Yi Shu wrote in the book "Xi Bao": I want a lot of love, if not, a lot of money is also good, if not, I still have a healthy body.
There are many girls who empathize with this sentence, and when faced with love, the first thing they want is the love of their boyfriends.
However, if the boyfriend can't give them love, they will retreat to the second place, hoping that the boyfriend can give them material protection.
However, if the boyfriend can't give them material protection, they will put forward their own minimum requirements, hoping that the boyfriend can share the pressure for himself and let himself have a healthy and free body and mind.
In a good love, both lovers must have emotional affection, but also have a material basis as a guarantee, so if a couple wants to maintain a good love relationship, it is necessary to communicate feelings frequently, take the initiative to share the pressure for each other, girls should be considerate, and men should be responsible.
If there is no communication between a couple, and both parties are unwilling to pay for each other's future life and take responsibility, then this love is difficult to last.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > a 17-year-old woman falls in love with a 9-year-old man and has no one to help her with her children after giving birth to them</h1>
Liu Jingyi, 21, has recently fallen into deep distress because her nearly four-and-a-half-year-old daughter is left unattended. Liu Jingyi's grandparents are all nearly old, and they have long lost the energy and ability to take care of their children, and Liu Jingyi also quit her job in order to take care of her daughter.
Seeing this, I believe many readers will have questions, where is Liu Jingyi's husband? Why doesn't he share the pressure for his wife?
It turned out that Liu Jingyi and her boyfriend Jiang Ming met five years ago, and the two of them met and fell in love through the Internet, at that time, Liu Jingyi was only 17 years old, and Jiang Ming was already 26 years old.
However, the 9-year-old age difference between the two did not affect the development of the relationship between the two, because Liu Jingyi felt that Jiang Ming was mature and stable, and took good care of herself, so she came together with Jiang Ming without hesitation.
At that time, Liu Jingyi had not yet reached the marriageable age, so she did not receive a marriage license with Jiang Ming, and the two people just set up a banquet according to local customs and lived together.
Soon after, Liu Jingyi became pregnant, because she was still young at that time, so she did not plan to have a child, but the in-laws' family strongly demanded that Liu Jingyi give birth to the child, and promised that they would take care of it for them in the future.
However, when Liu Jingyi gave birth to a daughter, the responsibility for taking care of the child was all on Liu Jingyi herself, and she sometimes had to work and could not be separated, and she could only ask her grandparents to take care of her.
However, Liu Jingyi's grandparents are old, and they also seem powerless to take care of their children, they believe that the daughter of their granddaughter Liu Jingyi should be taken care of by her in-laws, and the economic conditions of Jiang Ming's family are much better than their own, this is their daughter and granddaughter, how can they shirk their responsibilities so much?
So, what is the attitude of Liu Jingyi's in-laws at this time? Liu Jingyi opened her mobile phone and saw a message from her mother-in-law scolding herself.
The mother-in-law said that Liu Jingyi deceived her family, she pretended to go out to work, left the child alone, in fact, went out to play with others, let herself help her watch the child.
Liu Jingyi's mother-in-law was angry in her words, and she felt that Liu Jingyi had deceived her family, what was going on?
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > love that is 9 years apart, and there is a lack of generation gap, and the little wife bluntly says that the husband is not responsible</h1>
It turned out that not long ago, Liu Jingyi told her in-laws that she wanted to go out to work, hoping that they could help with the children, and the in-laws agreed.
However, after Liu Jingyi went out, she was seen by her fellow villagers playing with two friends, so the fellow villagers told Liu Jingyi's boyfriend Jiang Ming about this matter.
And Jiang Ming even told his parents about this matter, the parents listened to Jiang Ming's words and were furious, they all thought that Liu Jingyi left the child no matter what other intentions, so after they took care of the child for more than ten days, they sent Liu Jingyi's daughter to her grandmother's house, poor the young child.
Liu Jingyi only wants to ask her boyfriend Jiang Ming for an explanation, and she hopes that her boyfriend can take responsibility and not always think of escaping.
So, what kind of attitude is Jiang Ming?
After several twists and turns, Liu Jingyi finally found Jiang Ming, who said that he never wanted to leave Liu Jingyi, but his girlfriend never contacted him.
Jiang Ming said that Liu Jingyi was dissatisfied with herself because she did not have a stable job, could not earn money, and did not share the responsibility of taking care of her daughter for her girlfriend, but she had already done her best to pay for her girlfriend at that time.
He confessed that his girlfriend said that he went out to work, but played with other people of the opposite sex, which made his family doubt that it was wrong for him not to trust his girlfriend.
So, can the relationship between the two people be repaired?
It turns out that Liu Jingyi's original family is not happy, she was born shortly after, her biological father died, and her mother has also reorganized the family, from childhood with her grandparents, she is actually a person who lacks love and security, so she will be attracted by Jiang Ming's thoughtfulness and stability at the age of 17, and fall in love with him.
However, after giving birth to a child, Liu Jingyi found that Jiang Ming is a person who has neither ability nor responsibility, and most importantly, Jiang Ming does not trust himself, before, Liu Jingyi could not get a marriage license with Jiang Ming because she was not of marriageable age, but when she reached the age of marriage, she wanted to get a license with Jiang Ming, and Jiang Ming always shirked rejection, which made Liu Jingyi feel insecure, and the idea of breaking up with her boyfriend arose in her heart.
In the end, Jiang Ming bought a ring for Liu Jingyi, proposed to Liu Jingyi, hoping to use his own practical actions to tell his girlfriend that I am willing to try my best to pay for you, but at this time, for Jiang Ming's promise, Liu Jingyi did not dare to believe it, she decided to give Jiang Ming a chance, starting from ordinary friends, and then see Jiang Ming's performance.
At this point, whether this love that is 9 years apart can be saved, this decision is put into Jiang Ming's hands.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > love can because of mutual liking, marriage requires understanding and trust</h1>
Some people say that love is a matter of two people, as long as two people are in love, love can be produced between each other, but marriage is different, because marriage is more complicated, married life, but also need to face more difficulties, a marriage to succeed, it is inseparable from each other's understanding and trust.
The reason why Liu Jingyi chose Jiang Ming, who is 8 years older than her, is because Jiang Ming understands her and takes good care of her, which makes her feel like home, who lacks love since childhood.
However, after Liu Jingyi gave birth to a daughter for Jiang Ming, she felt a sense of insecurity, he felt that Jiang Ming did not take responsibility, not only did not share his own economic pressure, but also did not share the pressure of taking care of his children for himself, all of which made her feel disappointed.
In the end, the distrust from her husband's family became the last straw that crushed Liu Jingyi, and it was difficult for her to trust Jiang Ming anymore.
In a good marriage, husband and wife should not only have love, but also have a material basis for protection, but also have mutual trust, life is not easy, marriage is not easy, and it is done and cherished.
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