Since the 21 st century, China has undergone historical changes in reform and opening up, and people's thinking is also undergoing changes. Women gradually left the family and began to play an increasingly important role in society, and the status of men and women gradually tended to be fully equal. Once women's dependence on men and even their families was also weakening. Strong women are no longer a new word, and women have gradually achieved dual independence of material and spiritual. And men began to stand still, stagnating, lying on the merit books of their ancestors thousands of years ago, eating the old books, thinking that women are women, inseparable from men. It is undeniable that men's physical and physiological advantages are indeed incomparable to women. To correct this, I am not writing this paragraph to provoke a battle for the power of men and women, nor to discuss the possibility that men and women can leave no one.
Returning to the theme, "new matriarchal society", in simple terms, refers to the phenomenon that men are invisible in the family, women are alone or most of the time alone to take care of children, the elderly in the family, and work at work. (Commonly known as "widowed marriage")
More and more men began to disappear in the family unit, the pressure of society, the pressure of the family, the pressure of work, the socializing that did not play, the complicated life made them lose their enthusiasm for the family, and gradually became a money-making machine. Less and less hair, higher and higher blood pressure, endless complaints from families, and when the heart is bored, throw out a sentence "How hard I work outside every day, you know?" When you got home, you complained to me. "Helpless, helpless, or helpless...
Most people are in constant quarrels in exchange for a brand new divorce certificate. Where exactly did the problem arise?
The reason for the error is that the temper of the husband and wife is too explosive. Don't try to refute it, superficial reasons are also reasons. At a deeper level, I think it can be summarized into two aspects: first, the human factor; second, the social factor.
The empathy of both men and women is particularly important at this time, in the final analysis, because both sides do not understand each other, do not understand how tired and difficult the other party is. The solution is also simple, calm down and think about it, or exchange identities with each other to feel it, only by empathizing, can we fairly do a good chat on the table.
I have to admit that the development of today's society is indeed changing with each passing day, and the country's economy is also developing rapidly, but behind this is the result of the silent efforts of countless people. The increasing development of online new media, although it has made a huge contribution to social development, but at the same time, people's anxiety is getting heavier and heavier, people's hearts are restless, and it is difficult to sink their hearts to do things in a down-to-earth manner. But we can't completely shut down the Internet because of food waste. What we need is to restrain our desires, return to the real world, do more practical things, some down-to-earth things, and only when we look at the world rationally with a sober mind can we gain self-worth and meaning.
Finally, I would like to say that as an 80s and 90s generation, the life of the old and the young has just begun, and I hope to give more vacations and time to accompany my family, after all, life is not only life, but also family.