Author: Li Dakui
Because of Lady Wang's trust and Jia Mu's appreciation, the fierce and vicious Wang Xifeng was able to take charge of the internal affairs of the Rongguo Mansion; Qin Keqing, the young grandmother of the Ningguo Mansion, died young, and when the head mother of the family, You Shi, fell ill, the patriarch Jia Zhen entrusted Wang Xifeng to assist in managing the Ningguo Mansion, so that Wang Xifeng not only buried the "girlfriend" with dignity, but also quickly clarified the mess in the Ningguo Mansion.
For a time, Wang Xifeng, who was exquisitely beautiful on all sides, became a powerful figure in Jia Fu's words "I want the wind to get the wind, I want the rain to get the rain", and "I can do what I say". There is no one under Jia Fu who is not afraid, and a master like Jia Huan who is "out of the house" can only stand on the sidelines, and even her husband Jia Lian, who is in charge of foreign affairs, has to "go backwards".
It can be said that when Jia Fu was first in Wang Xifeng's stewardship, it was very orderly and orderly, and there was a great prosperity. So why is it that her housekeeper is actually "doing more harm than good"?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="5" >, high-pressure management is not convincing</h1>
It turned out that Wang Xifeng's housekeeper adopted a single and rough high-pressure management model, and under the love and connivance of Jia Mu, the highest authority in Jia Province, he was extremely vicious towards his subordinates:
Or "kneel in the sun with a magnetic tile, and do not give tea and food"; or take a rope whip and break the little hoof who has no master in sight"...
Don't treat people like people at all. On her birthday, when she went home because of hiding wine, a little girl ran when she saw her, and was immediately stopped by the drinking order, Wang Xifeng raised her hand to punch, followed by another slap, making the little girl dizzy, and she would also be "burned with a red soldering iron to burn the mouth..." ＂
When accompanying Jia Mu to the Qingxu Temple, a small Taoist accidentally bumped into her arms, and was immediately slapped by Wang Xifeng, who rolled out with a tendon fight, and was cursed: "Bison, Hu ran there." ＂
Wang Xifeng's rough and vicious moves are obviously the cold-blooded attitude of those in power who are high up in power, although for a while they make the managed personnel or the vulnerable groups fearfully accept, but the symptoms are not cured, and they do not serve the public, but make people disgusted and disgusted.
Lady Wang's companion Zhou Rui's family directly said that she "treated the next person too strictly", the steward of the Ningguo Mansion Lai Sheng said that she was a fierce commodity who did not recognize people, and Jia Lian's servant Xing'er said that she was "sweet and bitter in her mouth, with three knives on both sides, a smile on her face, and a tripwire under her feet, which is a pot of fire in the open and a knife in the dark." ＂
Rao is so, because Wang Xifeng was in the period of gaining power at that time, the people did not dare not listen to her, but the dissatisfaction in their hearts was increasing day by day, and once Wang Xifeng lost power, he would inevitably calculate the old and new accounts together, just like beating the falling water dog to retaliate against her.
Obviously, Wang Xifeng's high-pressure management is not a long-term strategy, and the customary use of this method to manage the family is definitely "more harmful than beneficial."
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="14" > second, too arrogant under its own dictatorship</h1>
In addition, Wang Xifeng, who was disobedient, himself acted too arrogant under the dictatorship:
You see that she "got the power of the Iron Sill Temple", received three thousand taels of silver transferred by the pure and vain old nun, and under the influence of her uncle Prince Teng's power, she forced a marriage to be broken, so that the prince of the garrison family and Zhang Jinge were both martyred and died.
There is also her who forced The Second Sister you to swallow gold to commit suicide, and the innocent child was stillborn. During this period, when secretly instructing Zhang Hua, the ex-fiancé of Second Sister You, to tell her husband Jia Lian, she also arrogantly said that even if he said that his Jia family was plotting rebellion, it did not matter.
Is it really possible that it doesn't matter? Obviously not. Violating the supreme royal power, let alone the princely palace, even the prince will be punished.
Wang Xifeng's arrogance when she was a housekeeper could only confirm that she was a legal illiterate, did not know how to respect Wang Fa in her heart, and did not care about any laws and regulations. Under the misleading thinking of this, he vainly said "I will do what I say" and made a series of butler matters that made Ling Zhi faint.
For example, embezzling the salaries of Jia Fu personnel, illegally releasing profits to make money; accepting benefits to do things for people, the most prominent thing is that Jia Yun sent spices so that he could be responsible for the greening of the Grand View Garden, Jia Qiang could get the fat difference of procurement if she pleased her, Jia Qin's mother also found her help, jia Qin got the work of managing the family temple...
Also, although Jia Rui, a disciple of the Jia clan, had a crush on her sister-in-law, the sin did not lead to death. If you look at the poisonous and spicy methods taken by Wang Xifeng, Jia Rui died tragically within two days, and Jia Dairu's family had to pitifully "send white-haired people to black-haired people"...
One by one, wang Xifeng's disregard for law and discipline and even taking people's lives is clearly revealed: If Wang Xifeng continues to be so arrogant as a housekeeper, he will inevitably suffer the consequences of his own evil deeds and will inevitably sell for his own crimes.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="23" > third, after the death of the old feudal prince Jia Mu, Wang Xifeng lost the hearts of the people</h1>
Sure enough.
It is precisely because of Wang Xifeng's serious lack of high-pressure management that he has committed public anger; he has acted arrogantly under the dictatorship, and the facts of the crime are "ironclad evidence", for a long time, and when it comes to the day of exposure, how can he not be completely liquidated and ruthlessly punished?
