Waiting to become a better person tomorrow Why are so many people driving back to the underground garage now not willing to go upstairs and go home?

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Today is October 28th, the twelfth day of the ninth month of the lunar calendar. Wednesday.

I looked at the perpetual calendar on my phone and said today is World Men's Health Day.

Remember a sentence that I forgot where I saw it:

Never tell your family that you're tired. The word "tired" should never be mentioned. The kind of tiredness they can understand is the kind of fatigue that works overtime in the factory, grabs the harvest in the countryside, leaves early and returns late, and is physically weak. They don't understand the tiredness of being dazed about the future, it's a kind of mental tiredness.

There is also a picture of a cloud: someone accompanied by the following text:

alas! It's so tiring to be a cloud! .....

You float a day to try, exhausting me.

It seems to be that there is a song, sung by Andy Lau, and there are lyrics in it: Men cry, cry, it is not a sin.

Think of the Q&A that was highly praised on Zhihu:

<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >why so many people who drive back to the underground garage now don't want to go upstairs and go home? </h1>

Why now a lot of people who drive back to the underground garage are not willing to go upstairs to go home, willing to stay in the car for 30 minutes or more, or look at the mobile phone, or in a daze, or listen to music, what is their inner world, when they get home, why don't they rush upstairs to go home, I also have this experience and feeling, I hope that everyone has a common experience to say why they don't want to go home. What a monologue everyone has in their hearts. Hope to reply, hope to answer.

"I don't want to go home after work because pushing the car door is a watershed. Push the car door and come home, as a man, you have to face the trivial things in life.

"When I enter the house, I am no longer me, but the father of a child, the son of a father, the husband of a woman, the person on whom the whole family counts on and depends, and it is certainly impossible to be yourself anymore; so I can only be alone in the car after work, think quietly, and smoke a cigarette."

"Only then did I feel that this body still belonged to me. My mental space is free to think of something broader. ”

02

Zhang Xiaoxian said a very interesting sentence:

I've always wanted to be a better person, more motivated, more motivated, smarter, harder working, more ambitious, more hard-working, more stoic, and healthier and slimmer; but every time I'm full, I want to sleep and say to myself: I'll wait until tomorrow to become a better person.

Wait for tomorrow to be a better person. This may be a word of comfort for many people. Every tomorrow becomes today, and it becomes yesterday, and we are still the same.

So, "if you suddenly don't know what's the right thing to do, the most worthwhile, the most deserving, do everything that makes you better, brighter, and smiles better."

03

When I was young, the places I wanted to go were far away, the things I wanted were very expensive, the things I wanted to do were very big, and the people who wanted to be touched were very dragged. When people are old, they find that the places they want to go are actually very close, the things they really want are very cheap, all they want to do are ordinary things, and the people they like are very humble.

A few days ago, on Ang Lee's sixty-sixth birthday, someone posted such a passage from him:

"When you are young, you think that you don't have much experience and make more mistakes, and when you get older, you will become more and more controllable, which is not the case at all." Now that I know more about the moves, I feel that it is becoming more and more difficult to make movies, unlike when I was young, in fact, how to do it is right. ”

Why is it that man is more cautious as he gets older, because he fails too many times, and God has allowed him to fail less and less, and he can't afford to lose more and more.