The so-called growth is just to carry everything by yourself

A few days ago, I videoed with the egg egg grandmother, telling her that I scratched my hand when I cleaned the yellow bone fish, but the egg egg grandmother did not ask me if I was in pain or if I put a Band-Aid? Just asked what to eat for the egg? I said instant noodles, and there was no way to cook when my hand was scratched.

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When you grow up, no matter what you encounter, you will suffer silently, don't tell anyone, don't want to cause trouble to others, which may also be the state you feel is the best way to handle things.

Whether it is a physical or psychological problem, you need to face it yourself, tell others unnecessary explanations, or others just look at it.

Although we have worked hard, we still feel a lot of pressure in the face of fierce competition in society. Especially the fathers do not have any savings, they do not want to struggle, now need our help in life, and they have conveyed the pressure to us, they will consciously or unconsciously tell you who bought the second house; who made so much money in business; whose house is big and good. Endless comparison, they feel that it doesn't matter, because they feel that it has nothing to do with them, we can't do it because we don't have the ability, but they don't know, people are the savings accumulated by generations, and we go from college graduation to buying a house, buying a car, getting married and having children, no one gives us a penny, no one helps.

Although I didn't want to hear this, I didn't stop them, because I didn't want to explain it, and I didn't want to say anything more.

A few days ago, I saw a friend's vibrato and said: "When I can't sleep at night, I always have tears flowing, and my left eye flows to my right eye and wet the pillow." Adult stress and anxiety may increase at night, and the sense of oppression will be stronger.

Get up the next morning, wash your face to give yourself a smile, continue to go to work, continue to take the children, because the new day has begun, we have no choice but to move forward.