If Xu Min is not pitiful, it is not very realistic, after all, the adopted son who has been together for 28 years has ended up with an illness, and the heart of his own son seems to be unable to walk with her.
Pathetic, indeed pathetic enough!
But since Xu Mindu was already so pitiful, why would anyone not support her?
About this phenomenon of Xu Min, it is very interesting:
Her approval ratings showed a parabola of rules, from the beginning of the "liver cutting to save the child" to the climax of Yao Ce's death in March, which was a soaring stage.
At this stage, Xu Min can be said to have very few opponents, even if some people do not agree with her personal behavior, but based on her "encounter" will also show understanding.
Since the official announcement on April 21, Xu Min's approval rating has begun to show a slow downward trend, although the decline rate is very slow but unstoppable decline.
This trend is not only continuing, but also seems irreversible: more and more people no longer blindly support all of Xu Min's actions, but think and discern.
At present, Xu Min has long faded the highlight, and the controversy she carries is not less than That of Du Xinzhi.
As for xu minmingming so pitiful, but now there are more and more people who do not support her, in fact, it is not so complicated but inevitable of everything.
Article 1: Official announcement, the overall situation is determined!
The time when Xu Min really began to show a decline was undoubtedly April 21: the seal and the HuaiHe successively issued notices, especially the official announcement of the seal was authoritative.
The official announcement on April 21 clearly mentioned that the investigation team overcame difficulties such as the age of the incident, the lack of relevant clues, and the difficulty of finding the parties involved... and made a decision not to make a decision!
The 421 official announcement has proved Du Xinzhi's innocence, and from this moment on, more and more people dare to raise different opinions, and gradually developed into a situation of a hundred flowers blooming in one direction.
What can be found is:
Professor Su called on all parties to be rational, after the official announcement;
A host talked about the economic account after the official announcement;
Deng Xueping spoke out because of the photo, after the official announcement;
Zhou Zhaocheng praised Yao Ce for his excellence, and he was also after the official announcement!
Such voices are all after the official announcement, people with names and surnames abound, and ordinary netizens with names and surnames are springing up.
This is the authority of official propaganda, without which there would be no subsequent change of situation: because rational citizens will choose to believe in official propaganda without being blinded by external network things and disrupting order.
The 421 official announcement had a huge impact on the incident, and from this moment on, Du Xinzhi had already been innocent, and the overall situation had been decided.
No matter how Xu Min may be a family member or a fan, how he raises all kinds of unrealistic doubts on the Internet, it is impossible to surpass the official announcement without empirical evidence and force Du Xinzhi to wear a falsely broken hat.
In addition, Xu Min has not made a breakthrough since 11 questions, she has been looking for a bracelet for more than half a year, in fact, the biggest shortcut to find a bracelet is to ask her former relative Gao Yuzhi.
At that time, Gao Yuzhi was the director of the nursing department, how could he not know whether there was a bracelet in 1992?
Xu Min's questioning circular but not providing effective materials made people more and more confused after a long period of time without a substantive breakthrough: In the end, do you believe in the official announcement, or do you believe in Xu Min?
Normal citizens will believe the official announcement!
Second: people are tall, not heavy enough!
Xu Min is famous for cutting her liver to save her son, and it can be said that all her aura is based on Yao Ce, and without Yao Ce, there can be no great personality of her.
Without Yao Ce, Xu Min is a non-literate person in the online world!
Yao Ce fulfilled Xu Min's highlights, but Xu Min did not fulfill the behavior that he should have.
The first is the cliché of liver cutting to save the child:
Xu Min was first famous for cutting her liver to save her son, but to this day she has not seen her actual action.
Until Yao Ce left, she did not wait for Xu Min to donate her liver, and her liver cutting to save her son now seems to be equivalent to shouting slogans, but this slogan that did not come to fruition gave her a good name.
Why didn't Xu Min cut his liver to save his son?
If the matching is not successful, can Xu Min post the matching list?
Some people may say that Xu Min is because he cut his liver to save his son, only to find out that Yao Ce is not biological, since he is not a parent, then naturally he cannot change Yao Ce's liver, and he does not need to do matching.
This kind of statement can only scare the old aunt who is illiterate, and the liver replacement does not necessarily have to be a blood relative, as long as the matching is successful in principle, there is a feasibility of changing the liver, not to mention that Xu Min is still Yao Ce's adoptive mother.
Therefore, can Xu Min show up and say, what is the reason why he did not cut the liver to save his son as advertised?
According to professionals: When Yao Ce found liver cancer, the tumor was 14 cm long and accompanied by a portal vein and its branch cancer plugs, and there was no possibility of liver replacement at all.
If it is an ordinary person who does not know that there are extenuating circumstances, but Xu Min's work unit is jiujiang third hospital and it is a cancer hospital, it should be very clear about this situation.
So why does Xu Min want to publicize liver cutting to save his son?
So why did Xu Min want to publicize that he was looking for Yao Ce's biological parents to change his liver and continue his life?
