It happened to be Saturday, as soon as I got off the plane and walked out of the airport, the online car came to the front, got on the car, and found that the driver's long eyebrow Qingmu Xiu, about twenty-five, six years old, a polite look, a look is a cultural person.
The distance home is far, the young man is not like other drivers, turn on the stereo, put on the music and drive by himself, but talk with me, in the conversation, I can't imagine that the young man is a graduate student, has been an online teacher for two years, full-time middle school students extracurricular training. After the implementation of the double reduction policy this year, due to the layoffs of the company, he became an online car driver and worked part-time as a nanny for "living and housekeeping".
I saw that the young man was very down-to-earth, the education was also high, and he had experience in online teaching, and persuaded him to go back to his hometown to take a teacher' examination, or to take a civil servant examination, it was better than being a Didi car driver, part-time housekeeping as a nanny, and working two jobs a day. The young man shook his head and said, "If I go back to the mountains of my hometown and take the exam as a teacher or civil servant, my monthly salary will be about three thousand, and now I still have my younger siblings studying, and I will have to support my parents in the future.
Hearing this, thinking back to myself, at that time, in order to jump out of the farm, desperately studying, at the insistence of my mother, the family smashed pots and sold iron for me to study, after more than ten years of hard work, finally established a foothold in the city, married a wife, bought a house, my son also went to a famous local private middle school, I also became a child of "other people's families", whenever I returned to my hometown, I always heard the old family educating children, to take me as an example, study hard, and strive to achieve a counterattack in life.
When I was pondering, the young man talked about the "double reduction" policy again, saying that "double subtraction" is not to tell the archer not to shoot arrows, but to change a farther target, so that it will test the players more, and in the future, "the cold door will be more difficult to get out of the noble son". Hearing this sentence " The cold door is more difficult to get out of the noble son " , I asked why? The young man hey hey smile, said that before there was no "double subtraction", the lack of class can also be made up outside the classroom, many people funded to jointly ask people to make up for it, and now after the double reduction, the test is the "soft" strength and "hard power" of parents.
He said that now either the child's parents have "soft" strength, both parents or one of them has the ability, there is also time to tutor the child, such as the teacher family has both ability and experience to tutor the child; or the child's parents have "hard" strength, super economic strength, can afford "live housekeeping", he said that he is now a boss's "live housekeeping", when the boss's child's nanny, the time is Monday to Friday, every day after school, the whole process of accompanying the child's cultural learning, skill training, physical exercise, entertainment games, as a child" Second parent", be the "babysitter" of the child. After the child went to school, he became an online booking driver again, so that he worked two jobs a day, and every day was also enriched.
I asked him how his income compares to before? He smiled and said that he used to be an online teacher, tutoring more children every day, and answering questions after class, and the work was very tiring. Only more than 10,000 points of income per month, now play two jobs, "live in the house" boss to see his son progress quite large, the shot is also very generous, plus network about the driver income, now the income is less than 3W. He also plans to find another family member on Saturday and Sunday, do "living housekeeping", and be a babysitter for children, which is much better than being an online teacher. (I have to admire the young man's super self-promotion ability, a conversation, successfully sold himself, afterwards the young man also admitted that being an online booking driver is to contact successful people and facilitate the promotion of themselves)
Hearing this, I finally understood why the young man did not return to his hometown; I also figured out what was the new profession of "living in the house", and I also had a new understanding of "the cold door is more difficult to get out of the noble son".
Originally, I often negotiated business outside, this time rushed home, is to get together with my son, eat, play, after all, before the double reduction, my son went to a private school, only once a month on vacation, when my son was on vacation, I was on a business trip, when I was resting at home, my son was at school, it was difficult to see each other several times a year, the child's mother joked that in the long run, your father and son will "see each other and don't know each other".
Now after the double reduction, the school responds to the call, the compulsory education stage does not make up classes, the week also has two days off, the son also has his own free time, listen to his wife, the first few weeks of the weekend, the child in addition to doing homework, is to read books and exercise, but the last two weekends, the child was actually hooked on the mobile phone, hooked on the game, so I rushed to the home, want to accompany the son, make up for the debt to the son in recent years, but also want to knock on the son who is really relaxed, so as not to give up in the key year of junior high school, and regret is too late!
Looking at the young man in front of me, thinking back to the young man's words: "I don't go back to my hometown, I just don't want the next generation to stay in the mountains; double subtraction, not to tell archers not to shoot arrows, but the target is farther away, after the double subtraction is the parents' "soft" and "hard" strength, the cold door is more difficult to get out of the noble son! "What should I do? Did you invite the boy to my house to do "house housekeeping" on the weekend? Being a full-time nanny for your son? How much should I pay the young man every month? Everyone gave me a support, and I was waiting for everyone in the comment area
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