The "Cautionary Tale" reads: "Those who become early may not be successful, and those who reach late may not be reached." You can't be young and self-righteous, you can't be old and give up on yourself. ”
Everyone hopes that they are born in a rich and powerful family, but most people are born in ordinary families, and the future road can only be taken step by step by themselves, and they cannot rely on their parents.
Everyone wants to get ahead, but many people, all their lives, are ordinary. Only a small number of people, who have experienced the ups and downs of life, still have not changed their original intentions and achieved a career.
Different births, different encounters, and different opportunities have created a different life, but there are always some people who insist on carrying the weight forward and become people who have become late in life.
If you are good at observation, you will definitely find that people who have become late in the world generally have the following characteristics.
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First, endurance is very strong, and it is impossible to endure what ordinary people cannot tolerate.
When others slander you, do you refute them? Most people can't help but argue with others to clarify themselves. In fact, such an approach will often make those who are ostentatious more fearless, and they will wait to see your jokes. True wise people have learned the routine of "enduring insults and not arguing," and when they hear some gossip, they remain silent, do not argue with others, hold back their uncomfortable feelings, and let all rumors "fend for themselves."
Can you not be angry when you lose your status? Why don't you have the ability to take a higher position? Why look at other people's faces? Smart people are people who can go up and down, no matter how high or low, he will not be angry, that is, he has retired from a very high position, he can also show a "full of indifference" look, and there is still a smile on his face.
My cousin Ling Da, who works as a personnel manager in a large enterprise in Dongguan, was transferred to the workshop as a director last summer, and although he has more than a hundred employees, his power is smaller and his responsibility is greater. Many people have advised him to leave such a business, which is too faceless. Ling Da did not rush to leave, but worked hard to manage the workshop well, and at the end of the year, the workshop he managed achieved extraordinary results, and after the end of the year, he was promoted to deputy manager of the production department.
Ling Da told me with actions that you can't work hard because you have lost your position, and when you work hard enough, you will definitely achieve a better self. All roads lead to Rome, you don't think that you have lost your position, you have entered the trough of life, you have entered a dead end. If you want to become a great instrument, you must have patience and endure the wind and rain of life in order to wait for the rainbow of life to appear.
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Second, very self-disciplined, always able to do things to the end.
Some people say: "People who can succeed tend to last a little longer than others." "In an industry, the people who can excel are often the people who have been in the industry for the longest time. If you choose an industry, if you just stick to it for a month or two and give up, you only know a little bit about the industry; if you insist on it for a year or two, in fact, you only know half of it.
My cousin has always lived in the countryside, and in order to change his living conditions, he built a pig farm. In the first two years, my cousin's pig farm not only did not make money, but lost tens of thousands of yuan, and the villagers advised him to give up quickly and go to work. The cousin did not give up, but insisted on more than twenty years in the pig industry.
Cousin often said: "The matter of raising pigs, the market is good for two years, and the market is not good for two years, as long as you master this law, you can make money." ”
The development of anything has a certain law, and it will not be smooth sailing, but will move forward into a "wavy line". People who are late in their careers are often people who can persevere to the end, no matter what they encounter on the way forward, they will not change their original intentions. It's a big deal to start over, it's a big deal to fall hard, as long as the direction is right, insist on walking, you will definitely go to the place where the light shines.
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Third, be quiet inside and slowly walk away in peace.
A person who lives a very impetuous life is difficult to become a great instrument. For example, when working, always think that their work is too hard, the boss does not trust themselves, colleagues look down on themselves, so they lose their temper every day, and they also blow their beards and stare at their colleagues.
A person who likes to blame others is also difficult to become a big tool. Let's say you come home every day and hear your lover rebuke you, and you blame your loved one. Both people feel that they have found the wrong person, marriage is very bad, so the family will be disharmonious, feelings will be rifted, life will be very tired, the mood is not good, and the "combat effectiveness" it deserves has been lost.
To be a person, you must be quiet and quiet, so that you can "prepare for the momentum". The quiet man, like a frog crouching on the grass, is motionless, but as soon as a flying insect passes, the frog jumps up and catches the flying insect. Quiet, in itself, is a force that pushes a person forward.
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Fourth, love to read, all success, is a thick accumulation.
As the saying goes, "A good boy is determined to be in all directions." That is to say, we are told that successful people are people with broad visions and people who dare to go far away. The more places a person goes, the more they can feel the different customs and customs, they can see different business opportunities, and they can also meet many friends.
In fact, the best way to broaden your horizons is to "read". In the books, there are the poems and distant places you need, there are many ways to succeed, and there are overviews around the world. The more you read, the more you stand on the shoulders of giants and look at the world, stand tall, and see far.
Reading can increase the thickness of life, the wisdom of predecessors, has become your "stepping stone"; the wisdom of contemporary people has become your "eyes"; the knowledge in social practice is also an invisible book, allowing you to understand life, find your own shining point, and see through others.
The people who can really achieve great things late are never "one swing", but "thick accumulation and thin hair". When you have accumulated enough knowledge, you will be able to explode in silence.
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Fifth, dare to face up to their shortcomings, always constantly surpassing themselves.
A person's greatest enemy is not others, but yourself. Many people like to pick and choose others, but they can't see their own appearance clearly, and they always think that they are the center of the universe, and others have to revolve around themselves. Some people, who have listened to a lot of flattery, think that they are very powerful, really excellent.
Smart people, not to be confused by those hypocritical language, will always calm down, think seriously about themselves, be good at finding their own shortcomings, and actively correct. The ancients said, "Shame is followed by courage." "Those who can face up to their shortcomings are warriors, and all those who avoid problems are the real shame."
Lü Mengzheng wrote in "Broken Kiln Endowment": "When the times are not encountered, it is only advisable to be poor and guarded; if the heart is not deceived, it is bound to raise its eyebrows and breathe." ”
To be a person, we must not only be able to keep the poverty, but also have the backbone to raise our eyebrows, and those who are not enterprising can always become a great instrument.
As a person, as long as you are not satisfied with the status quo, dare to face yourself, and change your destiny, you will definitely become a person with a good life.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
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