Faye Wong has a high status in the music world and is very successful in her career, but she has experienced 2 divorces emotionally.
After the ups and downs, what kind of views do she have on love? Learn from her with me.
1, every soul is lonely, when you are lonely is the most awake, no matter how intimate the relationship has some places that cannot be communicated.
I agree with this passage that there will always be a desire to be understood in our hearts, but at the same time we must also be soberly aware that this is difficult to achieve.
The people closest to us don't know you, this is the norm, what we should pursue is to know ourselves.
To be able to do this is already something to be thankful for.
The most frightening thing is that you don't know yourself, and help people outside to harshly rebuke and treat the most precious you in the world.
2, a man's most important thing is integrity and frankness, don't let me guess left and right, say a set of do a set of OK.
This is too important, there are often love raiders to teach women a variety of small tricks to grasp the heart of men.
I think that if you need to move these careful men, you can basically just give up.
True love does not have to play tricks, and the other party will not make you feel bad hot and cold.
Good love is simple and natural, you don't need to constantly guess against him, two people just live naturally.
3, if you only grasp love, life will be disappointed in the end, and it is love that has been going on, not just love.
This passage is really well said and women should keep in mind.
Life can't be perfect, romantic plots in movies and TV series never happen, that's unreal.
Women must recognize this first so that they will not be overly disappointed in love.
4) There is nothing in this world that you can rely on forever, except yourself. If having children is for one's own future, this starting point itself will not have a future, and one cannot place one's future on others, including men, children, parents, and so on. That part is unreliable.
The child's part Faye Wong really said too well, put the future on the child, this starting point will not have a future.
The child also has his own life, and it is fortunate that he can take care of himself.
Transferring one's life to one's children and giving them a heavy burden should not be the purpose of having children.
Everyone should take care of themselves, and if you expect others to be responsible for themselves, you must first love each other.
Unfortunately, there are many parents who prefer sons to daughters, or selfishly do not pay love, but finally come to ask for filial piety, children lack love from an early age, and a hard life.
He may not have wanted to be born into such a family, but he was forced to take responsibility.
5, I am a person who values feelings, always feel that love is a fate, everything is the arrangement of fate, when a person is in love, it is like a demon, you can not escape, nor can you be very objective, sober to stand up and criticize yourself.
This paragraph is Faye Wong's sober understanding of herself, which is very important. If you know that you will lose your mind when you touch love, you must be more careful with your feelings. Don't invest in uncertainty, or you won't know how many more years you'll have to dwell on and leave behind.
Not everyone can face love rationally, and only then will someone say that the IQ of love will decline as soon as it is touched, if you are so soft and self-controlled. Then it is more important to choose the object carefully, first slow down and wait, love slowly.