Raising the strength of the whole family to fight a man is ridiculous and lamentable

The three-child policy is coming, and the central government, in order to further optimize the family planning policy, allows a couple to have three children.

See this news. I have a lot of emotions, and I will tell the story of my cousin who secretly gave birth to three children in 1989.

Shandong people have always attached importance to men, and my cousin gave birth to two daughters in-laws whose in-laws and in-laws were obviously difficult to see. The four generations of the old Xu family have been single-handed, and in this generation, is it difficult to break the incense?

The father-in-law spoke: "From now on, you don't have to do any work, just raise your body, and next time you must have a boy." Then he pointed at his mother-in-law: "You don't have to cut the rope anymore, tomorrow go to the set to buy ten pounds of eggs, let Xu Hua eat one per meal, every month to ensure that she eats an old hen, you see her thin like bean sprouts, how can you give birth to grandchildren if you don't nourish your body!" ”

My cousin was shocked and scared when she heard it, and felt that the pressure was too great.

Every time she ate eggs, her mother-in-law watched from the side, watching her swallow and not allowing her to save the eggs for her two daughters.

In-laws are more than sixty years old, every day early out and late return, they planted a few acres of greenhouse vegetables, the greenhouse is hot and damp, the joints of the two people have long had problems, knee joint effusion is swollen like a ball, but still grit their teeth and insist, the second granddaughter is overborn, the fine is more than three thousand yuan, which almost takes a year's worth of vegetables to earn.

The second daughter just turned one year old, the cousin was pregnant again, she felt unspeakably afraid and irritable, what if this fetus is a daughter again?

In June, when she was four months pregnant, the weather was too hot to cover her, and she could see at a glance that she was pregnant without thick clothes. How can this be done? The whole family discussed a bit, saying that the cousin's mother broke her leg and needed to be taken care of, and the cousin went back to her mother's house to serve her mother, so that she could come back after the mother's family was born, and then she would be punished to beat them.

Because the two towns are more than thirty kilometers apart, as long as you go back to your mother's house and don't go out of the yard, the pregnancy should not come back.

Every day, I hid in the East Wing with trepidation, and after more than five months, I saw the due date.

At dawn on this day, the cousin had just gotten up to feed the chickens in the yard, and a dozen young people jumped in from the courtyard wall, some of them were militiamen from the in-laws' village, and some of them did not know, they tied up their cousins with all their hands and feet and carried them to the tractor parked outside, and the cousin's mother shouted to the ground. The tractor carried the dozen or so people away in the dust.

When they arrived in the county seat, more than a dozen pregnant women were concentrated at the door of the county maternal and child health hospital, and soon they were pulled to the Qing Palace in the month, and the older one was given a oxytocin injection. The pregnant women were then placed in one room out of six.

Her cousin's stomach ached, and she knew what it meant after giving birth to two children. As it got dark and her stomach ached more and more, she pulled the sheets on the hospital bed into several strips and tied them together in amazement from the other pregnant women, tied one end to the iron window ledge, and threw the other end down, and she was going to escape from the second floor!

This is almost impossible for a pregnant woman who is about to give birth, but that's how miracles happen. My cousin slid down the rope from a window without a window railing! Later, she said that as long as she thought that this fetus might be a boy, she would ignore nothing, and only by giving birth to a boy could she complete the task, and her firm belief made her desperate.

In the darkness of the night, she ran all the way, the amniotic fluid broke, and the blood flowed all the way down her legs. Finally, unable to run, she knocked on the door of a family with only one old couple. The woman who gave birth had a child very quickly, and the child was born before ten o'clock in the night, and it was indeed a boy.

The child was born, nothing was afraid, and twenty days later the cousin returned to the village with the child in her arms.

The fine was indispensable, this time it was fined five thousand, and the cousin-in-law was also beaten up in the village committee. Everyone said that it was not good to tear down the house, because there was a precedent for pushing the house in the village, and the in-laws said happily: Push it, push it down and then rebuild it, and if you can't build a good adobe to build a room to live together.

However, the house was not pushed, and the family looked at the newborn baby boy and closed their mouths happily. When he was admitted to Beihang in 2010, his grandparents were long gone, so they must have been extremely happy to see their grandson go to college in another life, right?