helping sleep, the sister must remember to use.
I don't know how Sister Mei is doing, I have suffered a big grievance this day, I am afraid that I can't eat well and wear badly, I also worry about her these days, we entrust people to send this tranquilizer to Sister Mei, so that she can be at ease. In this way, zhen huan knew that although An Lingrong was favored, he still never forgot himself and spent his heart to perfume himself. Mentioning MeiZhuang also reassured Zhen Huan that An Lingrong was with his own heart. This box of spices was sent out, and since then it has been a real sisterly heart, unlike before when it was separated by a layer.