Many career-oriented boyfriends have a very loud slogan: Sunset West Mountain You don't accompany, who are you to make a comeback?
Therefore, compared with women who share the joy of success with themselves, men appreciate and love women who are in love with themselves.
The famous singer and actor Zhong Zhentao is such a person. He had been married twice, in the brightest moment of his life, Zhang Xiaohui came to him, when he fell into the trough of life, Zhang Xiaohui left him, when he fell into despair, Fan Jiang unswervingly accompanied him, when he came back, he did not hesitate to refuse Zhang Xiaohui who came to remarry, but held Fan Jiang firmly in the palm of his hand.
Only when a person has experienced ups and downs can he see the people around him, understand the things around him, and find the purest original intention.
One
Zhong Zhentao became famous at a young age, and in 1973, when he was only 20 years old, he became the lead singer of the Wenna Band, and with Tan Yonglin on the same stage, in addition to singing, he also laid a world in the film and television circle and broke out some reputation. The two women who were most closely related to him in his life, at this time, one was only 10 years old and the other was only 8 years old.
In 1987, Zhong Zhentao debuted for 14 years, and his career integrity was as good as the sun, and it was also this year that he encountered the "robbery" of the first half of his life - Zhang Xiaohui.
Zhang Xiaohui, who is 10 years younger than Zhong Zhentao, is the lord with the golden key from childhood, and she has been pampered since she was a child, basically living in the United States or Canada, the two are separated from each other, how do they walk together?
It is also a bit coincidental that in 1987, the Band of Wen na went to Canada to embark on a global tour, and Zhang Xiaohui and her friends went to watch, and as a result, they were suddenly attracted by Zhong Zhentao on the stage. Then, on the recommendation of a friend, Zhang Xiaohui met Zhong Zhentao.
The two can say that they fell in love at first sight, Zhang Xiaohui's temperament is something that Zhong Zhentao has never seen before, and Zhong Zhentao's talent is also appreciated by Zhang Xiaohui in his heart. The fire of dry wood, the love in the hearts of the two collided together.
Soon, the two fell in love, and 21 days later, Zhong Zhentao revealed the idea of marriage, and Zhang Xiaohui also specially brought Zhong Zhentao to his home to see his parents.
However, Zhong Zhentao, who was full of joy, touched a nose of ash the first time he came to the door, why? Father Zhang did not agree, and for the reason, Father Zhang also pointed out without any care - Zhang Xiaohui was used to spending money with big hands, and Zhong Zhentao could not afford to raise it.
Zhong Zhentao did not believe this passage said by Yue's future father-in-law, with the income of his well-known artist, could he still support his wife?
It turned out that he was still a little overestimating himself and underestimating Zhang Xiaohui. In 1988, Zhong Zhentao and Zhang Xiaohui got married, and at that time, the entire wedding cost 3 million yuan, and only one wedding dress exceeded 130,000.
After marriage, Zhang Xiaohui gave birth to a son and a daughter to Zhong Zhentao, and Zhong Zhentao, in order to reward his hard-working wife, in addition to giving her 30,000 pocket money every month, also gave her a card, which she could shop at will.
And all this is developing as Zhang Father said, a 4-year-old with his mother to buy luxury goods, 12 years old to fill the wardrobe with luxury goods, inspirational to become a famous woman, how can it be a fuel-saving lamp, she spends money, has always been extravagant, new luxury goods, whether like it or not, are transported home in the whole car.
In this way, even the golden mountains and silver mountains will be squandered, not to mention, Zhong Zhentao's career will decline as he grows older.
In 1996, the two borrowed money to invest in real estate, and it wasn't long before the financial storm came, leaving them with a bottom-to-earth loss and having to carry 250 million yuan in debt.
Zhang Xiaohui, who is accustomed to a life of brocade and jade food, seems to have never known the word frugality, and is still extravagant in the case of precarious financial situations, so the contradiction between the two gradually arises. Zhang Xiaohui is also a real person, seeing that Zhong Zhentao's big tree has fallen, he found a new joy.
In 1999, the marriage between the two came to an end, in the eyes of Zhong Zhentao, Zhang Xiaohui was a disaster in his life, Zhang Xiaohui not only squandered the property he had accumulated for decades, but also brought himself a green hat. I believe that at that time, Zhong Zhentao was confused in his heart - why can people only share blessings, why can't they share hardships?
