Late marriage and late childbearing have become the mainstream of today's society, the average age of marriage for men in some cities has reached 35 years old, and even some men have married after the age of 40, so the question is, if men get married after the age of 40, what will happen? The first batch of older married men in our country have entered the year of flower armor, and the problems of life will follow.
First, a person is retired but the child is underage, and he has more than enough heart and insufficient strength. Suppose a man marries at the age of 45 and retires at the age of 60, then the child at the time of retirement is probably in high school, and the child at this time is the most important time in life, and the 60-year-old self may not be able to take care of the child wholeheartedly, and the male physical condition at this time is not too good. Some people say that as long as you earn enough money when you are young, taking care of children is not necessarily a difficult task, people who say this are basically people who get married early, because the current high school and junior high school children are in urgent need of parental company, middle and college entrance examinations are everyone's first major turning point, if you can't keep up with energy, the child goes astray That is a matter of minutes, than saying that the electronic and mobile games that are now ranked first.
Second, the extremely heavy family burden. Men facing retirement also have parents above, at this time parents are at least 80 years old, in the eyes of the older generation in the countryside, early marriage is to be able to help when the pressure of their children is the greatest, some rural men are married at the age of 20, so that they can put down the burden of going to school for their children before the age of 45, and some of the parents above can also bring a handful for the people below when they are more than 60 years old, which is a virtuous circle.
Third, it has left an extremely heavy burden on future generations. If a man's child just graduated from college and entered society, the man at this time is at least over 65 years old, basically belonging to the consumable category, some people say that there is no pension insurance? If you are born with a girl, there may be less burden, but if it is a boy, the future house and car will be a thousand pounds of burden that crushes your whole family, and you may also need the help of your children at this time, which can be said to be worse. Here first congratulate the men who married early before the age of 30, at least in the future life can be less troublesome, so unmarried men in their 30s should work hard!