Hello everyone, welcome to today's emotional class, I am Ning Ning. Friends, let me ask you a question, how many real friends do you have around you? Not the fox friends, but the ones who can help you in times of danger. Okay, so today we're going to talk about the question of friends.
In fact, I am also very ashamed of this, my friends around me are also very few, hey, it's not that no one is friends with me, it's because my definition of friends is different. I don't know if you have heard of Zhang Shaohan, I remember that in a "Spit Conference" she was as usual as in the past, her black history was taken out by everyone to spit and ridicule, I watched her smile and listened to others laugh at her past. Watching her turn to come on stage and talk about that gesture in the past is simply not too good-looking. At that time, I felt that such a girl who looked soft and weak, but in fact, nicer than anyone, smiled softly in front of everyone, but did not have the slightest intention of admitting defeat, which was really very handsome. In fact, just like Zhang Shaohan herself said, she did not deliberately do anything, whether it is career or family, she has experienced a lot of ups and downs, but it is such a girl, when talking about the problem of her few friends is also the same gang. She put it this way, "It's not that I have fewer friends, it's that I have a different definition of friends." Although my friends have more roads to walk, I don't need to give my friends who build roads. I have wings myself, and I say that many friends have many roads, but many times we encounter not the unimpeded passage of all roads to Rome. Instead, it is a rugged mountain road with eighteen bends. ”
In fact, the definition of friends is different, some people live exquisitely, like to enjoy the feeling that no one in the world knows the king, wherever they go, they can call friends, but some people want to live out their true selves. In fact, friends are not many, confidants, a few are enough. We can't say absolutely who is right and who is wrong, it's just that everyone's choices are different. There is a saying that when you have some fame and fortune, then all your friends will come; but when you have a slight downfall, your friends will all scatter. Feng Zikai of the art festival wrote about taking the right path, letting go of the heartless hand, making friends with the tao, and breaking the friends of the unrighteous.
When a person has experienced betrayal and hurt, he can understand what a superficial brother is and what a true confidant is.
Friends, you must understand that those who climb the mountain when climbing the peak and walk away indifferently at the trough can only be an acquaintance for you at best. Just like Zhang Shaohan I said earlier, when she was extremely popular, there was never less friends around her, whether it was sincere or false, class clinging, accidental acquaintance, at that time she could not distinguish, can only smile, accept. In fact, everyone knows that her career suffered Waterloo, her family fell into a well, and her friends were silent, saying that it was not too much to say that she had fallen from heaven to hell. Although this road was not easy, fortunately, she still came. Who knows how he survived? But I believe that what has sustained her to this point must not be those who have hurt her and betrayed her, but herself. In one show, Zhang Shaohan once responded domineeringly to the negative news of being torn apart by friends and betrayed by her family over the years, saying that she did not believe in what to be grateful for the people who hurt you, because she made you stronger. She even said bluntly, saying that friends who never need to build roads, I have my own wings, Zhang Shaohan's lyrics that rain all the way to the middle of the song wrote: You can push me into the cliff, I can learn to fly the future of all kinds of wind and rain, or do you have to put on a shuttle suit to walk. In ancient Chinese novels, it is often written that a friend inserts a knife into your two ribs. What goes up to the knife mountain and down the sea of fire, now people understand, let alone that the confidant is dead, and now it is rare to be able to verbally comfort you when you are frustrated. Mo smiles and has many friends, and the friends of suffering are widowed. The road knows the horsepower, and the people's hearts are seen for a long time. So this chapter, the next chapter has been issued, we continue to take you to understand what is a true friend. We will not see the next chapter.