Horizontal view into the ridge side into a peak

There are many people in life who will spend all day for some trivial things, for a few gossip of others, or for their own misfortune and longer than short sighs, worried... Life in the world, it is inevitable to encounter unpleasantness, inevitably encounter setbacks or misfortunes, if blindly precipitated in pain, always crying and mourning to spend the day, life will undoubtedly be desolate, painful, helpless, but if you can be open-minded, a little free, learn to change the angle, learn to think from the rational aspect, you can make your original gray state of mind become bright

Everything has two sides, there are advantages and disadvantages, another angle will have different discoveries, indeed, everything as long as you change the angle, actively from the good side to think, you can find real happiness, if we insist on demanding something impossible, then is not not with ourselves? So why bother?

There is such a story, Roosevelt, who was once the president of the United States, unfortunately stole a lot of things at home, stole a lot of things, a good friend of hers wrote a letter to comfort her after hearing the news, Roosevelt replied to his friend and said, dear friend, thank you for writing to comfort me, I am very happy now, thank God, because the thief stole my things, and did not hurt my life, and the thief only stole part of my things, not all, the most fortunate thing, the thief is him, not me,

You see what an optimistic person this is, if at this time Roosevelt blindly fell into anger, sad emotions can only be useless, when, looking at the problem from another angle is undoubtedly a kind of wisdom of life, but also a humorous art of life, just like this Roosevelt through self-consolation to achieve self-entertainment, turn anger into happiness, make disappointment into hope,

So when people are troubled, falling into a desperate situation, your vision will naturally become narrow, often only stuck to the things they are worried about, no attention to other things, in fact, when a person is upset and sad, it is even more necessary to temporarily avoid everything in front of you, do not drill the horns, you should shift your attention to other things for role swapping, perhaps there will be unexpected gains.

The reason why people are not satisfactory, not smooth, unhappy, not only the external environment, the things you experience, but from the inner personal psychology, everything experienced in life is a personal experience, a feeling of the heart, when external factors make the personal situation change, or even through their own strength to change the personal state of existence, then you only have to use your own spiritual power, let the individual's mental feelings adjusted to the best state, that is, when you are powerless, You can choose to go with the flow, rather than blindly drilling the tip of the bull's horn, you can't get along with yourself, and this spiritual strength comes from the open-minded personality, many people in life will spend all day for some trivial things, for other people's few gossip, or for their own misfortune and longer than short sighs, worried... Life in the world, it is inevitable to encounter unpleasantness, inevitably encounter setbacks or misfortunes, if blindly precipitated in pain, always crying and mourning to spend the day, life will undoubtedly be desolate, painful, helpless, but if you can be open-minded, a little free, learn to change the angle, learn to think from the rational aspect, you can make your original gray state of mind become bright

The reason why people are not satisfactory, not smooth, unhappy, not only the external environment, the things you experience, but from the inner personal psychology, everything experienced in life is a personal experience, a feeling of the heart, when external factors make the personal situation change, or even through their own strength to change the personal state of existence, then you only have to use your own spiritual power, let the individual's mental feelings adjusted to the best state, that is, when you are powerless, You can choose to go with the flow, rather than blindly drilling the horns of the bull, you can't get along with yourself, and this spiritual strength comes from an open-minded personality.