Too many people are not satisfied with their current situation, but only a very limited number of people can change the status quo and live the life they want, why?
Because there are two paths in life, many people have taken the easy one.
In the Japanese movie "Red Medaka", the protagonist is jealous of the master and disciple, and the master tells him that he should try to surpass, rather than just staying in a state of jealousy and mental imbalance, jealousy is easier, but this will make people become inferior.
"People who don't even know how to judge the status quo are, in my opinion, idiots."
In this world, there are too many frustrated people, they could have fought for a better future for themselves, but because they do not understand their current situation, do not know how to judge, and live to deceive themselves, confused.
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If a person never deceives himself, then he is as enlightened as a Buddha.
The reason why people deceive themselves is because confusion is easier than waking, half dreaming and half awake, so that people will feel less sad.
For example, poor, this is a weak state, but many people are the more money the more they have to pretend to be generous, the so-called swollen face and fat people, that is, this kind of person.
It's silly to say, but if you puncture their disguise, they might hate you to the bone.
There is also emotional, self-indulgence is a problem that many people have, others give you some sunshine on the bright, colleagues give you a package of yogurt you feel interesting to you, this is the disease.
In addition, there are also some managers who are always accustomed to self-righteousness, and they take it for granted if they can't figure out the situation, so the management work is not done well, and the company is a mess.
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The more real and objective your perception of yourself is, the stronger you can become!
In fact, I think that the biggest magic weapon for success in doing things is four words: seeking truth from facts.
Many stupidities, mistakes and failures are ultimately caused by the loss of true cognition of themselves, and the "emperor's new clothes" is a reflection of reality, some people do not understand their own situation, and some people are unwilling to understand their own situation.
If people want to become smart and powerful, and if they want to succeed in their careers, they must first truly recognize themselves, have self-knowledge, understand what kind of state they are in, the more you know about yourself, the more comprehensive and objective you understand, the more you can become your own master.
Whoever becomes his master is destined to become strong and successful.
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Many people like to be self-touched, feel that they are central, think that they are important, and are either narcissistic or self-pitying. In fact, who is not the same when the world leaves?
Don't overestimate your weight in the hearts of others, otherwise, you will misjudge many people and many things, and often cause losses.
This is all because the mind is not clear, can not see where their own value lies. A famous quote from Gates popular on the Internet:
Life is unfair, to adapt to it. The world doesn't care about your self-esteem, the world expects you to achieve something before you feel good about yourself...
Therefore, we must seek truth from facts, weak is not terrible, what is terrible is to grease and powder their "weak" and pretend, such a person is difficult to have a good future.
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The closer people can be to the truth, the more they can develop, as the saying goes, "grounded", that is, to emphasize that the vitality is rooted in the truth.
Only by understanding the real situation can we find a way to effectively change the status quo. For example, if there is a problem in your company, then you need to understand the real situation of the problem and then strategically solve it.
If in this process, you are taking it for granted, or you are misled, then your ideas and strategies to solve the problem are wrong, and the problem will not only not be solved, but may be expanded.
We look at Huawei Ren Zhengfei's speech, why he often emphasizes the front line, "let people who can hear the artillery call the artillery", is to emphasize that the company should maintain a flexible response to the real situation.
It must be admitted that there is a distance between objective reality and our cognition, and the distance of this distance determines the difference between our strength and weakness.
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In life, we must be really pragmatic, which is the attitude of having a good time.
Only by seeking the truth can we see through the illusion; only by being pragmatic can we not make contributions. Whether it is us or the world, there are always problems, but the status quo is the answer, instead of complaining and deluding others, it is better to change yourself, the survival of the fittest, to make yourself stronger and better.
So, we have to be open-minded, don't hide in our comfort zone to entertain ourselves, and keep ourselves in the real world, even if it temporarily makes you miserable and unbearable.
In fact, pain is often giving you real feedback to remind you to make the right changes. You know, people who don't know how to change themselves can't do anything.
Seeking truth is a process of getting rid of ignorance, we come all the way, that is, to constantly approach the truth, open-minded, truth-seeking and pragmatic people, the road is getting wider and wider, in order to get out of their own lives.
In the end, everyone has their own pursuit and success, and there are different definitions of success, but there is only one definition of failure, that is, living in a confused and unclear life.