The previous generation that loves each other is the greatest blessing for the next generation. This sentence is particularly deeply felt by me today.
I had lunch today and chatted with a female colleague. She asked me, will your two babies quarrel and fight in the future? I said, I don't know, I guess I will be old in the future, I guess I will fight and rush to pull out the oxygen cylinder.
She laughed. Then, she said of her own experience:
She has a sister who is 4 years younger than her. She said that in the twenty or thirty years since she can remember, she has never quarreled with her sister, her face is red, her feelings have always been very good, and she does not know what it is like to have a falling out between her brothers and sisters.
Brothers and sisters who have never quarreled in twenty or thirty years and have red faces are actually rare. Then I guessed, I said: You and your sister have a good relationship, nine times out of ten, your parents have a very good relationship, you live in a family that doesn't know what an argument is, so you and your sister are like this.
She said, really, my mother has five sisters and brothers, and I have never heard them quarrel, and everything is discussed and helped each other. This is true not only on my grandmother's side, but also on my father's side.
I said, this is very little, this is the greatest blessing of your family. In the countryside, because of pensions, land production, marriage, and even a tree, a ridge of land, brothers and sisters quarrelling and even doing things are very common things.
I myself was born into a big family, with many uncles and uncles. Since childhood, I have heard that all kinds of parents are short, right and wrong, then there are more.
In the village, I once saw an older brother in his forties fight for a vegetable patch with his brother in his thirties. Finally, he went to court.
So I almost instinctively reject relationships, especially those of large families.
I said, home and everything, there are too few environments like yours. This is the best example from the previous generation to the next, and this is the greatest blessing for the child. I look forward to passing it on to you too.
Chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, life can not be without contradictions, it depends on how you face the solution.
After thinking about it, I said that your family may not be a contradiction, but they have controlled the contradiction very well at the adult level and have not "infected" the next generation. They were very artistic, and quietly, through discussion, resolved the contradiction.
Most of the children who grow up in such an environment are kind, gentle, generous to people and things, not impatient, and have a strong sense of trust in their feelings.
Thinking about this, looking back at my colleagues, it seems that there is such a quality.
Expect all of us to be parents and children with this blessing!
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