Some people say that there are three illusions in life, one is that the mobile phone is ringing, the other is that someone is knocking on the door, and the third is that he may like me, but the illusion is always an illusion.
The phone didn't get a message, no one knocked on the door, and he didn't like you as much as you might think.
One day I asked: He talks to me every day and says goodnight, how can he not like me?
He talks to you every day, maybe just because he's bored, and he says goodnight every day, maybe just because he wants to be vague with you.
I remember seeing a movie called "He Doesn't Really Like You That Much", the heroine of the movie always thinks of ambiguity as a like, and after a blind date, she was in a good mood, she called her best friend and said, "I think he will text me before he comes home". As a result, her phone never lit up, and her friend comforted her: he will call you, he will send you a message, so she began to wait, take a shower, etc., practice yoga and so on, her eyes have been staring at the phone, but she still can't wait for the other party's reply.
She's confused, and during blind dates and dinners, the other person will clearly remember what she likes to eat and drink, which doesn't explain his interest in me? So she started making all sorts of excuses, maybe he didn't have time to look at his phone, maybe he ran out of battery, maybe he had something more urgent and important to do, maybe he lost his phone, maybe he was hit by a car, but what she didn't know was that the boy wasn't interested in her.
Seriously, it's obvious whether a person loves you or not, and his every move is filled with concern for you.
If it's not sure enough, then unfortunately, he really doesn't like you that much.
Because loving someone cannot be hidden, even if he does not say it, it will be reflected in action, not loving a person cannot be hidden, even if you do not want to admit it, it will not change the fact that he does not care about you.
Everything you do for him, he will think that this is a trivial matter, and he will not refuse your efforts, let alone give you feedback.
When arguing, the one who bows your head first is always you, and if you don't take the initiative to contact him, he will never contact you.
He also asks you to think about how he feels for him and the people around him, but he never thinks about your feelings, and all that just goes to show that he really doesn't like you that much.
So, don't be stupid, don't always get drunk, hide in the room late at night and cry, don't always cry until your eyes are red and swollen before falling asleep, then your eyes will hurt.
What there are many people in the world who can't love is that if someone chooses to leave you, someone will come to you, and you will not be lonely all the time.
So, don't take the initiative anymore, don't be humble anymore, don't sustain anymore, don't wait any longer.
Because, you can't wait, you can't wait.