The sobriety of the world is the simple tree

See a video of Zhou Xun.

She was asked if her former lover, Park Shu, was a Small boy, and she paused for a moment with a frank look: I don't think he is, he is sober and very loyal to himself.

Park Shu is a clear, stubborn, lonely and cold existence in the eyes of the world, debuted for 21 years, only appeared in 3 albums, a classic. Perennial seclusion, occasional appearances, can always trigger envy and heated discussion.

He is not in the jianghu, but the jianghu has always had his legend. Gao Xiaosong once said that more than 20 years later, Park Shu is still in this circle, not because he loves this circle, but because this circle loves him.

People love his authenticity, love his intransigence, love his sense of youth.

The melody of his songs is extremely beautiful, and the lyrics are extremely sad, just like his inner contradictions, fierce and gentle, conflict and fusion.

He wrote in "Born Like a Summer Flower": I am this dazzling moment, the flame that crosses the sky.

In "The Year of Innocence", it is written: This life is more reluctant, the heavier this life is, the light depiction of time is long, and the low singing is ominous.

Sing in "Ordinary Road": I once ruined everything I had, I just wanted to leave forever, I once fell into boundless darkness, I wanted to struggle and couldn't extricate myself... I was lost and disappointed, and lost all directions until I saw that the ordinary was the only answer.

Man's confusion, longing, struggle, despair, and relief in the process of self-exploration are vividly embodied by him.

Psychologist Carl Rogers once said that the most personal thing is the most universal thing, and if the unique thing within a person is expressed, it may penetrate deep into the inner world of others.

In other words, everyone is an island, and only by first becoming yourself can you establish a true connection with other islands.

This requires being completely open to one's own reality, soberly observing the inner and outer worlds, respecting one's own needs and values, and refusing to be numb and go with the flow.

But it's hard to do, so Park Shu said, I'm not afraid of getting old, I'm just afraid of losing courage.