There is no possibility of liver replacement, where is the liver replacement to continue life?
Why can't Xu Min's words and deeds be true?
If you are looking for a biological child and say that you are looking for a biological child, will others blame Xu Min for looking for a biological child?
Xu Min cut the liver to save her son can not withstand scrutiny, of course, we believe that she must have had this idea at the beginning, but as for whether she continued to use this gimmick to do a series of publicity after knowing that she did not have the conditions for liver replacement, only she knew!
In the face of the question of cutting the liver and saving the son, can Xu Min justify himself?
Xu Min established a great adoptive mother who deeply loved Yao Ce, but did not do what he needed to do: for example, Yao Ce wanted to spend the last Chinese New Year's Eve meal with Xu Min and his wife, but Xu Min and his wife silently refused, and appeared in Zhumadian thousands of miles away on the day of Chinese New Year's Eve.
Xu Min and his wife's determination of their adopted son is generally obvious, not only can not be called great, not even goodness can not be talked about, human design is completely unable to support.
While sadly talking about how much he loved Yao Ce, but at the same time, he ignored and ignored Yao Ce in the last time, and this contradictory human setting completely collapsed!
Not loving is actually not impossible, but since you don't love, don't pretend to be deeply in love on the Internet, since you pretend to love deeply, you should pretend to give Yao Ce the last love, but Xu Min can't even do this.
Xu Min gained a good name under Yao Ceying's attention, but he did not fulfill the obligations and responsibilities of the good name, and the human design was completely insufficient!
Of course, Xu Min's personality is not only this, she also has a very obvious and inadequate personality: family lineage!
If Xu Min can seek truth from facts, I believe that the current situation will not gradually change into this.
But Xu Min did not treat him with sincerity from the beginning: Xu Min said that he was born in the Shuxiang Mendi and a military family, so he dreamed of raising his children to become officers!
There is nothing wrong with wanting a child to become an officer, the fault is that Xu Min should not construct a military family identity.
What is Shijia?
At least three generations or more engaged in the same glamorous profession, this kind of family can be called a certain family: for example, Zhang Liang of the Western Han Dynasty is a noble family, his grandfather is the prime minister of the three dynasties, his father is the prime minister of the two dynasties, and he himself is also a Situ (equivalent to the prime minister).
The three generations of direct bloodlines of the Zhang family are extremely popular subjects, this kind of family is called a noble family, and Zhang Liang's children and grandchildren can completely hold their heads high and say that they were born in an aristocratic family!
But look at what kind of family Xu Min is?
Xu Min's grandfather is said to be a rice expert, her father is an officer (to be verified), she is a hospital worker, three generations and three professions, in addition to her father is a soldier, she and her grandfather are not even next to the side of the soldier, so how to call it a military family?
If Xu Min only said that he was born in Shuxiang Mendi, then this is not too controversial, if several generations are cultural people born to call Shuxiang also go.
But why did Xu Min give himself some extra labels of military families that could not be beaten by his own eight rods?
Xu Min claims to be beautiful and beautiful, but his words and deeds and facts are often inconsistent, can such a person last a long time?
If people can't stand it, the number of doubters will naturally increase!
Third: Poor man, but hurt poor man!
Xu Min's life is tragic, but Du Xinzhi's life is more tragic and painful than hers:
29 years ago, she did not even see the child face to raise other people's children, 28 years later to see her own son is doomed to soon be separated by yin and yang, obviously the biggest victim but is portrayed as the perpetrator, this is not more pitiful than Xu Min?
If Xu Min is a poor person, then Du Xinzhi is too poor to express in words!
Xu Min was pitiful and only missed the life of her own son for 28 years, and she still had enough time to make up for this gap in the future, but Du Xinzhi lost the life of her own son for a lifetime, and only had less than a year of time for her children, and she never had the opportunity to make up for Yao Ce's maternal love.
But it was such an extremely miserable person who was falsely accused by Xu Min of calling him a child for stealing, and also said that Du Xinzhi was too bad in the recording of "release".
The stealing storm caused by Xu Min brought unprecedented physical and mental double damage to Du Xinzhi!
Xu Min was pitiful, but she hurt her mother even more pitifully than she was.
If Xu Min had empirical evidence, there was nothing to say, but until today she could not even come up with a piece of real hammer evidence.
In fact, if Du Xinzhi's doubts are true, then there are only a lot more doubts in Xu Min's body, and Xu Min seems to be more likely to check himself and prove his innocence!
Poor man, why hurt a poor man?
In fact, how many years can Du Xinzhi have?
Her physical condition was destined to make her go before Xu Min, and it would not prevent Guo Wei from returning to Xu Min's side in the slightest, nor would it prevent Xu Min's old age from having her own children to accompany her.
So, why bother?
After seeing more people and watching for a long time, there are more people who naturally see the sun through the fog:
This may be why Xu Minming is obviously pitiful, but more and more people no longer support her!
Xu Min's initial stardom to the current gradual reduction of supporters and the gradual increase in controversy are entirely caused by her own hands.