Sometimes there is no one to complain about, and the overwhelming loneliness cannot be discharged. In the dead of night, the only thing that can bring a little comfort is the movie. Movies are an inextricably linked part of our lives.
I am a very emotional person, preferring soft and warm films, watching and tearful. When touched by the plot, I think of my own encounter, and I have a lot of feelings outside the play, and I can't help myself for a long time. For example, the recently watched Korean film "I Love You" and the Japanese film "Happy Bread" and so on, as the plot progresses, the love in the heart is like a river flooding, instantly healing the long-standing knots of the heart.
There are many people in life who, like me, like to find answers to their lives in movies, and some even make it into a career. This is the case with Shui Yu (pronounced 'You') and Shui Mou, authors of a new book I recently read, "Relief Cinema: What Those Movies Taught Me."
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They are a young couple, both of them are very passionate about movies, in 2012 began to share their own film reviews on social platforms, which were liked by many netizens, and they often received letters from readers, hoping to recommend movies that could answer the confusion about school, work, love and relationships.
While seriously replying to the email, Shui Yu and Shui Mou also shared their experiences with fans. Later, in order to help more friends, they organized these letters into a book and named it "Relief Cinema". The book selects 50 worries that bother readers the most, and recommends 100 movies, and those unspeakable pains are expressed in movies.
The "Relief Cinema" is divided into five chapters:
Session 1: About Schooling – Where Exactly Will This Movie Ticket Take Me?
Session 2: About Feelings – Walk into the movie hall and meet love
Session Three: About Work – See the Curtain, Think Behind the Scenes
Scene 4: About InterpersonalIty – I am also an actor in your life
Session 5: About the Self – Open the script of life and write your own story
The style of the whole book is relaxed and wise, which is more suitable for young people to read. Which school to choose, whether to choose a major according to the wishes of parents, the handling of interpersonal relationships after graduation, and how to maintain feelings with partners, etc., Shui Yin and Shui Mou have given their own answers, and there are unfinished movies recommended for you to understand.
1. In the face of the future that has been arranged, where do you go?
"Fantastic Life" tells you:
You have only two options for an unhappy life: force yourself to accept it, or convince yourself to change.
2. Encounter a low tide when studying
The Acceptance Notice reminds you:
Some people choose to stand still because they can't see the road clearly, but they slowly lose themselves in the same way.
3, because of the introverted nature has not met love for a long time, the heart is very lonely
Shui Mou recommends that you look at this "Marriage Notice":
Happiness cannot be equated with love, don't rush to end singlehood in order to get happiness.
If this movie doesn't let you find the true meaning of happiness, there is also the "Love Clock" that was also screened: you may be lonely, but you are not alone. There are many people in this world who, like you, are waiting for the right person to come to them.
4. How to get along with your lover? How to judge the right and wrong in feelings?
The Iranian movie "A Parting" may help you find the answer.
There are three things in life that cannot be recovered: wasted time, missed opportunities, and words spoken.
I've seen this movie too. An Iranian couple, Siming and Nadir divorced as soon as they appeared. Because the two had a hard time applying for an immigrant visa, the husband refused to immigrate because he could not leave his father with Alzheimer's disease. The two quarreled, and Ximing moved away.
Nadir, who usually relied on his wife to take care of his father and take care of the housework, had to find a maid to help. The woman was pregnant at the time, but she hid it. One day Nadir came home to find that the maid had fallen to the ground without her father, and when the maid returned, the two had a fierce argument, and the next day the woman miscarried. Two families went to court over this. Where should Siming and Nadir face this change? The whole film is full of conflicts of values, there is no perfect ending, but it leaves people with a lot of deep thinking.
I believe that after watching the movie, you will have more insights into marriage.
In fact, in addition to being a chicken feather and stumbling in a place, marriage is also dependent on each other and gentle with each other. "Bread of Happiness" is a movie I really like, especially the beautiful pastoral country style.
A small couple opened a small café in the picturesque countryside, the male protagonist provides freshly made artisan bread every day, the female protagonist will make a variety of vegetable dishes, they get along with the neighbors, and provide the most appropriate spiritual comfort to the guests who come to the store.
Among the guests were little girls who had lost their mothers and old couples who were about to die, and their love warmed the hearts of others and untied each other's knots.
The heroine finally understands that the lover she wants is actually always around, and the long stream of thin water is no worse than the vigorous love. After watching the movie, my heart was particularly healed.
5, when the work encounters confusion, the movies that should be watched, Shui Yu and Shui Mou also recommend a lot. These movies tell you a philosophy of life, shallow or deep:
"Darling": Life is a steel cable, if you want to survive, you have to find a balance between using and being used.
Toy Story 4: Don't rush to say you have no choice: Hope, maybe just wait around the corner.
Chef Down: "Professional" refers to what you can do, and "passion" refers to what you want to do.
"Once Upon a Time in Hollywood": Everyone's way of facing reality is different, some people escape, some people resist, and some people just need time to slowly convince themselves to accept.
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In this "Relief Cinema", Shui Yin and Shui Mou regard fans as friends, patiently and thoughtfully tell them, and convey their love for movies and life to everyone bit by bit.
If you are also a veteran film fan, if you have also been touched by movies, if a movie has also inspired your life, you may wish to communicate with Shui Yushui in "Relief Cinema".
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