Many times, feelings of this kind of thing, few people can really explain to you clearly, to put it bluntly, because everyone's thinking is different, you can only interpret your own inner thoughts, but it is difficult for you to enter the world of others.
It's like after two people get married, everyone is very optimistic about their marriage, thinking that they are destined to grow old for a lifetime, but before long, maybe two people divorced, but those who originally looked at the two people who were divorced sooner or later, but finally became happier and happier.
So when it comes to divorce, I believe that many people have become commonplace, after all, it is now the 21st century, there is no fuss, usually, after two people divorce, most of them will remarry, which is very normal.
Then in the middle of this, something will happen, that is to say, if the young people divorce and then remarry, we can all understand, because the rest of their lives are very long, there is still a long way to go, then when the time is ripe, there is no need to suppress their feelings.
But then there are some of us men, some of them are more than 50, and even some are more than 60, then they usually remarry after divorce, this time I believe many of us do not understand, if young people remarry, because of the above reasons, they are all this age, but also remarried, usually in what kind of consideration?
What is the purpose of a man's usual remarriage after the age of 50? The answer from 3 men was very true
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >. Mr. Bai is 54 years old, and I remarried mainly in consideration of my happy life in my later years</h1>
In order to live happily, we should believe in the possibility of happiness. --Leo Tolstoy
I am 54 years old this year, and I have been married to my wife for more than 20 years, and at first the relationship between the two people was ok, but then because of a little misunderstanding and contradiction between the two people, there has been a certain gap in the hearts of the two people since then.
But at that time, it was not too important, since the wife retired the year before, she had more free time, the contradiction between the two of us has become more and more intense and heated, and even reached the point of "blowing up at one point".
I originally thought that I would live like this, but I thought that if the second half of my life is still like this, then it is still myself who suffers, simply "long pain is not as good as short pain", and the two of us will divorce the marriage.
Later, I found the current wife, she is 5 years older than me, is also a divorce, but if the two of us are together, let alone quarrel, even the red face is rare, the main reason is that she has a special temper and good personality.
Now I am very happy with her, if the two of us continue to develop according to this situation, then my happy life in my old age will most likely have fallen and relied on.
Mr. Bai felt that he originally wanted to live like this, after all, his age is not small, but the main thing is to consider his life in the second half of his life, after all, after people are old, they all want to live a happy old age, and they are no exception.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > ii. Mr. Sun is 50 years old, and I remarried mainly because of my good looks</h1>
People must be responsible for their own faces. - United States
I am 50 years old this year, and my wife has been married for more than 20 years, originally my wife was 10 years younger than me, at first many people felt unreliable, saying that my marriage of "old cows eating tender grass" was not long, but at that time my wife liked me very much, I also loved her, and then the two of them got married.
Later, the development of things is really as everyone expected, after two people have been together for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be "visual fatigue", and no one can look at each other, once such a situation occurs, then the divorce of two people will become normal.
But she first proposed the divorce, I also agreed, after all, people are 10 years younger than me, but also gave me the best youth, and now others want to find their love again, I can not stop, "the day is going to rain, the mother wants to marry" just let her go.
Originally, my parents and friends advised me to live alone, and after a few years, I would also start a family, but I was a particularly good-looking and vain person, I didn't want others to look down on me, why should I be a "single stick", and then I met a suitable woman, and we got married.
After marrying this woman now, I can't say that I am very happy, I can only say that I am very general, but I am at least happy in my heart, no matter what, I can hang on my face.
Mr. Sun believes that when he remarries at this age, he is more about taking into account his own face problems, as for whether he said it was good or bad, regardless of it, no matter what, it is not a bad thing for a man to have a wife, right?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >3. Mr. Luo is 58 years old, and I remarried mainly to find my true love from scratch</h1>
Love has a wonderful magic that makes one person fall for another. —Thurber and White
I am 58 years old this year, and my wife has been married for more than 30 years, the two of us grew up in a small alley, and the feelings between our fathers and fathers are particularly good, we can be said to be "green plum bamboo horses, two small guesses", the two of us are married in such a background.
But later, with the advent of children, the pressure of work, the pressure of life, the problems of the elderly, and a series of other problems, the feelings between the two of us also quickly "collapsed", and we can never go back to the past.
Later, the children also grew up slowly, with their own families, the two of us simply divorced the marriage, since each other is not suitable, two people together, will only make both sides more and more painful, so why bother?
After the two of us divorced, she also got married, and I also found my current wife, and I heard that she is much happier than with me now, and every day is happy, and I think that we are not much worse off than her now.
Mr. Luo said bluntly: I don't want to live a lifetime in such a vacuum, and life is short, since two people are not suitable together, why not find your own love again? That's a good thing for both sides.
So after the above 3 men are over 50 years old, no matter what their purpose and thoughts are for remarrying? But one thing they are the same is that they do not give up some "things" because they are older, but they are still actively looking for "things" that belong to their needs.
First of all, for this point, it is worth learning from many of our peers, after all, life belongs to themselves, not to other people, their own life path, they should have their own choices and grasp! At the same time, for those of us who have passed the age of 50, since we have chosen to remarry, we must really assume the responsibilities and obligations in marriage, and do not treat marriage as a child's play.
People are happy in the performance of their duties. It's like a person carrying something, but the heart is very comfortable. If people do not have it and do not perform any duties, they are like driving an empty car, that is, waste. — Rozov
Therefore, after a man is over 50 years old, under the condition of conditions, he has the right to choose to remarry, as long as you really give everything you have for this new marriage, then I believe that you are destined to harvest the happiness you want!