Growing up is a must-accept thing essay
In those years, it was easy for me to understand one-sidedly, stubbornly believe in all the beauty of the world, but the world itself is not perfect, incomplete, like filtered by a monochromatic mirror.
At that time, I would always label people one-sidedly, and the first side would be labeled, TA is a good person, TA is a bad person, TA is trustworthy, TA is true... But they don't know that the adult world contains too many false and disgusting things, and what appears on the surface is not real.
And now, I have learned to look at people's nature, not those labels, because I see that everyone has two sides, even the best people will have an ugly side, and even the worst people, in front of their lovers, will have a warm side, and when their friends are in distress, they will also present something called righteousness without hesitation.
Gradually, this surface became three-dimensional, and I knew that every object under the sun has a shadow, and if we want to really exist in this world, we can't avoid those SHADOWS. Growing up, in experience, I slowly learned to think positively and negatively, learned to tolerate, learned to accept, learned to put aside appearances to understand, and also learned to use various reasons and human flaws to explain the imperfections in life.
This is a good thing, but sometimes I feel like walking a tightrope when I grow up, I need to constantly balance various relationships, weigh all kinds of pros and cons, no longer have the momentum of my childhood, and I have lost the power of my unreserved lover, so I am getting farther and farther away from what I like.
Life may always be like this, while reminiscing and experiencing, self-scorn moments and then self-appreciation, full of contradictions to walk step by step.
Writing and writing forget the original intention, living may forget the meaning, although occasionally experience a small swing in life, but I always remind myself: do not forget the original intention! Grow up slowly