Two
Soon after the divorce, Zhang Xiaohui got along with a rich man, and Zhong Zhentao met Fan Jiang, who was 12 years younger than himself, and the two met at a family dinner of friends.
Fan Jiang is deeply sympathetic to Zhong Zhentao's suffering, and she also knows that Zhong Zhentao is alone with a pair of children, and life is quite difficult, so she takes care of Zhong Zhentao and his two children in her daily life. So-called, day after day to see the truth, the two walked together.
After Zhong Zhentao was together, Fan Jiang reviewed his debts, and finally, she proposed that Zhong Zhentao declare bankruptcy, Zhong Zhentao listened to her opinion, moved out of the mansion, sold the luxury car, and rented a house outside, and Fan Jiang did not abandon him and suffered with him.
Zhong Zhentao did not want to drag Fan Jiang down, proposed to break up, Fan Jiang did not say much after listening, she just hugged Zhong Zhentao's waist from behind, she knew that men need support, so after snuggling for a while, she said: "No matter how big the hurdle is, we have hope, you don't want to drive me away, in this life, I will follow you." ”
There is no mountain alliance and sea oath between the two, Fan Jiang just uses the most simple words, narrating the most true love, love to the depths, Fang is so.
Fan Jiang said this, and did the same, in Zhong Zhentao's most difficult time, she also sold jewelry to subsidize the family, she not only had to take care of Zhong Zhentao and his ex-wife's children, but also to help Zhong Zhentao's work and give him an assistant.
In 2006, the two worked hard not only to pay off all their debts, but also to add a small family member, Zhong Yi.
What Zhong Zhentao did not expect was that after he was on the right track, his ex-wife Zhang Xiaohui came to find him.
The meaning is very simple, I hope to break the mirror and re-round. After Zhang Xiaohui and Zhong Zhentao divorced, they found a rich man, however, she liked to buy and buy, and after only a few years of kung fu, she destroyed the rich family, and saw that the rich man had become a negative tycoon, and Zhang Xiaohui's attitude was very simple - leaving.
Now, he saw that Zhong Zhentao's life was improving again, so he came to the door again, and her operation, in Zhuge Liang's words, said: "I have never seen such a brazen person." ”
And Zhong Zhentao's attitude, just think about it - remarriage, no door, which is cool, then stay.
Zhang Xiaohui was naturally unwilling in order to find a long meal ticket, so he played the emotional card, but to his surprise, he and Zhong Zhentaosheng's son and girlfriend did not agree, and in the hearts of the two, they regarded Fan Jiang as a mother, rather than Zhang Xiaohui who ignored them.
In this regard, Zhang Xiaohui did not say anything on his lips, and his heart had already gritted his teeth.
Three
In 2011, Zhang Xiaohui found an opportunity to take revenge.
In April of that year, Fan Jiang met Zhang Xiaohui's sister Zhang Xiaowan in the lobby of the apartment, who provoked trouble, the two had a dispute, Zhang Xiaohui learned about it, and flew back to Hong Kong from Canada on purpose, accusing Fan Jiang of abusing his daughter out of nowhere.
A stone stirred up a thousand waves, but fortunately, Zhong Jiaqing, the daughter of Zhong Zhentao and Zhang Xiaohui, came forward to explain, she said: "Mother Fan is like my mother and like my sister." ”
Zhong Zhentao also unswervingly supported Fan Jiang, and he also made up a wedding with Fan Jiang in 2015, with four children surrounding them - in 2010, Fan Jiang had a daughter.
In Zhong Zhentao's eyes, Fan Jiang is both his lover and his benefactor, and he bluntly said that at the lowest point of his life, he was fortunate to meet Fan Jiang, and if he did not have her encouragement and support, he might sink down.
Zhong Zhentao is sad and happy, the sadness is that he has met a person who asks for it, and happiness lies in the fact that he has met a person who pays for himself.
Finally, talking about Zhang Xiaohui, after going bankrupt for two husbands, she suddenly learned to be self-reliant, and she was also mixed up, and for the love affair with Zhong Zhentao, she has also put it down, although Zhong Zhentao has not publicly denigrated Zhang Xiaohui, but Zhang Xiaohui only said one sentence: "He just hasn't put it down yet." ”
However, at present, Zhang Xiaohui is still alone, and she does not know whether she will regret seeing Zhong Zhentao and Fan Jiang fall in love and dream back to midnight.