At the same time, she is such a centralized housekeeper, in fact, she put herself on the fire and roasted herself, trapping herself in the overload of serious overdraft. Everything is personally asked, personally grasped, even if it is a small matter in the process of distributing monthly regulations, material procurement, etc., they are all in their hands; even if there are confidants like Ping'er who do their best to help her make suggestions, they are not at ease, they are not willing to completely delegate their power, and they still hold on hard and do not let go.
Over time, even if Wang Xifeng himself is a hero in the "iron" fat powder team, he will not be able to withstand the influence of the laws of nature and collapse violently. Wang Xifeng later got the "Blood Landslide", which is proof of this.
What was even more speechless was that Wang Xifeng got the acting stewardship and slowly drifted away, only knowing that he blindly pleased Jia Mu, and the other masters did not care at all.
Although the mother-in-law Lady Xing was Jia Yu's step-brother and the nominal mother of her husband Jia Lian, she was also one of the important masters that the RongGuo Mansion could not deny, not to mention that Wang Xifeng would have to return to the changmen in the future regardless of his home.
There is also the aunt Lady Wang, who is actually the head of the Rongguo Mansion, and is not a peacemaker who does not care about anything, but only because Jia Mu is at the helm.
Logically, Wang Xifeng understands when he is a housekeeper, and he needs to pay attention to these stakes.
As soon as Wang Xifeng had great power in his hands, he didn't care and considered the complex Jia Fu too simply.
Let's take Wang Xifeng's birthday as an example. The son of the Zhou Rui family was drunk and forgot to accept the gift, and When Wang Xifeng got angry, he directly ordered him to go out. Such punishment is clearly a matter of authority. Mistakes made by the next person must be dealt with, but they must be in accordance with the rules and show justice, and they cannot do whatever they want without paying attention to the procedures according to their mood.
Moreover, Zhou Rui's family is still Madame Wang's room, and it is more prudent to deal with it, and those who need to report to the office must also report to the office, and they cannot ignore everything because they have the support of Jia Mu for a while.
Lady Xing, the mother-in-law, directly ridiculed Wang Xifeng as a "black hen in a nest", saying that she "flew everywhere with her own family, and did not care about her own affairs, but went to blind Zhang Luo for others." "It was also because of a small incident that offended jia mu when she was born: because You Shi found that several corner doors of Rong Guo Mansion were not closed, there were hidden dangers, and he wanted to help handle it but summoned the two idle mother-in-laws of Rong Guo Mansion, Wang Xifeng knew about it, so he tied up these two mother-in-laws and gave You Shi a blow.
Who knows? These two mothers-in-law were related to the mother-in-law Lady Xing's roommate, and Lady Xing, who was originally dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law Wang Xifeng, took the opportunity to slander her, saying that she made a fuss, did not put her husband's family in her eyes, and did not pay attention to Jia Mu's big birthday; You Shi stood by and watched at this time, and did not stand up and speak fairly...
Wang Xifeng, who was angry with several heads, had no choice but to let the two mother-in-laws go.
Because of this, Wang Xifeng made enemies everywhere, and he had serious problems himself, and after losing his position, he was subjected to constraints and criticism, and finally fell behind, and his fate was also "one from two to three people, crying to Jinling and mourning more." The sequel says that when she was running Jia Mu's funeral, under the influence of her, the second lady of King Xing took the opportunity to make trouble, and the next person read more jokes and did not support it, so that it was a mess, and soon she also died of illness, and before she died, she had to take care of her young daughter Liu Grandma, a relative who could not beat the eight poles.
In fact, no matter which statement is said, it confirms Wang Xifeng's sad and sighing "thin life" ending, and her experience and lessons are worthy of vigilance:
A single and rough high-pressure housekeeper is only an extensive type of management, only suitable for a short period of emergency and danger, if it is so for a long time, it is definitely not conducive to the transformation and development of Jia Province, and it also puts itself in the "deep water". At the same time, she herself is a serious "double standard", arrogant, arrogant, abusing power, and obviously eating bad consequences.
It is certainly not easy for Wang Xifeng to really manage Jia Province. In addition to being loyal to Jia Mu on the spire, it is also necessary to show loyalty to the Second Lady of King Xing and all the masters, and to the subordinates such as Ma ma, Ya Huan, servants, and so on. At the same time, we must also pay attention to the art of management, pay attention to unity, and concentrate on service.
In fact, there is no shortage of places in the book that are worth learning from in terms of housekeepers, such as: the scheming Jia Mu's "grasping the big and letting go of the small" and controlling the ability of Jia Fu between talking and laughing; the "small and broad" used by Jia Tanchun to serve people with wisdom, and Xue Baochao's humane "rigidity and softness" that convince people with affection, these management methods can be comprehensively borrowed.
The shrewd Wang Xifeng only relied on rough high-pressure management to become the housekeeper of the hundred-year-old noble Hehejia Mansion, but in the end it was thinner. Besides, there are still serious problems in themselves? When Jia Mu, who was highly respected and the supreme authority who dominated Jia Province, was no longer alive, Wang Xifeng not only exhausted himself and appeared to be useless, but also lost his only reliance, provoking rebellion and separation, and was bound to be ruthlessly kicked out by the cruel reality.
To sum up: Wang Xifeng's housekeeper "does more harm than good", only for a while there is obvious results, and then it is directly followed by negative effects. Of course, it also played a role in fueling the defeat of Jia Fu.
It is for the sake of appreciation.
【About the author】Li Dakui, post-70s, Bachelor of Laws, Guizhou Meitan people, literature lovers.
Tips: If you like this article, please forward and comment.
recommend:
Gossip "Water Margin": How is Wu Song's martial arts compared to Lin Chong?
There are administrative reasons for the fall of Jia Fu, but can management solve the fundamental problems?