Fathers compare their daughters to intimate "little cotton jackets", which also shows a harmonious parent-child relationship, but when the affection between father and daughter appears "pathological", it will not only affect the parent-child relationship, but also increase the psychological pressure and burden in the daughter's heart, and the serious behavior will even lead to the daughter's mental illness.
There is a saying that "children avoid mothers, women avoid fathers", but there is a variety show in South Korea, and one of the programs actually shattered the three views of netizens. A 17-year-old girl asked for help on the show, asking her father to change her behavior, the reason is that the father is too "intimate" behavior, the girl complained on the show, she often did housework at home, suddenly a pair of hands began to touch her buttocks, the girl immediately turned back to find her father and she did not have the intention of giving up, the girl quickly asked for help from the mother who was watching TV on the side, but the mother did not think it was a normal behavior, and there was no intention of stopping, What makes the girl even more unbearable is that the father will often take the initiative to ask for a bath for her, and sometimes the father will directly break into the bathroom without greeting, making her feel very helpless and scared, but the father's statement makes people "smack", the father said that there is nothing wrong with such a practice, he thinks that the daughter's body belongs to himself! After the broadcast of this program, it was "shelled" by countless netizens, some netizens said that this father was a "psychopath", and some netizens said that in the name of family affection, they were doing things that were inferior to animals; some netizens said that this father was an out-and-out hooligan and so on.
This father's approach can no longer be described as excessive, nor can it be described as perverted. The father did not care, but the harm to his daughter's heart was immeasurable. Therefore, for the healthy growth of children, in the parent-child relationship, especially between father and daughter, we must maintain a certain "safe distance", and at the same time, in the process of educating children, fathers also need to pay attention to these points of forbidden areas.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" >, learn to respect your daughter</h1>
Every girl has her own privacy, has her own private space, so as a qualified father, the first thing you need to do is to respect the privacy of your daughter, but also to learn to protect your daughter's privacy, when entering your daughter's room, you must learn to knock on the door, you must not walk into the bathroom of your daughter's bath without saying a word when your daughter is bathing, and so on. Only when the father achieves the minimum respect can a good parent-child relationship be formed.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > two, do not touch the daughter's private parts</h1>
There is such a news, a man in his 30s holding a girl of about five years old in his hands, and then the man put his hand into the daughter's lower body and back, and from time to time lifted the daughter's blouse and constantly touched the girl while kissing the girl's face, neck and back, and then the man was more bold, put his hand into the girl's lower body, the girl was very resistant, Dad I hurt, don't touch my ass! The passenger mistakenly believed that the man was molesting the girl and immediately called the police, which was surprising that the man was the girl's father, and the father firmly believed that this was a normal behavior!
Every girl has a private part, is not allowed to be touched by anyone, their parents are no exception, so as a qualified father, the daughter's private parts including breasts, buttocks, private parts, etc. must not be touched, so when their daughter is 2 years old, began to have a hazy gender awareness, this time the father needs to pay attention to his behavior, to create a harmonious and healthy growth atmosphere for his daughter.
< h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > third, as early as possible to popularize sexual knowledge for daughters</h1>
Many parents will appear "talk about sexual discoloration" situation, not to mention the father to the daughter to popularize sexual knowledge, in fact, such an idea is not correct, the father for the daughter to popularize sexual knowledge, can better protect the daughter, let the daughter know what parts of their body others can not see, which places others can not touch, but also to teach the daughter to protect themselves, love themselves.
In the growth of children, parents should position their roles, what to do, what not to do, to know in their hearts, not to offside.
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