If you go back in time and go back in time, would you still be willing to marry your current husband?
In the life of Li Huanying in the movie, life is not rich.
Movie "Hello, Lee Huan-young"
Her daughter wanted to eat barbecue, and she coaxed her daughter to eat crayfish, because she could go fishing herself without spending money; she got on the bus in front of her daughter, got off the bus secretly, and walked home in the ice and snow, because she felt that the ticket money was too luxurious; Li Huanying rarely spent money on herself, and she was not even willing to buy a coat.
Li Huanying, who has silently dedicated her life, her daughter Jia Xiaoling feels that she is too bitter, seeing how decent Aunt Wang Qin is, the family is well-off, and her daughter has a career; and Li Huanying, before her daughter fulfills her filial piety, she died unexpectedly.
Jia Xiaoling felt unworthy for Li Huanying because she could have lived a better life. So when Jia Xiaoling crossed back to 1981, she tried to match Li Huanying and Shen Guanglin, the son of the factory director, rich and powerful, and married him Li Huanying would no longer have to suffer and be poor.
But Li Huanying has no feeling for Shen Guanglin, and in the face of the opportunity to choose his life again, Li Huanying still marries Jia Wentian, who seems to be useless.
Many people say that Li Huanying "married Jia Wentian again" because she knew that she would have Jia Xiaoling' daughter, and for the sake of her daughter, she had to go back to the old way.
But is this really the case?
As soon as the young Jia Wentian played by Qiao Shan appeared, he gave the answer, Li Huanying married Jia Wentian, the fundamental reason is the word love, Jia Wentian and Li Huanying's earthy and sweet love, is not it the most ordinary and precious true feeling in the world?
Young Jia Wentian hides 3 truths about marriage.
<h1>1, there is no perfect partner</h1>
Jia Wentian's family is poor, he is not handsome enough, his job is to burn boilers, and compared with Shen Guanglin, the "second generation of the factory", Jia Wentian is simply abused.
However, what Jia Wentian had in him was a quality that Shen Guanglin, a brother like a prince, did not have, and it was these advantages that captured Li Huanying's heart.
In the movie, Jia Xiaoling helped Shen Guanglin pursue Li Huanying, telling him that Li Huanying liked humor, but Shen Guanglin, a man who was boring, had strong self-esteem, and could not make jokes, Li Huanying watched Shen Guanglin and Jia Xiaoling's duo turn the program, clapped her hands and laughed, not because the program itself was good-looking, but she did not want to sweep away Xiaoling's happiness.
Shen Guanglin did not have the ability to make Li Huanying happy at all, and Jia Wentian was different, Jia Wentian had his own laughter, watching him roar on a bicycle in a rage, he understood why Li Huanying would fall in love with him.
The detail of the bicycle is also very clever, Shen Guanglin will not ride a bicycle, and Jia Wentian is pedaling a bicycle as soon as he appears, which can be said to have secretly hit Shen Guanglin's face.
One is the "young master" who can't ride a bicycle and doesn't stick to the spring water of the sun, and the other is a boiler worker who is hard-working and interesting; it just so happens that Li Huanying is not a woman who hates poverty and loves the rich, and what she values is exactly those shining points on Jia Wentian; she marries Jia Wentian, a man, not his wealth or identity.
Li Huanying is not a very ambitious person, she knows what kind of man is suitable for her, there is no perfect lover in this world, and it is very rare to be able to fit her own heart.
Being too harsh and picky in the relationship is not only to pressure the other party, but also to add to the blockage; to appreciate each other's advantages, but also to accept each other's shortcomings, respect each other's complete personality, is what a healthy marriage should look like.
<h1>2, like is the joy of the first sight, love is not tired of a long time</h1>
Many people say that Jia Wentian in reality lacks a sense of responsibility for marriage and children, and it is difficult for us to say how in reality. Judging from this movie alone, between Jia Wentian and Li Huanying, there is real love.
The two secretly fell in love for three years, and then cultivated the right fruit, Jia Wentian's green pants pocket, stuffed with a red marriage certificate, he smiled brightly, as if he had the whole world.
I was really touched by this scene, isn't this from the heart, the eyes are all a person's feelings? Three years of love can still be so warm, so happy, Jia Wentian in the film, is with the true love of Li Huanying.
Going back to the past again, Li Huanying is still willing to choose Jia Wentian, which is enough to prove that this man is worth her choice.
<h1>3, marriage is like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge</h1>
Love is instinctive, and marriage needs to be managed.
After marriage, Li Huanying's life is hard, but not what everyone thinks is unhappy.
She is patient with her daughter, with a smile on her face forever, and even her daughter can call her by her first name, and such an easy-going and enlightened mother also hints at the atmosphere of the family.
If Jia Wentian is really a bad man, I am afraid that Li Huanying will not have this peaceful state of mind for a long time.
Whether the marriage is good or not, it will be written on the face.
Outsiders think that Jia Wentian has not been able to let Li Huanying live a good life, but why is this not the life that Li Huanying himself wants? Li Huanying herself is a woman who is at ease with her encounters, has no ambition, no courage, and is easy to be satisfied; if she really wants to pursue great wealth and nobility, she can already accept Shen Guanglin.
The marriage with Jia Wentian is plain and simple, so Li Huanying will say: I said that I am very happy in this life, how can you not believe it.
Li Huanying and Jia Wentian, although they are not materially rich, but they are both carefully managing the marriage, so that the family will always be a group of harmony, which is the best way to marry.
Maybe when you see Wang Qin's brand-name watch, you will be jealous that she married a good man; but life itself, there is no need to compare, and Wang Qin, who is strong and does not accept defeat, has paid a lot of hard work.
Each of us, cherish our own happiness.