Recently, I saw a video of Lu Junyu, a 6-year-old child from Guangdong, on the screen stage to show off his Chinese martial arts. Lu Junyu, who is only 6 years old and has a small body, his hands and feet are precisely in place, one move and one sonorous and powerful, through martial arts performances, he exerts his great energy and attracts the attention of the audience.
Lu Junyu's father is actually a highly qualified martial arts instructor, known as the "seventh generation of Huang Feihong". Therefore, Lu Junyu has been exposed to martial arts since he was a child, and like many parents, Lu Dad, who has professional skills in martial arts online, has more strict requirements for his children to learn martial arts. Lu's father has to take several classes a day, Lu Junyu has to take several classes, such learning time has "doubled" beyond the learning time of other children, Lu Junyu has paid more efforts.
After finishing the study of martial arts professional courses, Lu Junyu, who returned home, also had to arrange the training of physical fitness and basic skills, which can be said to be a step that did not fall behind. Such a systematic and long-term martial arts learning process, for children who are still young, is naturally quite difficult to achieve and it is very difficult to stick to.
Lu Junyu's mother said that at the beginning, Lu Junyu was very passive about the martial arts training and would cry. It was not until he won the gold medal of the Chinese Martial Arts Competition as the youngest player in the whole field that Lu Junyu felt the honor and achievements brought to him by this sports project, so he gradually became no longer needing the "persecution" of his parents, and began to take the initiative to accept the pain caused by martial arts training, willing to pay his energy and sweat for martial arts.
So, when others asked Lu Junyu's children:
"Then you see how tired and hard you are when you practice, you are crying, and they all let you practice, so why don't you get angry?"
"Don't get angry."
"Why?"
"Because of martial arts, someone is injured and I can help him."
And all this has witnessed Lu Junyu's growth and transformation, bringing him to a bigger stage. Through martial arts, this 6-year-old boy learned to persevere unremittingly, improving his precious autonomy and enhancing his sense of justice.
The story of Lu Junyu's children is the shadow of many people who practice martial arts "one minute on stage, ten years offstage", in the process of constantly strengthening their own skills, absorbing the positive energy of martial arts, practicing the spirit of not being afraid to pay and self-transcendence. If you want to gain the ability to excel, this is a "necessary path" worth taking.
Finally, we should also note that Lu Junyu's parents play an important role in the training process. As a child's parent, we must give the child the correct guidance and attentive companionship, and sometimes do not see the child can not bear the pain and give up decisively.
"When I was a kid, didn't I understand anything, and didn't my parents understand them?" Why don't you let me learn XX..."
"If only my parents had asked me to insist on learning XX down..."
Such an inadvertent tone of complaint, I think many people are not strangers to it.
The vast majority of young children cannot take responsibility for their own temporary emotions and thoughts, and when they grow up, they remember that they are full of regrets and regrets... Therefore, when parents are emotional when their children are engaged in hard sports training, it is best to take this into account and decide whether to really give up.